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scorpio0710
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posted February 04, 2005 04:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for scorpio0710     Edit/Delete Message
I have feelings for this guy who happens to be my boss, can you please give me any advice on if he is actually my soulmate? I started having feelings for him after our company's X-mas party. He first came up to me and asked me for the 2nd time why I never ask him for help and I said to him that I felt he had something against me. He replied that he didn't and that he was just stressed out from his own duties. So then, when we went to the bar later on that night with other coworkers, he grabbed my hand and started looking at my finger nail polish. Hours later, I came to him to say Goodnight and he came up to me and kissed me on my cheek(but it was not the typical peck on the cheek) That's when things rised. The day before x-mas eve he called my cell and invited me out with him and his friends. I did not get the message until the next morning. I text messaged him and apologized about not getting the message and said that I would see him and his friends on New Years. Weeks later at work he walked into my office 3 times telling me his whereabouts and if I needed him I could page him. Later that day he came into my office for the 3rd time to discuss some work and also to say that he was not upset with me about the errors that I had made. He smiled and I smiled back then he left. On New Years Eve we were at a friend's party and when I left for the night he gave me this hug like he did not want to let me go. I spoke to his friend about a week later to find out if he had feelings for me. His friend said he did but it was a complicated situation because he is my boss. From there I believe his friend told him that I had feelings for him. Since telling his friend that I noticed that he has been keeping himself guarded. We did see eachother outside the office for my b-day. I noticed he was keeping himself guarded. He wasn't as talkative as he was on New Years. He was telling me to take care of the cold that I had. I text messaged him a day later and thanked him for hanging out with me for my b-day. Since then my feelings have become stronger for him. I feel that there is a cord connecting me to him and I cannot let him go. I have called him and left a message about going out for coffee and he has not responded. Two weeks after leaving the message, I text messaged him to find out if he received my message and he hasn't responded to my text message. Here is our information Hers: 1/13/75 - 3:04am - New York, NY
His: 8/13/76 - 1:00am - Bklyn, NY

I would appreciate it if you gave me advice on what to do and if he is my actual soulmate.

Thanks for your help,

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Mama Mia
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posted February 04, 2005 04:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mama Mia     Edit/Delete Message
Well I am like this if a man is interested in a women he will pursuit her. Back off for a minute don't text him again. You may need to post you alls whole chart if you go to www.astro.com you can do all that. Be patient whats for you is for you....

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GemStar
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posted February 04, 2005 05:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GemStar     Edit/Delete Message
Sounds like a situation that is one that I would stay away from personally...these little back and forth things do not add up to anything really. AND, he is you boss?? He is out of line and that tells me a lot about his character...try and distract yourself towards other things...and as Mamma mia said...do not text him again....let him pursue if you are still interested. He does not sound too interested anyway...maybe just wants an easy gal/lay...don't be that girl. Find a better man! Just my opinion...take the high road and raise you bar!

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Atlantic Myst
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posted February 04, 2005 06:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Atlantic Myst     Edit/Delete Message
he probably feels being your boss and all that it would be complicated i am sure he does like you though. just smile and be happy show him that there are no hard feelings. Then just see what can happen.

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CharmedForever2431
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posted February 05, 2005 12:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for CharmedForever2431     Edit/Delete Message
Hi everyone

The story which was written above is actually about me(the young lady who has feelings for someone who is kind of my boss, not my big boss who had hired me in the company not too long ago:-))Okay this may sound silly....LOL but I had my friend "Scorpio0710" type up the whole story at work today since she was at her computer, while I was with her telling exactly the events which took place since early December.

But anyway, the things that went on just happened unexpectantly. To tell you the truth, the guy I had feelings for is not a bad person at all. He is a professional, respectful employee(sweet guy, too) and he had mentioned to one of our friends that he did like me and thought that I was, "pretty" and "a nice girl" but the situation was complicated since he is my boss. He also stated that he did not want to lose his job over this. Therefore, I don't blame him one bit. Even a few weeks ago, when he was totally stressed out at work, he accidentally said my name when he was referring to a client and apologized to me. That says alot that he has feelings for me. Even some of my friends had said that themselves. I'm not mad at him at all and why should I be anyway.

He is always in back of my mind. Therefore, I have these feelings like I've known him already even though we didn't really get the chance to converse with each other as much outside of work to really get to know each other.
To get matters straight here about me text messaging him, I just wanted to invite him for coffee for gratitude to let him know that I appreciated his help in the company but I have this feeling that he is unsure about how to come across to me since he is kinda my boss. As his friend told me, this guy is shy and non-confrontational, whatsoever, and I see it myself. Thats why he never responded.

