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Topic: Question about Aquarian men and love...
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JustAmanda Knowflake Posts: 451 From: Registered: Jan 2003
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posted March 03, 2005 02:44 PM
OR men in general...I wonder...do men analyze and overanalyze relationships like women do? Or does it really depend on your sign...such as an Aquarius...does anyone know anything about Aquarian men and love? IP: Logged |
Mama Mia Knowflake Posts: 490 From: chicago Registered: Aug 2004
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posted March 03, 2005 03:18 PM
Girl,girl,girl. Sit tight there is alot to know about Aqua men. Still pining over the one who still holds my heart...Others will come and clue you in... IP: Logged |
JustAmanda Knowflake Posts: 451 From: Registered: Jan 2003
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posted March 03, 2005 03:27 PM
yes...I've had one that STILL has the ability to break my heart...it's killing me emotionally...I wish I knew how to take the power away from him...I guess what I can't understand is this...how can a man, become involved with a woman for 4 years and NOT feel anything for that woman???????????? Someone tell me...I'm trying to understand...also, how can this same man, that you/I have wasted the past 4 years over, act like he feels nothing, AND THEN just simply DISAPPEAR??? How can they just walk away, cease all means of communication and ...and...and especially the part that they cant be decent enough to be honest about what's going on in their lives, they just shut you out and ignore you instead??????? IP: Logged |
Mama Mia Knowflake Posts: 490 From: chicago Registered: Aug 2004
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posted March 03, 2005 04:02 PM
Sweetie I am feeling you on all that. They will pull a disappearing act on you forsure. The one that I was involved with did not do that but he was not honest exactly when he should/could have been. With Aqua men I think that you have to give them very little. I will say that he stuck around 4 yrs he liked you cause they will not hang around that long if not. Someon told me that is married to an Aquarius the key is to ignore them to the point of toture they absolutely hate that. I did it from time to time and he did get real emotional on me. It is alot to them and they are draining. IP: Logged |
Mystic Dreamz Knowflake Posts: 304 From: New York, New York Registered: Feb 2005
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posted March 03, 2005 04:05 PM
Definitely ignore them. ughh. I'm sick of them.IP: Logged |
Mama Mia Knowflake Posts: 490 From: chicago Registered: Aug 2004
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posted March 03, 2005 04:19 PM
Dream Mystic: Girl you crack me up cus you know I know exactly what you are talking about. There is a thin line for real...IP: Logged |
Mama Mia Knowflake Posts: 490 From: chicago Registered: Aug 2004
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posted March 03, 2005 04:22 PM
Oh I am so sorry Mystic Dreamz just laughing at you changed your name around..IP: Logged |
JustAmanda Knowflake Posts: 451 From: Registered: Jan 2003
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posted March 03, 2005 04:25 PM
ok well, you girls will be happy to know that I've ignored him via email for 21 days now, and via phone for 17...and counting. DARNIT! I'm glad to know I'm not in the boat alone..IP: Logged |
Mystic Dreamz Knowflake Posts: 304 From: New York, New York Registered: Feb 2005
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posted March 03, 2005 04:26 PM
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Mystic Dreamz Knowflake Posts: 304 From: New York, New York Registered: Feb 2005
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posted March 03, 2005 04:31 PM
And I thought my ex scorpio had drained me emotionally!!!IP: Logged |
JustAmanda Knowflake Posts: 451 From: Registered: Jan 2003
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posted March 03, 2005 04:38 PM
yes..that is how I feel...emotionally drained...and the trouble is..I really like him...but I'm beserk! HA! *runs around in circles like a madwoman!* IP: Logged |
Mama Mia Knowflake Posts: 490 From: chicago Registered: Aug 2004
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posted March 03, 2005 04:39 PM
LOL!!!!! keep doing whatcha doing JustAmanda and you will be fine. MD was that reply for me or JustAmanda??? IP: Logged |
JustAmanda Knowflake Posts: 451 From: Registered: Jan 2003
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posted March 03, 2005 04:41 PM
probably both of us crazy fools in luv...*grabs Mama Mia's hands and runs around in circles again* IP: Logged |
Mama Mia Knowflake Posts: 490 From: chicago Registered: Aug 2004
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posted March 03, 2005 04:45 PM
I know right and just fall out laughing at ourselves so that we do not cry....IP: Logged |
Danny Knowflake Posts: 174 From: I wanna be where you are Registered: Jan 2005
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posted March 03, 2005 08:06 PM
Aquarians guys love challenges. The more of a challenge you are, the more he'll stick around. to you ladies in love.
