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Topic: VENUS AND AFFECTION
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OdessaStar unregistered
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posted December 31, 2004 02:49 AM
GemStar,You are awesome to type that out for me! I guess this means I should be more demonstrative ... and risk rejection. =) Kind of a tough situation considering that he and I are alike, hehe. Thank you again. What are the major diff's between Ven in Cancer and Ven in Taurus? I'm not familiar with those IP: Logged |
GemStar unregistered
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posted December 31, 2004 06:56 AM
O: If I were you...I would check out his Mars sign as well. That shows how someone goes after what they want....I have found that to be extremely helpful when I am trying to figure out what the heck my guy is doing (with regards to moving in my direction or not). Also, the person's moon is wonderful when it comes to understanding how their emotions evolve. Google anything you want...For example-"Mars in Cancer" and you will have a plethera of options to explore...enjoy!Happy New Year 2005!! GemStar IP: Logged |
sassygrrrl unregistered
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posted December 31, 2004 01:59 PM
Venus in Scorpio here Ditto what sweetlibra said. IP: Logged |
Gemini Nymph unregistered
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posted January 01, 2005 01:07 AM
Venus in GeminiFirst of all, just showing up at all is a sign of affection for me. LOL. I further show affection by wanting to carrying on a conversation with the person and share my thoughts and ideas with them. In other words, I pay attention and open up to my partner. I want my partner to feel that I am interested in him. I'm a very playful partner - I like to keep affection light-hearted, cheerful and fun. I like to be inventive and creative and try to come up with things that would both surprise and delight my partner. Also I consider being flexable and willing to do things my partner enjoys a sign of affection. IP: Logged |
Sun_Scorpion unregistered
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posted January 01, 2005 10:54 AM
Hey wow!! Welcome back Gemini Nymph!! I thought u had left us forever! IP: Logged |
Gemini Nymph unregistered
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posted January 01, 2005 12:32 PM
Thank you, Sun Scorp. Noreenz found me on another forum and encouraged me to come back. So you can credit/blame her. LOL!IP: Logged |
Sun_Scorpion unregistered
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posted January 01, 2005 12:35 PM
Well sought out Noreenz!!! IP: Logged |
sue g unregistered
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posted January 01, 2005 01:37 PM
Venus in Scorpio - passionately, extremely intense and never balanced - wanna possess the other!!! xxIP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 65653 From: Saturn next to Charmaine Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 03, 2005 12:58 AM
Venus in Scorpio--YIKES! Just kidding. ------------------ "Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark IP: Logged |
lovely* unregistered
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posted January 04, 2005 03:33 PM
venus in virgo. i show affection with good rub downs, i like to cook, taking care of little tasks and remembering the little seemingly insignificant bits of info on my mate. with venus in 3rd house, i also express affection verbally. i give feedback and communicate easily. on the downside, i nag and correct my mate's habits quite a bit...something i need help with. welcome back gem. were you @ the "about" forum by any chance? its dedicated to professionals and intermediate astrologers. its a good one. i hope you participate here more!
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Aquarian Girl unregistered
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posted January 04, 2005 08:02 PM
Venus in Sag... I'm very playful, fun-loving and affectionate in love. I LOVE to do things with my partner, go places, see things, travel as much as I can. Plus everything Pixelpixie said I like being cute and flirty... plus my Venus is in the 3rd house. I'm very expessive. Talkative. I love talking about how I feel. quote: I tend to build the confidence of every man I am involved with. I find the things that are unique to them and make sure they know they are seen.
I do that too, but I always put it down to my Libra Rising making me a flatterer/encourager. In fact, my ex-husband always says that he wouldn't have even achieved half the things he did unless he was married to me (he was very successful professionally after leaving the military)... because I was so supportive and encouraging. I don't know if I believe that cause he's very smart and capable and talented (no really!)... but he insists. IP: Logged |
pixelpixie Knowflake Posts: 474 From: ON Canada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 04, 2005 09:44 PM
Yeah, it really helps to hear it! ( I have both Mercury and Pluto in Libra too...) I mean, everyone needs encouragement, but especially the ones we care about.. if I feel it, I say it... if I have to search for it, I'll find something, and I will let them know. They especially want to know about their sexual prowess too. Only real, personal stuff.. not generic.. but actual true to them stuff. I know this isn't something people need advice on, but I think women would be surprised how many men never hear how _____ or ___ their ___ is. and how it makes you feel........... Seriously!IP: Logged |
Aquarian Girl unregistered
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posted January 04, 2005 11:59 PM
Yah, but... the way to a man's heart I think is food and flattery... and of course... sex! hahahaha. never fails. But no, I'm just like that in general. I'm very good at giving sincere compliments. And I love to do it too. I like making feel good about themselves and what they have to ffer to the world. IP: Logged |
pixelpixie Knowflake Posts: 474 From: ON Canada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 05, 2005 12:02 AM
Me too... *birds chirping* (and you are hot hot hot!!!!) *sincerely* IP: Logged |
Gemini Nymph unregistered
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posted January 05, 2005 04:20 AM