Anyway, I do care for him and I don't want to see him lose his job over this and mine as well. It's sad for me right now that things like this have to be complicated since we like each other(alot!!) but I want to do whats best. All I can do is just ask the Lord to bless him always:-)All I need to do now is to be patient and let things take its place. No need to force things on everyone and anything because if we do we end up going 2 steps back, which has happened to me at times. These events which took place is a great learning experience for me, maybe to be patient and to love selflessly. I also feel that this may be a karmic connection since I can't stop feeling the way I do towards him.

Here are our charts. Therefore, there is a positive venus/pluto connection which formed a trine with my venus and his pluto. What I read in Linda Goodmans relationship signs book, that aspect indicated "soulmates". Please help me find more indicators on our charts on why all these things happened. Thank you very much.

for HER
born on 13 Jan 1975 local time 03:04 am
in New York, NY (US) U.T. 08:04
74w00, 40n43 sid. time 10:36:44
PLANETARY POSITIONS
planet sign degree house
Sun Capricorn 22°30'29 02
Moon Aquarius 02°30'51 03
Mercury Aquarius 07°10'05 03
Venus Aquarius 08°50'53 03
Mars Sagittarius 23°51'11 01/2
Jupiter Pisces 15°31'41 04
Saturn Cancer 14°51'29 08
Uranus Scorpio 02°12'49 11/12
Neptune Sagittarius 10°49'43 01
Pluto Libra 09°15'21 11
True Node Sagittarius 09°33'57 01


HOUSE POSITIONS (Placidus)
Ascendant Scorpio 24°25'58
2nd House Sagittarius 25°05'04
3rd House Aquarius 00°53'48
Imum Coeli Pisces 07°29'34
5th House Aries 08°53'44
6th House Taurus 03°54'05
Descendant Taurus 24°25'58
8th House Gemini 25°05'04
9th House Leo 00°53'48
Medium Coeli Virgo 07°29'34
11th House Libra 08°53'44
12th House Scorpio 03°54'05

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and HIM
born on 13 Aug 1976 local time 01:00 am
in Brooklyn (Kings County), NY (US) U.T. 05:00
73w56, 40n38 sid. time 21:31:19
PLANETARY POSITIONS
planet sign degree house
Sun Leo 20°34'06 04
Moon Pisces 28°03'54 11
Mercury Virgo 14°39'58 04
Venus Virgo 05°58'10 04
Mars Virgo 22°59'12 05
Jupiter Taurus 28°58'38 12
Saturn Leo 08°25'48 03
Uranus Scorpio 03°30'08 06
Neptune Sagittarius 11°13'23 06
Pluto Libra 09°44'35 05
True Node Scorpio 06°28'34 06


HOUSE POSITIONS (Placidus)
Ascendant Gemini 15°02'07
2nd House Cancer 06°40'24
3rd House Cancer 27°05'55
Imum Coeli Leo 20°25'40
5th House Virgo 21°05'31
6th House Scorpio 02°08'59
Descendant Sagittarius 15°02'07
8th House Capricorn 06°40'24
9th House Capricorn 27°05'55
Medium Coeli Aquarius 20°25'40
11th House Pisces 21°05'31
12th House Taurus 02°08'59

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Atlantic Myst
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posted February 05, 2005 01:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Atlantic Myst     Edit/Delete Message
I'm not surprised you would be attracted to eachother it usually happens when it comes down to a leo and cap

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Atlantic Myst
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posted February 05, 2005 01:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Atlantic Myst     Edit/Delete Message
Try talking to him. Go for it screw the boss crap just try and keep the relationship professional at work.


if he does not respond in the way u like then screw him!

Also leos like alot of attention. compliment him when you can

*sighs caps are adorable, sweet, and loyal!

I love em

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CharmedForever2431
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posted February 05, 2005 01:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for CharmedForever2431     Edit/Delete Message
Are me and my so called boss actually "soulmates"? I'm not as knowledgeable, yet when it comes to interpreting charts.

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CharmedForever2431
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posted February 05, 2005 01:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for CharmedForever2431     Edit/Delete Message
Plus me and him try to keep things professional at work. Also I don't want to be demanding towards him since I don't want to scare him off. Therefore, I don't want to lose him. I feel for him. He's a quiet guy too, especially for a Leo. It's his pisces moon(which is stronger than his Leo)which makes him that way.

