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Topic: I'm feeling lost and lonely, and the distance between us seems endless...
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sue g
Knowflake Posts: 456
From: ireland
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted March 14, 2005 03:44 PM
 
Thats great news sweetheart - so glad to read that - he is so lucky having you as a friend,a lucky Gemini! Well reading your stuff makes me feel more human, it seems the people I really love slip out of my life and the ones I don't stick around. Letting go is so hard isn't it, but i am FINALLY beginning to believe we have to tell others how we feel, and then let go, what else is there to do, but isn't it bloody agony. Good luck and love to you xxIP: Logged |
Virgo-AriesArtist
Moderator Posts: 1216
From: USA
Registered: Nov 2001
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posted March 14, 2005 06:11 PM
Yep, sue, I'm relieved too. I'm glad my story touches your life, as every time we connect with other people, it benefits both. Letting go is the hardest thing I've ever done, and yet I am so grateful I have done it, more than I could have ever imagined. Ya know, I've come to the conclusion that until we release people, and give them their freedom to excercise free will, they are held captive by our unfulfilled expecations and desires. It is only when the "ball" is truly in 'their court' that they are empowered to follow their heart, where ever it is meant to lead. Appreciate the luck and love, dear Knowflake  IP: Logged |
pixelpixie
Moderator Posts: 7624
From: Ontario, Canada
Registered: Aug 2003
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posted March 14, 2005 07:20 PM
VERY well said, VAA.  IP: Logged |
Virgo-AriesArtist
Moderator Posts: 1216
From: USA
Registered: Nov 2001
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posted March 16, 2005 04:07 PM
thanks, pix  IP: Logged |
sthenri
Moderator Posts: 3188
From: Montreal, Canada
Registered: May 2003
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posted March 16, 2005 07:19 PM
All you can do is get close to someone, give him your number and say "Call me anytime". Tell him you want to Give respect and friendship and don't expect anything except that he be himself. He has to give you the reasons, ask the questions now.It's like the Tracy Chapman song Give me one reason to stay here - and I’ll turn right back around
Give me one reason to stay here - and I’ll turn right back around
Because I don’t want leave you lonely
But you got to make me change my mind
Baby I got your number and I know that you got mine
But you know that I called you, I called too many times
You can call me baby, you can call me anytime
But you got to call me
Give me one reason to stay here - and I’ll turn right back around
Give me one reason to stay here - and I’ll turn right back around
Because I don’t want leave you lonely
But you got to make me change my mind
I don’t want no one to squeeze me - they might take away my life
I don’t want no one to squeeze me - they might take away my life
I just want someone to hold me and rock me through the night
This youthful heart can love you and give you what you need
This youthful heart can love you and give you what you need
But I’m too old to go chasing you around
Wasting my precious energy
Give me one reason to stay here - and I’ll turn right back around
Give me one reason to stay here - and I’ll turn right back around
Because I don’t want leave you lonely
But you got to make me change my mind
Baby just give me one reason - give me just one reason why
Baby just give me one reason - give me just one reason why I should stay
Because I told you that I loved you
And there ain’t no more to say Thanks Virgo Artist, you have been there for me many times. All I can say is
Here's my number Baby Call me Anytime
and if you don't, well I can't chase you.
It hurts when he doesn't call me back, but I figure that he has my number anyway... Natasha IP: Logged |
pixelpixie
Moderator Posts: 7624
From: Ontario, Canada
Registered: Aug 2003
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posted March 16, 2005 10:20 PM
I sing that song in my band...
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sue g
Knowflake Posts: 456
From: ireland
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted March 18, 2005 09:46 AM
Well said Virgo-Aries, wise words, thanks. xPixie what other songs do you sing? x IP: Logged |
pixelpixie
Moderator Posts: 7624
From: Ontario, Canada
Registered: Aug 2003
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posted March 18, 2005 03:29 PM
Janis Joplin, Fleetwood Mac/Stevie Nicks, Sheryl Crow's remakes... I even do sweet child of mine...the G and R version....
In my own time, nothing better than wailing to Tori Amos.... IP: Logged |
Virgo-AriesArtist
Moderator Posts: 1216
From: USA
Registered: Nov 2001
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posted March 29, 2005 08:29 PM
I don't know what to say anymore...the Gemmy BFF is thinking of phasing out of Job Corps...I feel the tangible urge to call him, but fear it would make matters worse. Perhaps I should deluge him with cards and pictures I've colored...I sense he needs positive energy and lite right now, the Mercury Rx is hitting him especially hard, for his confusion is tangled up with the Mercury transiting his 4th house, right in between his Jupiter at 24 degrees and Moon at 4 degrees...
I feel for him, don't know how best to help, or even if I can, other than sending positive vibes...------------------
-K
"Most people love with restraint
As if they were someday to hate
We hated gently, carefully
As if we were someday to love"-Venus Trines at Midnight IP: Logged |
Virgo-AriesArtist
Moderator Posts: 1216
From: USA
Registered: Nov 2001
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posted April 05, 2005 05:04 PM
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sthenri
Moderator Posts: 3188
From: Montreal, Canada
Registered: May 2003
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posted April 05, 2005 09:25 PM
Is there anyway you can go see him? You are a more physical person and you are not fulfilled by phone, go see him if you can, if you can't afford it ask someone to split the bill.I believe this will clear up what you are feeling, it's these times that you have to confront someone when you are feeling emotional, it helps deal with the issues, unlike him, you are not capable of dealing with the emotions without the other person to talk to. That is the only way I can deal with a Gemini or an Aquarius, is in person, it's an earth woman gift. Otherwise you will never explore your feelings. Natasha
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Virgo-AriesArtist
Moderator Posts: 1216
From: USA
Registered: Nov 2001
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posted April 06, 2005 10:45 PM
Nat,
I love your advice...(as I'm easy to kick into physical fantasy mode about him, me being so sensual) and I'm seriously trying to work out details to go visit him, but,and this is a big but, he is wanting to "phase out", aka "leave" the Job Corps and go live back home, which would create some major waves...
My gut tells me that it's a serious case of Mercury RX kicking his life into chaos, but if he makes any decisions now, well, who can tell what miscommunication will ensue, as neither he nor anyone else can see the clear straight facts right now...
Wish me luck at lowering my expectations of receiving that back, that seems my only option at the moment. (((hugs))) ------------------
-K
"Most people love with restraint
As if they were someday to hate
We hated gently, carefully
As if we were someday to love"-Venus Trines at Midnight IP: Logged | |
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