posted September 03, 2004 01:31 PM         

Me: September 4,1968
Him: December 28,1971

If you have any insight, it's very appreciated.

posted September 03, 2004 03:12 PM         

You may want to post birth places and birth times.

Ahem, not to change the subject or anything, but have you by chance registered your "Virgo" status in the Astrology forum, "Poll" thread???hmmm. just curious.
perhaps when you have a sec. lol

***rubs hands together, secretly thinking, "go, Virgos, its your Birfday"

posted September 06, 2004 03:42 AM         

If you go to astro.com, click on free horiscopes... on the right hand side of the screen there'll be a yellow box asking you to input your info... do that. Then, come back to the free horiscopes page and click on AstroClick Partner

From there you should be able to put his info in and click on each aspect for an interpretation of your composite chart.

posted September 06, 2004 09:37 PM         

Anyway, thank you it's great to hear from you.

posted September 06, 2004 10:57 PM         

If he has a Gemini moon than he will find communication impossible to stop. You must cut off communication on his side if you are to get over him. If he has a Taurus moon that's not so much of a problem.

posted September 08, 2004 07:53 AM         

This was the basic problem and in my eyes, the reason that broke it up. He has many other reasons that do not involve his part in the problem (in his not so humble opinion) He does not want anything to do with me now and I have not tried, nor will I ever try to contact him since he has asked me not to. Do you see why I am confused? He promised to be my friend, since friendship is my main requirement for a relationship (Aqua moon) and he failed less than three weeks after and cut off ties completely.

posted September 08, 2004 09:15 AM         

Sun in Virgo Sun in Capricorn
With only one real drawback, this can be the most marvellous combination. There is a natural affinity. Both of you are earthy, practical, hard working, well mannered, fairly traditional in outlook and rather reserved. Neither of you will embarass the other or make waves when duty calls. What can be a headache is the workaholic tendencies of both of you which can often pull you away from romance . Both of you feel slightly guilty about indulgences, relaxation and light hearted fun. Both of you can be slightly tunnel visioned about the practical affairs of life. You need to keep the flames of passion alight by giving yourself (or forcing yourself to make) time for love. It works marginally better as Virgo lady to Capricorn man since the energies are more evenly matched though he is even more likely than his counterpart to spend too many hours in the office. Since Virgo is fairly self sufficient this in itself is not an instant disaster.

Moon in Aquarius Sun in Capricorn
Not a total success since you do not appreciate their traditionalist lifestyle and upmarket aims. You also find them too materialistic and not caring enough about the philosophical issues which appeal to you. Certainly they are never going to crowd you since they work such long hours. So you can be free to wander. But you will never agree on friends. They like the leaders in the community. You adore oddballs, eccentrics and pioneers.

Moon in Aquarius Moon in Taurus
Two hugely stubborn, entirely opposite personalities, you neither want the same things emotionally nor will you give way even marginally to suit the other. You want freedom, change, excitement and space. They want security, no change, a solid rooted existence with them firmly in control. Their possessiveness though often hidden behind a lazy smile would unnerve you. They certainly would provide you with all the comforts but you are less concerned with cuddles, indulgences and the like than most. You would feel suffocated by their very physical approach, fenced in by their need to be together, especially sexually.

Moon in Aquarius Moon in Gemini
Bright, breezy, fast moving and highly talkative together, you would think life and love was made for you at the beginning. But you have more an intellectual contact than anything else. You fear close involvement and they rarely stand still. Their mood changes like the wind and what you agreed yesterday would be out of the window today. The amusement factor is high but the durability factor doubtful. When the going got tough both of you would be off like a shot. Neither of you is connected well enough to your body or your feelings. There is little to nourish the relationship long term or recharge its batteries. Words are not enough.

posted September 09, 2004 09:14 AM         

Gemini moons will usually start talking again-if they see or hear from you, they can't help themselves, but they talk a lot too. At this point sounds like Taurus moon. Is he very much into fine foods and especially wines? Did he encourage you to dress in a feminine and sexy way? Gemini moons usually don't do that, they prefer movies, talking. I have a Gemini moon ex, and they are really into friendship.