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Atlantic Myst
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posted February 05, 2005 01:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Atlantic Myst     Edit/Delete Message
From what I see yes but you do have your moon in aquarius. try not to be emotionally detached. i know aquas tend to need alot of space. Try and fight that. let your feelings out when you feel you want to.


he has cancer in him also they might be shy sometimes insecure and afraid of being hurt. Tell him how you feel tell him you want to get to know him better.
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Atlantic Myst
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posted February 05, 2005 01:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Atlantic Myst     Edit/Delete Message
http://www.astrology-x-files.com/astro-houses/


Read more about the atsrological houses and what they mean. if you still dont understand then let me know I will post more info for you and make it easier.

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CharmedForever2431
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posted February 05, 2005 01:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for CharmedForever2431     Edit/Delete Message
I'm definately an aquarius moon but my rising sign is in Scorpio which makes me passionate, compelling and emotional. My scorpio rising overpowers my sun and moon sign giving me this scorpio personality, which wants to love deeply for the person I care for. I felt sad today when I had came into reality about the situation I'm in. Since he's more pisces and I'm more scorpio, thats possibly another reason why we are connected like we are tied to a silver cord. Water signs..hehe

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CharmedForever2431
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posted February 05, 2005 01:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for CharmedForever2431     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks, AtlanticMyst for the link:-)Honestly I need your help on interpreting thos house places. I really want to get things off my chest to see if me and him are trully meant to be together in the future. So we are soulmates???? One ironic thing between us two is that our birthdays fall on the 13th. Mine in January, his in August. Also we are both New York Yankees fans,our shyness, love chillin' in Greenwich Village, listen to pretty much of the same music/bands, like going out drinking, like new age stones. I'm into art, he's into science. Sweet!!!!

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Atlantic Myst
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posted February 05, 2005 02:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Atlantic Myst     Edit/Delete Message
First House
This is the House where we meet the world and is known also as the rising sign. It can describe our physical appearance or image and planets in this house are used to communicate something about the individuality of the person. For example, Mercury here would indicate that a person needs to communicate through speech and writing to express their individuality. There is an impulsive quality here, where we just are and are immediately recognised by the sign qualities expressed.

Second House
The Second House is concerned with what we have in terms of material possessions and also our ability to use our special skills and talents to bring our possessions to us. It is the House of sustenance and what we must do to maintain our physical well being. It can also indicate our self esteem and the value we place not only on material things but also ourselves. Are we worth it?

Third House
This House is associate with Gemini and is the area in our lives where we communicate and disseminate information. It is also associated with short journeys and our local environment and siblings. It describes our early education, our schooling and is essentially a social house as it is where we begin to mee the world in social terms.

Fourth House
In my experience this house can be the house of Karma. It is associated with family, culture and traditions handed down through generations and as such can refer to past lives and those who we associate with in this life in order to help us work through our soul's purpose. The family teaches values and behavious which may or may not be appropriate as we grow up and leave the nest. A person with a strong planetary presence here may need to continue the role of perpetuating strong roots in a family situation.

Fifth House
This house is where we experiment with our social skills through interacting with friends and lovers. We learn about ourselves through others' reaction too our behaviour. Here we are encouraged to express our individuality and creativity and learn not to lose our spontaneity and our need for play. So this house also shows hobbies and pastimes and also the results of the most creative act, our children.

Sixth House
This House is associated with work and service to the community. It indicates how we can be part of society and give our skills to it in order society to benefit, not just ourselves. It is also the house associated with health and healing and our ability to maintain our physical systems as a cohesive whole. The work place becomes a macrocosm to our body's microcosm and we need to be aware of each part making a contribution to the wellbeing of the whole.

Seventh House
T his is the house of partnerships and commitment to others through marriage or long term relationships. It is opposite the First House and balances the needs of us as individuals with those we relate to on a permanent basis. We learn compromise and respect for others' individuality which can sometimes take several attempts to achieve! It is also traditionally the house of open enemies, and business partnerships.

Eighth House
This is the House of Scorpio and reminds us that there is one certainty in ife and that is death. It is the house of transformation, endings and beginnings and the ability to regenerate through sex. It is also associated with money and inheritance, and also the partner's money and finances. Our dues to society are shown in this house, through taxation and living by society's laws or dealing with the consequences.

