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posted October 26, 2004 09:42 PM         

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hey, im new, im a scorpio female. and i was just wondering what everyone thinks about aquarian guys, i've always felt they were like these intangible creatures who you could never quite reach... ??? any thoughts????.. im head over heels for one right now.

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posted October 26, 2004 10:39 PM         

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Welcome to the club . . .

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posted October 26, 2004 10:52 PM         

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Hunt around here and the Astrology forum - there's quite a bit of hub-bub about them right now.

Funny, a few months ago Scorpio guys were all the rage

As for me, I'm married to a Water Bearer, and I'll echo Linda's advice from Love Signs:
They do what they do because they are what they are.
Take your Aquarian as an individual, as himself, wholly and fully.
Respect him and have reason for him to respect you (as a Scorp, that shouldn't be difficult).
Trust him. At his finest, he embodies nobility (see the quote involving Toodles that LG gives at the as one of the "headlines" in the Pisces/Aqua Chapter of Love Signs).
And, as I said more eloquently somewhere in this forum, know that there is within him a deep well of emotion with which his Air doesn't always know how to deal. If he loves you, don't necessarily expect him to proclaim it ad nauseum. He has a hard enough time navigating and communicating his feelings as it is.

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posted October 27, 2004 02:03 PM         

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I second that welcome to the box. It can be ruff!!!!

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posted October 27, 2004 03:52 PM         

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thanks proxieme for the aqua guy info. they're really hard to understand.. but i guess thats what i like about them (every guy i've fallen is an aquarius). I think they're aloofness, and the fact that most of them are BEAUTIFUL draw people to them

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posted October 27, 2004 04:35 PM         

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OMG!!!!! What do you mean all the guys you have fallen for have been Aqua men. Are you serious. Poor thing it is a wonder you are not crazy. I am so inlove with one right now its crazy and he is yes so very hard to understand. I struggle to do that most of the time. I had one other Aqua guy and he was the exact same way. If this does not make it I will definetly be standoffish a lil if I meet another one. I will really have to check his chart out first.

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posted October 27, 2004 07:25 PM         

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It's true, aqua guys can drive someone crazy. and trust me, im crazy... ive been in love with one aqua guy for like 5 years. But i dunno... why is everyone so crazy about them, i know why im crazy about them, but i dunno what anyone else thinks about them

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posted October 28, 2004 02:33 AM         

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I'm crazy about them. Actually, I met a very weird Aquarian (not the one I'm IN LOVE with) and he was very moody. What a drama queen . He must have had some other weird aspects because he didn't act a thing like an aquarian . . .

At least, the way I like to think of Aquas *sigh* beautiful, kind, different, hard to get . . . there goes the Sag in me, running around, trying to hunt down an elusive Aquarian. Oh, well. What can a girl do?

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posted October 28, 2004 09:13 AM         

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They are certainly dramatic, I know one with Venus in Capricorn, who was the player when he was young. He was well known for his endowment and bragged about it, when I asked him if that made him happy he said. Of course not, I want to be respected and loved, with one woman, just not a housewife type.

Then he told me that women treated him like a male prostitute since his skills were so much in demand, he couldn't find the kind woman he wanted. I imagined he settled with an equally dramatic, respectful woman with equally large endowments. he married, a quiet Sag artist who dressed dramatically with plenty of cleavage.

Once I can imagine the kind of woman a man would be happy with, I just fade out the picture and think of myself as his much needed friend. I knew she'd leave eventually. Sure enough, he married one, left her and we are now friends. Older and wiser, but Aqua men are a little crazy when young. I will always see him that way.

I prefer less dramatic men, quiet, serious and deep, I think it takes time for Aquas to get there.

Natasha
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posted October 28, 2004 10:39 AM         

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That is something cause my guy has Venus in cap and he is a trip and a half. YOu almost described him. But I am finding a method to his madness. The more I act uninterested and ignore his butt the more he pushes on me. I have told him at leat three times in the last week that it ws over and he either ignores what Iv'e said or he keeps asking to see me. I saw him at the Gym last night was leaving shortly after he got there. I waved at im from a distance he gave me a head nod I proceeded to get my things and leave I looked up he was standing behind me smiling. ( I was like what the - - - - ) I turned around he was just standing there looking hurt and confused. When they cannot understand you it bothers them cause they study you hard and try to pick your feelings. He just grabbed me and hugged me got closer and closer in my face next thing I know he had stolen a kiss from my lips and jetted off to go shoot ball. All this after telling him On Monday that we should go our seperate ways. Did he not get it. So I am learning. What I am learning is that I can have him just the way I want him if only I push my stuff aside for a minute. Aqua men are a mess. I am a Pisces but with a heavy Aqua influence Aqua moon, Venus in Aqua Merc in Aqua. Ao I will detatch when I have too...

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posted October 28, 2004 04:48 PM         

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Oh my god, Mama mia, i love that gym story, it reminds me of how a typical aqua guy is. They're my weakness, so, i love to read about them. But yeah, i do notice when you ask an aquarian guy for something or you say something to him its like it went right over his head, and then the next day, he'll do something completely weird, that makes you realize, "ok, i guess he did hear me". I love that about them, *sighs*.

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posted October 28, 2004 04:57 PM         

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Retards is more like it...

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posted October 28, 2004 05:37 PM         

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sounds like my Aqua guy to a T...the more you act disinterested or mysterious, he's all over you. but never, ever compromise his freedom or threaten it.

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posted October 28, 2004 05:49 PM         

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Yeah they like a close book, you have to keep them intrigued about you. Too much to soon they act like they don't know you. I do not think that you have to be that way all the time just until you hook them,cause then they are differnt people. It has been time when my guy will try to see me all the time. Has been a time when we saw each other everyday for a week straight. So I decided you want you space buddy you got just hope it does not take your breath away.

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posted October 29, 2004 09:11 PM         

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Oooh!! Aqua guys!! Having a Mars in Aqua and quite a few air signs, as well as a Aqua brother, I feel I know them quite well. Very friendly, inquisitive, opinionated, outspoken, aloof, helpful and free is how I think of them.
I think being a Scorp is a big help as you are both fixed signs, and also you are mysterious and Aquas (that I know anyway) love mystery and finding out about you, especially if their not quite sure how you feel about them!! An Aqua guy I once new was very interested in me since I met him, and as I was flattered by the attention but also unsure of how I really felt about him, I kept a distance between us, which definitly seemed to excite him and keep it all fresh and light, which seemed to be perfect for him. I just had a feeling it would never work out if we actually got together, then he suddenly had to move and that was it!! Never seen him again! Very strange..!! Anyways!! Hope this helps you somehow!!

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posted October 29, 2004 09:15 PM         

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Oh and btw, as a fellow Scorpio; Welcome to LindaLand ScorpioSphinx!! :baloons:
Youll find quite a few lovely Scorps around here!!!

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