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Lucitienne
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posted April 25, 2005 12:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lucitienne     Edit/Delete Message
Would someone please do an interpretation for me? I have been thinking of my old Gemini love like crazy for some reason, and I just want to know all this stuff, perhaps some sense could be made of it!!

I was born 2/1/1977 @3:03 p.m. in San Diego, CA--He was born 6/18/1979 in Bishop, CA, don't know the time. Please Help!!

Much Thanks---Lucitienne

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Secret Garden
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posted April 25, 2005 02:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Secret Garden     Edit/Delete Message
wow, im a Gem woman pining after an Aqua man right now...

maybe theres some transit going on right now thats pulling us Gems n Aquas towards each other....

anyhow, too lazy to check. I will get back to your chart soon, in a couple of hours, right now I need to get back to studying for that midterm

SG

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Lucitienne
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posted April 25, 2005 03:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lucitienne     Edit/Delete Message
Thank you for checking. I really do appreciate it. I haven't seen my Gem in a long, long time. I miss him dearly. Funny thing is, I haven't missed him at all for a really long time, up until now anyway. Hmmm.

L

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posted May 03, 2005 05:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aquali     Edit/Delete Message
Hehe I agree maybe some aqua-gem attraction in the air...AIIIIIIIIR...I recently ended up hanging out whith a street boy in bombay...eaven thought he used all my money, drowe me cracy with his white lies and that our social status was like the princess and beggar...we keept together till he put me on the aeroplane home...I really did not figure out what happened...

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Lucitienne
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posted May 04, 2005 12:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lucitienne     Edit/Delete Message
I really don't understand why I am even thinking of this man either, maybe it was because I went back to the place we met (both our families live there). I was instantly reminded of him everywhere I went, and what we did there! There is going to be no one like him, ever, that's for sure. But, I don't want to contact him because I am scared of what would happen.

L

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Secret Garden
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posted May 04, 2005 06:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Secret Garden     Edit/Delete Message
lucitienne, im oh so sorry that i havent been able to get to ur charts! but i should by friday. im not an expert but not an amateur either i would say somewhere in between i would probably jus be able to tell u from my experience, the major things, aspects/trends, patterns, constellations, planets etc. and basic compatibility . but i wanted to do it coz i am fascinated nowadays by the gem/aqua thing.

i think if u call him it will pleasantly surprise him; as long as the end of ur relationship was not horribly bitter.

ill get back to u asap, right now im just bombarded by lots of ppls requests to look into this and that. hehe.

good luck , and lots of
Love
SG

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posted May 04, 2005 06:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Secret Garden     Edit/Delete Message
btw also if u post ur two chart data in Free Astro Course, (u'll have to get permission from Randall first by posting a thread asking him for permission to enter the Free Astro forum), lalalinda is the sweetest kindest teacher and would probably look into your charts for you.

Love
SG

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Lucitienne
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posted May 04, 2005 07:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lucitienne     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks SG, I'm not really in a rush, so whenever you can get to it, will be fine. I don't plan on calling him,unless this persists, like I really can't stop thinking of him. I wouldn't call our end bitter, just an end. I think I'm just stark raving mad. I will also look into the advice you gave me about posting a request in the astro lesson. Also, I would like to hear about your Gem/Aqua fascination stuff.

L

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posted May 04, 2005 08:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Secret Garden     Edit/Delete Message
well lucitienne if u just post a thread in astro forum asking randall to give u permission to enter the free astro course he will put ur name in and u get to access it (great place!). lalalinda starts threads there to teach about both basic and advanced astro stuff and will take a look into ur chart if u ask her.

well i dont think ur mad at all, everyone goes through nostalgic phases, and then again, dont underestimate the probabilities of getting with an ex. linda says that aquas never forget their first love. was this guy ur first love? or maybe ur strongest one? sometimes just a connection we get with someone can be so strong, that it comes back to 'haunt' us time and again even yrs afterwards.

right now i am fascinated by the gem/aqua thing becoz i was sworn off of aquas. then i met this guy and we hit it off, and i purposely did not ask his sign becoz i didnt want to pigeonhole him and limit my interests. ta da, he turns out to be an AQUA lol. and i know that if i had asked that upfront i would have never fallen for him or stopped myself from it. but too late, gah.