Ninth House
The Ninth House is associated with religion, philosophies and belief systems, as well as higher education as opposed to school education in the Third House. It is where we formulate our code for living, either through our own learning and experience or we can adopt our culture's standards. Of course, this varies according to the different religons around the world and this house recognises the importance of different cultures and overseas travel. The key word is 'expansion'.

Tenth House
This is house is at the top of the chart and consequently refers to our highest ambition, usually seen through our career, which is how we are recognised and categorised by society. It represents the culmination of work and experience to achieve the goals we set ourselves and the authority other people invest in us as a result of all our hard work and achievement. An emphasised tenth house usually indicates a person who reaches the top and is acknowleged for that.

Eleventh House
This is concerned with our special friends and groups of people (not family) with whom we feel a common bond or association. There is a recognition that other people share our ideals and goals for the common good, perhaps through political endeavour or charities. It is where we can create the sort of society we want and not be afraid of change or challenge to tradition.

Twelfth House
This house has been much maligned in the past as its concerns are more to do with our inner world rather than outer achievements. However it can be the House of excellence as it is where we can recognise our true inner selves and act according to our greatest puspose. It may give us cause for doubt and demand that we question who we are, but that is its greatest strength. When we withdraw from the world and find a place of peace and solitude then we are in a position to commune with our higher selves, and planets in the Twelfth show a need for self reflection. Tradtionally it was considered the house of seclusion in hospitals, prisons etc..and the domain of secret enemies, but we are all capable of being our own worst enemy by failing to nurture our needs. It is the house where we return after the maelstrom of interacting with the busy world and can be the source of great inner strength and tranquility.


YOU SHOULD ALSO SEARCH ONLINE ABOUT HOW CERTAIN SIGNS AND HOW THEY ARE AND IT WILL TELL YOU MORE ABOUT HOW TO DEAL WITH THEM.


YOUR RISING(ASCENDANT) SIGN AND MOON SIGNS ARE VERY IMPORTANT TOO.

SUN


THE SUN

The sign which contains the Sun provides the basic key to the
personality and life potential. It exposes the individual's
major strengths and weaknesses, indicates the lessons to be
learnt and skills to be tapped. It may also be equated with the
male side of the personality as against the Moon's rulership of
the female. There are few specifics to consider regarding the
Sun, so the following descriptions are all brief. They are,
however, most important.

SUN IN CAPRICORN.
Conservative and practical, Capricorns often
lead very materialistic lives, judging people and opportunities
by financial considerations, chasing status, prestige and
possessions. However, they have very deep emotions which often
go unrecognised or unacknowledged. It is worth their while to
work at expressing their feelings more directly and openly.

SUN IN LEO (Dignity).
Leos are creative in the broadest sense,
and for them all the world's a stage. They are either proud,
regal and generous, or vain, egotistical and wasteful. Even if
they are unreliable as far as others are concerned, they are
completely consistent in their own behaviour; unpunctuality may
be a regular habit. They are instinctively faithful but easily
distracted by flattery. Their resistance to change can be a
major failing. Sometimes they find that after holding the centre
stage, the world moves on and leaves them stranded.

MOON


The sign containing the Moon provides clues for the astrologer
concerning the person's general emotional state, the female half
of the psyche, the mother, attitudes to the mother, maternal
instincts, the home and family background and the general public
face. There are a great many specific statements that can be
made about this rich and varied planet, and the following sample
interpretations provide a basic summary.


MOON IN AQUARIUS
Emotional independence is the key to this position. These people react very badly if they think they are being tied down emotionally or domestically. They resent obligations and responsibilities, and home conditions may be unusual and unsettled. The Moon in Aquarius is particularly connected to the women's liberation movement, although it is also connected to the traditional ways in which women assert
themselves.

MOON IN PISCES
For these sensitive and shy people the home can
provide a refuge from the hard knocks of the real world. They
are compassionate and hospitable, but should try to develop a
thicker skin without losing their natural kindness. Home life
can be disorganised and relationships clouded by unrealistic
desires. Men with this position have strong feminine natures


MERCURY


Mercury in the various signs reveals the different ways in which
people's minds work, their intellectual interests and aptitudes,
and how they communicate.


MERCURY IN AQUARIUS
Independent minded, these people do not like being told what to think. They need the freedom to find their own intellectual interests and they frequently hold radical views. They like issues to be clear cut.


MERCURY IN VIRGO (Dignity and Exaltation).
Pedantic, critical and analytical, these people have no time for frivolous ideas. The less interesting face of this position is to be found in the bureaucrat, the lover of intellectual order; the more interesting in those who use their minds for the practical good of the world.