Thank you lovely - I'm not sure which forum you're referring to. Obviously I wasn't there, or I'd know what it was. LOL. Also I have been without internet access for over the holidays.I'm trying to not be too much of a presence around here and be much more selective with my responses. I've learned I'm not that well recieved by quite a few here (despite what some have tried to tell me to the contrary - I appreciate it though ). So there's no reason for me to be spending time and effort answering people who don't what to hear from me. IP: Logged |
OdessaStar unregistered
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posted January 05, 2005 05:50 AM
GemStar, thanks for the pointers! And I hope your year started off with a bang.GeminiNympth, I can relate to how you are feeling (I think I recall that you and I have very similar charts?). Sometimes I let a few individuals ruin it for me ... I'm not sure if saying this will help, but your presence has always been appreciated, and I'm glad to hear that you will be popping in and out. For myself personally, I've come to realize that the people who do care are worth a few who have other issues. =) Love, Odessa IP: Logged |
26taurus unregistered
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posted January 05, 2005 06:46 PM
Venus in Gemini. I express affection by suprising him. Leaving cards or notes in random places, buying something little for him for no reason. Keeping it light and fun. Being a goofball and making him laugh. I verbalize it alot, giving him lots of compliments. When I love a guy, I see all the good things about him and like to tell him what I love about him. I also love to give my man backrubs, foot rubs, lots of hugs and kisses. Not in an annoying way though. I'm not a complete cling-on. lol Maybe that's the Taurus in me, I'm super cuddly and just love to touch and feel....skin...... Love to wrap my arms around someone at night and take in that guy smell. Mmmmm.... Yep, that's the Taurus part of me. The sign of the senses. I think some of the way I express affection has to do with my Leo Mars in the 7th as well though. I like to make him feel like he's the best thing to ever walk the planet.IP: Logged |
lioneye68 unregistered
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posted January 06, 2005 02:52 PM
Venus in Leo, 29 degrees though, and probably more Virgo like due to the pull of Jupiter in early Virgo...I like to do thoughtful things for my sweetie...like, making a special trip to the grocery store just to buy the cereal he likes, folding his laundry for him, re-organizing his sock drawer...things like that. He's a Virgo too, so I think he really appreciates those kinds of things. But, I'm also a big time cuddler, and love to feel his big warm fuzzy body next to mine. That may be more for my benefit than his, though -- hee hee. He has Venus in Cancer, and does things like brings me a pillow when I'm laying on the couch, covers me up with a blanket and tucks it around me - fights my battles for me, with, say for instance, the electric company and the like. Gets very angry if he feels someone is taking advantage of me or treating me unfairly. I love that. IP: Logged |
moonbaby unregistered
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posted January 10, 2005 04:28 PM
gemininymph, i dont know you very well...post-wise...but i definitely appreciate you. your posting is always cooli have a gemini friend who strikes me as being quite similar to you. she says what she means.
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virgotaurustaurus unregistered
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posted January 10, 2005 05:35 PM
Hmm..I have Venus in Virgo...I'll pay attention to the little things, like his wants or things he wish he had, and see if I can fulfill them. I don't tend to shower with gifts, but if there's something really special, maybe something as a reminder of a really great time we shared before, I'll happily give that gift. I'll do little things to show I care too. And I love giving back rubs! Woo!! And when my relationship was long-distance I'd just make a random call or email just to ask about his day and see how he is doing. IP: Logged |
lovely* unregistered
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posted January 11, 2005 12:09 AM
Gemini Nymph, I've never perceived you as anything but positive! The forum I was referring to is astrology.about.com. There is a saying one of my astrologers said to me recently (quoted from the bible) "Give not that which is holy unto the dogs, neither cast ye your pearls before swine, lest they trample them under their feet, and turn again and rend you." On another note, howdya feel? Uranus is about to hand our ***** to us (me with all my virgo pisces stuff, you with all the gem, pis&virgo). You ready? I'm ready Hope you're feeling good! IP: Logged |
gert unregistered
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posted January 13, 2005 05:22 AM
I am venus in scorpio and the way I show affection is not by hugs and kisses.I normaly sense out a persons most vulnerable areas,the areas they are most afraid to show the world.When I do find them, and trust me they are always there,I see how I can help them deal with them and thus simultaneously winning their trust to tell me their depest and darkest secrets for the whole duration that we are friends/lovers.This forms a strong bond that is easily intensified during sex,an argument that we may have or even physical combat. IP: Logged |
sweetlibra unregistered
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posted January 13, 2005 09:40 AM
gert,I am also a venus in scorpio and i can relate to what you said. Its very hard especially in an argument since i know my partner's vulnerability.
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NeoKitty unregistered
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posted January 13, 2005 10:50 PM
What can you say about Venus in Libra? Because it seems to conflict with my Venus in Virgo... Any personal experiences? Would that create any kinky tendencies? ie.HELP? ------------------ "And dreams, don't ever forget, are the first step in manifesting wishes into reality"-- Linda Goodman's Star Signs IP: Logged |
lovely* unregistered
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posted January 14, 2005 02:32 AM
neo, are you jumping to a synastry question? where is the mars of both parties> can you really compare venus to venus synistrically when inconjunct? IP: Logged |