In any case, he sounds selfish and very angry.
There is someone else out there who will eclipse his memory. Someone who will move you, and make your heart sing.

Take care of yourself in this month okay? Get your hair done, buy some clothes, be good to yourself no matter what. Now is when you need it.

posted September 14, 2004 04:27 AM         

I recently recalled a conversation w/ his mother and they had stated his birth time, but I can't say for sure...I think they said 2, or maybe 3 in the afternoon. that gives him a gemini rising, if calcs are correct.

That could explain a lot, plus (yes, I posted to "Venus in Aqua" already) his venus in aqua. If you are interested or bored, check it out. I am so glad that I found this website. Linda's accuracy (not perfect, but no one is 100%) and all of her hard work was never in vain. I've shopped around enough to see, as I know you have. I don't ever think she doubted her abilities (If she was like most aries I have met.)

Anyway, I'm rambling...thanks again.

posted September 19, 2004 12:38 PM         

It's a fact that a lot of men like to be won, like the heroine in a romance novel, they have certain ideas about how love is to progress, absolutely must be this way or that. Then when things don't go according to plan, love conquers all, that is the lover comes to either claim what is his, or is humbled. If you are in between you are a mouse. So, if he thinks like that which are you? To be honest men are caught in the role of being whatever a woman wants.

And most have seriously firm ideas about what they want and don't want. That is very unromantic but that's what we have to deal with. If he is worth it to you, play the game, if not then don't make yourself sick over it.

LIke I said before, now is a good time to buy new clothes, and take care of yourself, what I meant was. Buy new clothes, put them on, do your hair and makeup fantastic, and make sure he hears about where you went, who you were with, and what a great time you had. That's not manipulation, that's having a good time. Once he knows you are happy, he will be free of his anger and see how silly it is to pout and sulk.

I have never in my in my life been involved with a man who didn't try to get in touch with me again, when he knew i was doing well. If I was unhappy who knows? But every single one contacted me again over the years, or at least was open to communication. It just stirs up a man's ego to see a woman suffer, I am not saying hurt him because if he was calling you every day I wouldn't recommend this. My opinion is really different than other women's in that I think men's egos are pampered by worry, and stress on the woman's part, not happiness.

Maybe boredom? I only know from experience that a happy woman makes a man look past his ego to what's important.

Other wise he thinks she is playing the victim card, and he already feels guilty and angry enough. Men tell me that they feel women are always playing victim, so if that's the case then I guess it's my duty to play happy woman. It's not that hard to do, once you get the hang of it, but after a breakup it's like an illness, you got to get it out of your system, don't dwell on his problems. You will always love him, but you can't feel this way anymore.

There are so many big things in life you have to do, did you know that in India if you had $30 you could live like a Queen for a day?

posted September 21, 2004 03:08 AM         

You stated, "Then when things don't go according to plan, love conquers all, that is the lover comes to either claim what is his, or is humbled. If you are in between you are a mouse. So, if he thinks like that which are you? To be honest men are caught in the role of being whatever a woman wants."

I am a bit confused by this statement. I certainly know he's not a victim.

In response to "Once he knows you are happy, he will be free of his anger and see how silly it is to pout and sulk."

I am pretty sure he isn't losing any sleep or is pouting or sulking. He has certain views about women, and they make him angry in general.

I am not saying hurt him because if he was calling you every day I wouldn't recommend this."

He will never contact me and hasn't since 8/14. The last thing he said to me was that he did not want me to contact hime either. My head certainly knows I need to move on, it is just naturally daunting for my heart to follow at times. You know, withdrawls :/ I get the impression that you are sort of saying "Get over it!" Well, you are certainly right about that, however, when I fall in love, it takes time. I know, you already told me that in an earlier post

I just wanted to respond to some of what you said. I think you took some time and said a lot of things. I did start back to school today, and on the whole am feeling better. With equinox ritual, I can release alot of this crap, too. I also am starting back up at a temporary job with a boss who is DIVINE to work for. I guess I just have a relapse now and then, but it is encouraging for me to be experiencing true happiness on a more regular basis again I just have to remember that I am not out of the woods yet. Sometimes bad feelings sort of sneak up on me

Thank you for being giving with your time. MUCH APPRECIATED.

-A