VENUS


The position of Venus in the signs provides clues concerning the
individual's female nature, relationships, marriage and
attitudes to pleasure and the arts.

VENUS


VENUS IN AQUARIUS
Common sense is brought to bear on relationships, and personal feelings are pushed to one side. These people value tradition and seek status and security from emotional partnerships.


VENUS IN VIRGO
These people are often shy socially. They make few close friends because most people do not match up to their high standards. Their criticism of other people can be unjustified and result from their own lack of self-confidence. They should learn to trust their own feelings.


MARS


Mars in the signs shows the individual's general energy level,
the way practical problems are handled, attitudes to men and
expression of the male psyche.

MARS IN SAGITTARIUS
It can take a lifetime for these people to achieve their far-flung ambitions. They set their sights on distant heights and leave others to sort out the details. They often become travellers.

MARS IN VIRGO
This is an excellent combination for those involved in crafts or any precise practical activity. They have a flair for detail, thrive on routine, but lack imagination.


JUPITER

Jupiter in each sign gives clues about the way people try to
expand and grow. It takes an average of one year to pass through
any one sign of the zodiac. Everybody born in a given 12-month
period will have Jupiter in the same sign, and it gives false
emphasis in a birth chart if too much importance is given to the
sign containing Jupiter. Psychologically this planet should be
seen as a general background influence, contributing to other
tendencies in the chart.


JUPITER IN THE WATER SIGNS - CANCER< SCORPIO & PISCES
Jupiter in the water signs craves emotion. These people need love. While they aspire to the heights of romantic ecstasy, they can also be self-sacrificing and can wallow in self-pity and emotion. In Cancer (Exaltation)
Jupiter emphasises the virtues of helping other people through compassion, in Scorpio through healing and in Pisces (Dignity) through prayer and good intentions. Jupiter in Cancer may, on the other hand, lead to indulgence in domestic luxury, in Scorpio it may lead to licence in sex and other Scorpionic mysteries, and in Pisces there may be indulgence in escapist fantasies, dreams, religion or drugs.

JUPITER IN THE EARTH SIGNS - TAURUS, VIRGO & CAPRICORN
These people strive for self-development through practical work in order to achieve material results. In Virgo (Detriment) the purpose is likely to
be idealistic but within an orderly structure; in Capricorn (Fall) material wealth may be a priority. Jupiter in Taurus may indicate a love of luxury and sensual experience.


SATURN


Saturn rules the principle of limitation. It shows the way in
which people control themselves and are inhibited by their
environment.

Saturn takes about 29 years to travel around the zodiac, spending almost two and a half years in each sign. Its generational influence is even more pronounced than Jupiter's, and its meaning by sign has a far more general psychological influence in a horoscope than by house and aspect.


SATURN IN THE WATER SIGNS - CANCER, SCORPIO, PISCES.
Emotional inhibition is likely to result from Saturn placed in the water signs. There will certainly be an emphasis on emotional self-control. In Cancer (Detriment) this inclines towards a stable home, although the
difficulties this sign has in expressing its feelings will be strengthened. In Scorpio emotions may become more obsessive but more easily hurt, while Pisces may be more vulnerable than usual.


SATURN IN THE FIRE SIGNS - ARIES, LEO & SAGITTARIUS.

In the fire signs Saturn inhibits the overall energy level, restricts ambitions and reduces self-confidence. These people may constantly anticipate failure, avoid risks and reject opportunity, but the fear of failure can lead to concentrated hard work. Conservatism may influence creativity, artistic values and love affairs when Saturn is in Leo (Detriment); philosophy, beliefs and attitudes to foreign cultures when it is in Sagittarius; or attitudes to authority when it is in Aries (Fall).

URANUS (BOTH OF YOU HAVE THE SAME ONE)


URANS IN SCORPIO
Those born in the generation having Uranus in Scorpio have the ability to receive intuitively from the planetary mind new ways to substantially transform the society as it is presently operating, especially on a worldly and sexual level. Disruption occurs by holding on to outworn sexual standards and outmoded ideas about material partnerships.

Neptune in Sagittarius (BOTH OF YOU HAVE THE SAME ONE)

You are part of a 14 year group of people that are extremely idealistic and farsighted in their dreams. Your age group is very liberal and expansive in outlook, and consequently churches become much more flexible and more eclectic in their approach during your life time. Religions that do not adapt to the broad-minded attitude of your age group simply are unable to attract very much interest and involvement from you.