he is caring, sweet, very much into me, but at the same time i cant figure him out, coz hes so aloof and distant sometimes too. he will forget to call me for days on end. sometimes he can make me feel like the most unimportant thing in his little world. he wont initiate contact...i have to do all of that, remind him that im here, i exist, and that im his gf, remember? gah, it p!sses me off beyond belief sometimes! i know aqua men can be busy...but THAT much???? ok thats a little annoying!

but then when we try to call it off it goes back on again. becoz we're too irresistably attracted and feel too good talking to each other. and i know thats mutual at least--becoz he admits it too and then wants to get back together.

i guess its him being so puzzling thats throwing me off. usually men find me to be a little bit of a puzzle, they're always trying to figure out my behavior. now i get this guy who gives me a taste of my own medicine. not what i was expecting to say the least. lol. and im not that apathetic really, im just an emotional rollercoaster....i do surprise him, but then he surprises me too, which is even more surprising seeing that no one ever really 'surprises' me. i always see everything coming anyways. *yawn*

i guess its the challenge in the relationship that really throws me off. hehe. intrigue, mystery, why are we so attracted? will it last? when he plans on surprising me by dying his hair purple, how do i know that? how do i know to go out and get my nose pierced to surprise him back?
yes thats all real....and we shock each other in that funny, wow way.

i guess very typical of the gem/aqua relationship.... but then the relationship is never predictable is it?

and how can u aquas be so loveable?

ppl say that gem/aquas get along great but theres no emotional bond.....well wrong wrong wrong for me (gem) but im the one with the water moon and hes a double aqua....so it maybe a perfect description for him.

how do aquas know when they want to live with someone forever? whether theyre really in love or not? etc etc, if they're liking it and liking being together, what keeps them from taking that last step, towards emotional commitment?

that is what fascinates me about gem/aquas!

Love
SG

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posted May 04, 2005 09:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DayDreamer     Edit/Delete Message
Hey

have you tried www.astro.com??

Gemini boys are cute and grrrreat conversationalists...especially when they let you talk!!

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posted May 04, 2005 10:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Tranquil Poet     Edit/Delete Message
Gem here. I dated an aqua once. Didn't really feel we had anything in common except good conversations.

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posted May 04, 2005 10:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DayDreamer     Edit/Delete Message
eeehh...dont mean to sound superficial...they're pretty smart too...havent really dated one so I dont know the guys too well. My friendships with geminis never last...we're always "too busy" for each other...yeah right.

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Lucitienne
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posted May 05, 2005 12:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lucitienne     Edit/Delete Message
SG,

You just described me to a t! I think I "forgot" to call my Gem guy more times than I care to admit! He was not my first love (who I still adore to this very day), but I was so (perhaps still am) intensely attracted to him, I would just tear up when I thought about him. It was really wacky. We would talk for hours and of course we would separate, I moved away, and we had 8 hours between us. I told him I would call him when I got settled, and of course, I "forgot". When he went to my aunt's house and asked her for my number, I was surprised and happy. So, when he called me, I told him that I missed him and I "forgot" to call! I was soooo busy, I didn't have time to actually call him, but I really, really wanted to. Well, this went on for like two years, and we could not get enough of one another for all this time. It's been three years since I saw him last. Oh, Oh, why did I ever have to meet him?! Thank you for sharing, I loved reading your post! It sounded like me and my Gem guy! Also, the father of my daughter is an Aqua, and together, we were like friends. We fizzled, but are still friends. Imagine that.

Much Love,
L

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Lucitienne
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posted May 05, 2005 12:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lucitienne     Edit/Delete Message
SG,

I think for Aqua and Gem to really make a committment, they would have to be older, much older. I met my Gem when he was 20 (oh!) and I was 22. He's going to be 26 next month, and I am still of the mind that he is too young for me! As for me, I think the older I get, the crazier I get. The one thing my Gem guy had me beat on, was his unwillingness to commit. Commit in my mind is just having that one person thinking of you, no matter where or what you are doing. His idea of committment was too much of a cage. I think he would have felt stifled, although he acted pretty committed to me, while saying that committment is for the birds. I think Aquas are too scared to love love love someone, and so are Gems. It gets too hot. For me it does. I know if my Gem came to me and proposed, I would probably pass out, not because I didn't love him, but because I don't know what I would do with him!! I am starting to get annoyed with myself.

