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LucyVanPelt
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posted January 28, 2005 02:24 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus in Scorpio

Wonderful site Sun! I agree, as a fellow Venus ~ Scorpio I always never fully fit the descriptions. This one hit a nerve! LOL I do need to build bridges in my relationships instead of walls. If things get too close for comfort or feel uncomfortable in the relationship, I’ll put up a wall. Mostly due to me not wanting to feel tied down or trapped. When I do feel comfortable with the other person then it is great. I feel like that kind of deep passion for me is rare. Not really picky, just overly cautious when it comes to love. This tells me that it’s something I need to work on. Hmmm… It is not going to be easy for me to do. It would have to take a special someone, as of yet I don’t think I have met someone that special. So I will try to work on being less thick headed when it comes to relationships in the years to come. :Sigh: I just don't want to fell trapped later on in a relationship again.

Lucy

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LucyVanPelt
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posted January 28, 2005 03:24 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
need so help please...

Venus ~ Scorpio in the 3rd house…

My Venus is in the 3rd house of communication. Scorpio is in the 8th house of sex, death, regeneration, and other people’s money. The planets that rule the two houses are Mercury and Pluto. I was thinking that if these two planets are not in harmony with each other this could be a challenge for me. When I went back to look at my chart I noticed I have no aspects between these two planets.

What does it mean when your have no aspects between two planets?

Good, bad or nothing at all?

The only aspects, I do have are Pluto sextile Venus.

Any guidance on were to begin would be a great help!

Thanks,
Lucy

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pixelpixie
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posted January 28, 2005 12:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pixelpixie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If there is no contact between the planets, their separate affect will be felt, but as a small facet ( depending on other contacts of course) you will feel them separately.. whereas, if you have a stellium, ie; conjunction of planets acting through one sign and house, you are very much what those planets bring to the table, in terms of how you present yourself, your basic motivations. So if you have no contact between certain non-harmonious planets, there won't be that internal friction felt.... unless transits bring it about. They act separately... in the house they affect, in the sign they affect. Channelled through the circumstance...

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ghanima81
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posted January 28, 2005 12:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ghanima81     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wanna know what's really fun? Venus square Jupiter and Saturn! Ohhh... it's so cool!

Seriously though, I'm working on making this aspect not be so hard... trying not to recognize it and let the negaitve sides of it manifest themselves in my actions/thoughts. It's not easy, but nothing having to do with relationships ever is for me.

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LucyVanPelt
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posted January 28, 2005 06:06 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Pixie thanks for your help. I now have a better understanding of the planets and how they work.

Lucy

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laglady
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posted February 03, 2005 08:45 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
venus in scorpio conjunct uranus. (moon in aquarius)

i suck at relating.
some days i want to share deeply, some days i don't want to get close at all.. i confuse the heck out of my boyfriend. he never knows if i'm affectionate or icey.. and if i'm in a lovey mood and he says or does anything that upsets me, instantly i turn into the ice queen.. i don't forgive easily

at least i recognise my faults though.. and am trying to use understanding to work through them

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viper
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posted February 06, 2005 07:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for viper     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus in Pisces here, in the twelth.

I don't run after many, I weigh up the odds of a relationship before getting involved, but once involved - it's all or nothing. I tend to place my partner on a pedestal and imagine them to be the most special thing ever. In a way I wind up idealising them but this is sometimes dangerous as in reality, I am projecting an aura of total perfection onto them, in my head, that is. and in Reality, they obviously are not, so I always seem to end up getting hurt. Venus in Pisces is very dreamy and idealistic as well as in love with love itself and beautiful things. I must admit, most of my partners have been very, very attractive - so don't know what they aw in me then?? ha ha

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posted February 06, 2005 10:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SparklingSag     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus in Libra (as well as Mars). I think i'm 'in love with the idea of being in love'...always wating for my prince. Sighs..I wish I was a leo or something..a bit more fiery in love

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pixelpixie
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posted February 06, 2005 08:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pixelpixie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Viper~
My husband has his Venus in Pisces, and I agree with your perception.. he is such a cuddle bunny.. truly in love with love. He tells me all the time I am his 'fantasy partner'.
PLus, my Venus is in my fifth house, conjunct my Neptune ( in Sagittarius) so really, I have that pedestal thing going on too.Both Venus' are mutable and Neptune driven/influenced. It does lead to mutual disappointment at times, no doubt.. but also to the most incredible feeling of oneness two people can possibly synthasize.

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posted February 18, 2016 03:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for foxxyxo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
im a venus scorpio conjunct pluto, all in 8th house

i want to know everything about my partner especially their secrets and insecurities. if they dont tell me i can usually figure it out anyways and bring it up to them lol a little confrontation always makes it spicy i usually dont feel comfortable around them fully unless i know these things. i love to rough house with my guy too and be really playful physically. when im really into you im super affectionate and need to cuddle with you every night, ill scratch your back, massagw you, whatever to see you smile i love to take care of you, and take care of me vice versa. i like to show him i can handle myself so im okay with entertaning him too. i like to make love everyday of not everyday than every other day lol. if im not into you none of this will happen, like ever. i think most people dont even think that there is this side to me. the sucky part is that i do tend to always end up in these love triangles. i never know it at first but then with time i find out theres this other girl he hasnt gotten over or hasnt gotten over certain baggage with. its like i have a radar for it. maybe its cause i like the chase. or the saying "if i never had you, i can never lose you" rings true.

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diamondbaby
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posted February 21, 2016 01:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for diamondbaby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus in Sagittarius
Spontaneous, loving, passionate!

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Yanmorg
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posted March 08, 2016 09:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Yanmorg     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by gert:
I am venus in scorpio and the way I show affection is not by hugs and kisses.I normaly sense out a persons most vulnerable areas,the areas they are most afraid to show the world.When I do find them, and trust me they are always there,I see how I can help them deal with them and thus simultaneously winning their trust to tell me their depest and darkest secrets for the whole duration that we are friends/lovers.This forms a strong bond that is easily intensified during sex,an argument that we may have or even physical combat.

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Doux Rêve
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posted March 13, 2016 12:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by laglady:
i suck at relating.


Haha. This.

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Valentine
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posted April 04, 2016 11:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Valentine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by sweetlibra:
Venus in Scorpio

Very Intense.
Give 100% in a relation.
Only extremes.. either love /hate.
Always feel 'cant get enough of partner'


This is me.

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Randall
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posted April 08, 2016 01:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
#suckatrelating

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teasel
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posted April 08, 2016 06:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Randall:
#suckatrelating

I try, but apparently I do, too.

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Randall
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posted April 09, 2016 12:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
All humans are a work in progress.

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teasel
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posted April 09, 2016 03:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Randall:
All humans are a work in progress.

Thankfully, animals don't have that problem. I have a new little friend.

And I was reminded today, that I don't suck at relating. There have been times when it was all on the other person - so, yes, we are all a work in progress. I'm just used to getting the blame.

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ShadowLost
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posted April 10, 2016 07:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ShadowLost     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have Venus in Libra. I love to express myself verbally and affectionately. I love to have deep conversations in peaceful surroundings outdoors. Giving someone my innermost secrets.

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Randall
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posted April 11, 2016 03:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That's a great Venus placement.

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Randall
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posted June 01, 2016 02:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus in Aquarius = detachment

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