A great deal of metaphysical musing and speculation is evident in your age group, and there is a very strong interest in all manner of psychic phenomena, UFO's, prophecy, etc. This interest will open many new doors and insights, but will also often lead to a great deal of fantasizing and speculation that is taken more seriously than it should be.


PLUTO

BOTH OF YOU HAVE PLUTO IN LIBRA
http://groups.msn.com/interpretations2/plutoinlibra1.msnw

READ LINK FOR MORE INFO


TRUE NODE

True Node Sagittarius (YOU)
True Node Scorpio (HIM)


READ MORE ABOUT TRUE NODE HERE
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/004334.html


http://www.north-node.com/tutorial/points/nodes.html



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CharmedForever2431
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posted February 05, 2005 02:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for CharmedForever2431     Edit/Delete Message
Wow, AtlanticMyst. Thanks for the insight. I really appreciate your time and help. I'm sure that things will fall into place at the right time. As my friend had said to me, she says to be patient things will work out. But again do you think that me and him are soulmates because of our venus/pluto connection(it's within 1 degree by the way). I hate to keep asking you that.


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posted February 06, 2005 11:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CharmedForever2431     Edit/Delete Message
Plus we cannot chose who to fall for:-)

And are there any other indicators in our charts (you know like grand trines and other cinderella aspects)showing that me and him are meant to be together,possible marriage somewhere in the future, and why the things that happened between us?


**I need a synastry reading of both our charts**


Thanks alot. I would appreciate it.

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posted February 07, 2005 11:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for steelrose     Edit/Delete Message
I had a relationship with my boss. He chased me for 2 years and then I accepted him. We were together for a year and a half. Things didnīt go very well in the personal level after a few months but we still managed to remain proffesional.

Nobody at work found out. I respected him and he respected me. I still respected his authority as my boss while in the office and he treated me fairly all the way along.

A relationship with your boss is not a sin. At the end of the day, we are all people. And as long as we respect each other and are able to keep things cool and separated, everything is fine. Trust and control are just a little bit more important than in a normal relationship.

Good luck!

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posted February 07, 2005 10:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CharmedForever2431     Edit/Delete Message
Hi Steelrose,

How are you? Thank you for your response. I also wish you the best of luck with your soulmate after reading your compelling story about him and the situation which both of you are in. Therefore, it's tough when the person you love deeply may not react the same way as you are to him/her. But hang in there, I send you all my blessings. Things between you and him will work out eventually. Keep the faith

With this boss whom I see as a sweet, down to earth guy, my feelings are so strong towards him like I already know him. And I'm sure he feels the same way too especially the way he comes across towards me even though he keeps it professionally. I bet we knew each other in the past life for sure but I'm keeping patient since he's shy and I don't want to scare him off and costing our jobs. Thats how much I truly care for him. I also want him to find the light within himself while I do the same for myself. Can't wait for that moment somewhere at the right place and time when we are finally holding each other in our arms.

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posted February 08, 2005 10:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for steelrose     Edit/Delete Message
Hi, CharmedForever, thanks for your encouragement and good wishes!!! I really need all the light I can get, for me to forgive him fully and be brave enough to step forward, for him to accept me this time, for the relationship to work...

With this boss of mine (now ex-boss and ex-boyfriend... ) I was the one who was scared of losing the job, ruining my hard-earned reputation within the company, being taken advantage when I was on my own in a foreign country... That job was the only thing that allowed me to fulfill my dream of staying abroad... It was too important... I didnīt trust his power either or his experience... He was older than me, divorced and more powerful than me, playing in his own natural environment...

But he was patient enough... He waited... He made me trust him, as a person... When I saw his human side, I started to loosen up. I understood his intentions were genuine and he wasnīt trying to take advantage of me. I knew from the beginning he wasnīt my Twin Soul... But I also knew I probably went to that country just to meet him. I know it was fated, as a wrong person for me, but still fated. He made me what Iīm now.

If itīs meant to be, itīll happen. Have faith. And wait... Donīt pressurise him... Heīll come to terms with it and come to you in his own time, if he is really your Soul Mate and youīre to be reunited... And, while you are waiting, donīt put your life on hold...


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posted February 08, 2005 10:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GemStar     Edit/Delete Message
Good advice for her Steelrose...while you are waiting, do not put your life on hold.

Tres important!!

Enjoy your life and live each day well.

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