L

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Secret Garden
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posted May 05, 2005 07:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Secret Garden     Edit/Delete Message
lucitienne,

yes i totally relate...its so frustrating though....why cant aquas make that last step towards true love? (i dont mean to sound mean but, are they really capable of wholeheartedly loving someone? wholeheartedly wanting someone, wanting to be with them forever?) these are emotions i feel are so integral to me....if this man cannot even ever know what they are....then hes never going to love me, thats a painful thought, ouch

he is 25 right now, i am eons aged than most gems coz i am divorced...and way ahead for my age in terms of education. im almost 5 yrs younger than him.

he has been with so many girls though...im thinking, is this just another one of those temporary fleeting relationships to him? wont he eventually want to settle? will i be the (lucky) one he decides to settle with? should i wait and see? i dont want to be impatient, and lose a good thing, or a potentially good thing, but only if know that there really is potential there!

the dilemma is that, yes they may be more stable when they are older, but then, they will never forget their first love right, Linda says the only way to cure that is to BECOME the first love of an aquarian. i asked my guy if hes ever loved someone and he said no. so that means he hasnt loved...and hes not super young either...that is what keeps me going lol. if he already had a first love, and he was older and not willing to commit, dont know what id do....

that other aqua mooner who left me out in the blue (leo sun) actually played the field until he got married...and even after. the problem was that he found too many naive girls (like myself at that time...) that were willing to sacrifice everything just to be in his presence. yuck. i barf at the thot that i ever found him good or attractive...i think i would like to slap him now if i ever saw him

lucitienne, then i ask u, if u would pass out if ur Gem proposed to you, does it have to do with the Gem, or the proposal itself? are you not comfortable with marriage and proposals? or is it becoz coming from the airy Gem it wasnt right? do you think it would be right from a different sign...say an Aries? A Cancer? a Taurus?

after you came back to consciousness....what would be ur answer. lol . i think i know that it would be 'no', just making sure here.

Love
SG

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Lucitienne
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posted May 06, 2005 12:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lucitienne     Edit/Delete Message
SG,

You are right, SG, I would probably say no. Not because I didn't love him, but because I am afraid to give myself over to some one. Love is so uncertain, yet I felt it so intensely when I was with my Gem. Once, he asked me if I wanted him to move back to where I was, since he lived about 3 hours away. I wanted so badly to say yes, I wanted him to be with me. But out of my mouth came the ugly "No." He never asked me anything like that again. I am a fool. Part of me didn't believe he would actually do it....So now I am going to learn to not be afraid of my feelings. Your new Aqua guy, don't allow him to be afraid of his feelings. Help him to realize they are true, cause that's the thing, we don't believe in those, on a one-on-one basis, anyway.

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Secret Garden
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posted May 06, 2005 08:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Secret Garden     Edit/Delete Message
lucitienne, out of curiosity, did u ever say 'i love you' to him, and how long did it take to get there,

i feel that somehow there are a lot of similarities between ur relationship and mine.

Love
SG

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Lucitienne
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posted May 06, 2005 08:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lucitienne     Edit/Delete Message
SG,


I met him in November 1999, and I told him I loved him (via break-up letter) in September 2002. I am a wimp, that's for sure. He never told me he loved me tho, the closest thing was that he had "feelings" for me. I am laughing as I write this. Feelings. Well, I forced myself to tell him that I loved him, cause I didn't want to end things without him knowing. That is the last time I communicated with him. My little sister was talking to one of his friends sometime in 2003 or 4, the friend told my sister that Andy still loved me, or had "feelings". I told her, "yeah, whatever." I am such a fool, I didn't believe her (or the friend). Do you think I should try to contact him, or would that be childish? The only thing stopping me is that he never replied to my I Love You Break-up letter. I hope you don't think I'm nuts! I hope it helps.

Much Love,

L

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Secret Garden
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posted May 07, 2005 08:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Secret Garden     Edit/Delete Message
no lucitienne,
i dont think ur nuts at all,

or it may be that we both are, so i just dont see it.

i think u shud get in contact, but do expect some coldness in the beginning. i have a gut feeling that he will be awesomely surprised that u contacted him, but he is thinking of u too; he will be happy inside but confused, because he will be scared of what happened before, happening again.

dont be afraid of your emotions; embrace them, its very difficult for me as well, becoz when i listen to my emotions they are usually not as useful as my logic, nor do they give me positive results, but u know u have to moderate them, and embrace them, if you keep running from them they get worse and worse, and then ur pushed into making this purely emotional decision that usually goes wrong....