They are fun though. IP: Logged |
JustAmanda Knowflake Posts: 451 From: Registered: Jan 2003
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posted March 03, 2005 10:15 PM
Well, then I guess Danny said it all...his disappearance must mean I'm no longer a challenge...and not worth the time or effort anymore...hmpf...what a jerk. (Not Danny rather my Aquarian) IP: Logged |
Secret Garden Knowflake Posts: 396 From: Registered: Dec 2004
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posted March 04, 2005 03:04 AM
lol @ JustAmandaI absolutely cannot stand Aqua men, there are two Aqua men who I know: One was my good friend, he'd have a new crush every week since he turned twelve this man is so promiscuous that he gives the word a whole new meaning. And he's not just promiscuous but a blatant cheater where he will spin lies to all his girls that fill-in-the-blank, you are the only one I love, with that sweet distant Aqua smile and then go screw the rest of his harem over. I think his pic shud have been in the dictionary next to the word SLIME. Recently he started showing an interest in me, physically and I was repulsed I had to push him away. After getting complaints from all his girlfriends I decided I dont want to be friends with a guy like that, he's not worth it and its too against my principles...and not to mention that Aquas are really good at using other air signs--Libras and Gems, when they need something done, like say, a paper to be edited or some errand to be run. Grr At the recent job I joined there is this tall Aqua guy who is always touching me--backrubs etc. even though I explicitly TOLD him DONT TOUCH ME IM NOT COMFORTABLE WITH IT PLEASE STOP. He thought I was being a ***** but kept on doing it..????? wtf is up with that ok. And he has a girlfriend, says he has been with her for two and a half years now, wears a ring although theyre not married, coz she says she wants him to wear one for her, and says that they will prolly get married. Everyone asks him if he loves her. Some days he says Yes!!! some days he says No wayyyy!!!! and some days he'll jus say 'Honey i luv uuuu and thats it' UGHHHHH THEY BOTH DISGUST ME BEYOND BELIEF I want to get the second one fired for sexual harrassment grrrrness IP: Logged |
JustAmanda Knowflake Posts: 451 From: Registered: Jan 2003
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posted March 04, 2005 08:41 AM
Wow Secret, you've really had some kind of experiences there! And actually, a few of those sound close to home...I just hate that I've spent so much of my time over this guy...I feel it's been quite a waste of my life...I guess I'll just focus on the Leo that I have in my life now... I'm a Sag, so we mix pretty good...still doesn't make my heart hurt any less over my Aquarian...I guess because I'm never going to actually know what his true intentions were with me, nor his true feelings towards me...and that hurts me alot.. IP: Logged |
sue g Knowflake Posts: 339 From: ireland Registered: Sep 2004
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posted March 04, 2005 09:32 AM
I was married to an Aquarian man (Gemini asc and moon in Scorp I think). Oh dear me, what can I say, we were like chalk an cheese - me Scorp thro and thro drove him mad. He would have been a great friend, very sociable, liked his booze, life and soul of the party, but as for being married no way. Every time I tried to communicate with him he would run and even used to sit in the car outside the house reading the newspaper, so he didnt have to face me, his worst nightmare (ha ha). I am now married to a Moon in Aquarius with Virgo sun. Again hates the emotional stuff. This being my third marriage I am now training to be a LESBIAN guys (as if). No I dont think they do analyse as we do unless you get a very sensitive one with a very watery chart, he may do, but the majority no way. Best to just be friends I think xIP: Logged |
JustAmanda Knowflake Posts: 451 From: Registered: Jan 2003
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posted March 04, 2005 09:46 AM
yep! Likes the booze...yes..hates to have a confrontation...yes yes and yes...I really know how to pick them you know? Was married once to a Pisces...what was I thinking??? I think I'm doomed in love...I'm the Chuckie Finster of love...doomed.IP: Logged |
sthenri Moderator Posts: 3118 From: Montreal, Canada Registered: May 2003
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posted March 04, 2005 11:11 AM
Secret Garden he sounds like my ex boss, an Aqua/Libra Moon/Libra Ascendant who did finally get fired for harassment, he would never take no for an answer either, and was legendary for his remarks about women's bodies..that type of thing drove his business manager to suicide before I left, and nobody did a thing about it for 10 years+I did not like being manipulated either and I find the best way to keep from being the one, is to not make eye contact in anyway shape or form. I do the same with other air signs, except if I have to, I just look and nod and look away. Not all Aqua men are bad, but they can be manipulative if they think you up to a game, they do fall hard for Scorpio women though. Natasha
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JustAmanda Knowflake Posts: 451 From: Registered: Jan 2003
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posted March 04, 2005 01:06 PM
And I was so close to being a Scorpio! HA!IP: Logged |
Luna Knowflake Posts: 34 From: New York Registered: Jul 2002
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posted March 04, 2005 05:44 PM
Dress provacatively, rebellion turns them on. so does insanity.IP: Logged |
Mama Mia Knowflake Posts: 490 From: chicago Registered: Aug 2004
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posted March 04, 2005 05:47 PM
Put it like this they like a dirty B****... IP: Logged |
JustAmanda Knowflake Posts: 451 From: Registered: Jan 2003
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posted March 04, 2005 07:55 PM
LOL@Luna! Well, God knows I'm insane enough after seeing this guy! LOL!!IP: Logged |