if only u keep them in check all the way...and i think its lovely that ur saying what u feel here, i think that will help you a lot

i hate to sound, well like im planning, but before i call my aqua i always think of things to say to him, that i know would make him laugh, or make him flirtatious. i never call someone unplanned , becoz i hate awkward silences. and right now we're not in that phase where we could contentedly sigh at just being in each others presence. lol. a scorp moon like myself never contentedly sighs but thats a different story altogether.

i have good feelings nowadays, about us gem/aqua people. zala gave me hope in my venus conjunct thread, but i also saw my man today, and he lit up the room when he walked in. my heart shot up to my throat and the darn butterflies wouldnt stop ticklin me tummy.

i wonder whats going on inside his head, and heart. i know when he smiles at me that he likes me. he hasnt said 'i love u' either, ever....he says that he likes me a lot, he wants to be with me, hes waiting for me to visit him up north, he doesnt want me speaking to other men like 'that'...that he finds me sexy and cute and funny, so on. hes constantly flirting, and yet theres something more to it, something of a serious deep nature to his flirtation, its not innocent...

he is a very sexual creature i think, hes always commenting about how sexy the diff parts of my body are to him. lol. i think he may have scorp influence in his chart. we're infatuated with each other as if we're in the third grade i swear...

but is it love? what is love to an aquarian? whats love to an aqua man? i dont know, but i hope i can find out....through my journey with him,

Love
SG

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Lucitienne
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posted May 09, 2005 12:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lucitienne     Edit/Delete Message
SG,

You have such a good heart, and it sounds to me like you really love this guy. It think just having the mystery of him is a big part of it. I can tell you that Andy liked that he didn't know everything about me, and me him. And I have always thought that actions speak volumes! If you can "tell" someone loves you, it's usually true! How exciting! I would like nothing more to love someone that way again. I tend to go a little "asexual" (gasp!) from time to time, for lack of a better adj! I love hearing about love, it is something I have learned to appreciate as I get up there in years....trust me! If I recall, you are 25. Well, I am 28 and believe me, a lot of stuff happens in those three years, even if it doesn't seem like a long time, it is! So, please keep me posted on your Aqua guy, and I'll keep you posted on my Gem. Something funny I wanted to mention to you. About three months before we got together, I started reading Gemini scopes, for some reason. Now I know what it was.

Much Love,

L

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posted May 24, 2005 09:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Secret Garden     Edit/Delete Message
lucitienne,

I wanted to keep you posted on the Aqua....gah! why does he steal my heart again and again? I dont know I think of us dancing together in class, and I wonder how he looked as a child when Im at work. This is so random isnt it? I wonder if he ever has thoughts like that? Probably not about me, but about anyone?

I called it off with him...asked him if its ok if I see other people? and he said yes, I said I really feel lonely, and I dont want to anymore. He said ok I understand, I am just really busy.

So I guess it wasn't a big deal for him...or maybe it was. You never know with these Aquas! They crumble inside but put up the face for the world. I know he does have a heart...hes a little boy inside that claps with joy when we kiss. lol. But I dont know if he feels hurt...if thats one of the emotions in his limited book....

He talked to me last night again, curious to know how Im doing, what Im doing, etc. He was sweet as usual, it seemed like nothing even ever happened! And then it took him like 6 seconds to make me blush like a 13 yr old again. lol.

And then he used that coveted word again (honey). He used that the first time when he claimed I was his girl! So does it mean anything? Off goes my Scorpionic/Gemini mind in devious directions. But I know he really says it coz hes used to it...he can envision me as his honey, but hes not an idiot, and he is fixed, he doesnt like going through make up and break up cycles again and again. I dont *like* it either, I feel compelled to break up with him because he doesnt pay any attention...Im the last thing on his list. But then we find we're too attracted to really be apart!

And then the being apart falls apart!

And reading ur Gems horoscope, thats not weird at all....Ive always read my Aquas when I thot he would not want to be with me...of if we were going to have problems, or even if we're not together, to see if he'll have a good day!

Love
SG

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Lucitienne
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posted May 25, 2005 12:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lucitienne     Edit/Delete Message
Nice to read another of your posts. It sounds like me and my Gem, well, how we used to sound. I think if I contacted him, we would pick up where we left off too. I can't imagine ever "loving" someone like that again. I never contacted him again cause I, like your aqua man, hated the thought of breaking up, getting back, breaking up, getting back. But now, I am resorting to doing crazy things, like calling his house in the wee hours, and when I get the machine, I hang up cause I'm too scared to leave a message!! But enough about me, I am sad for you. Maybe you will never find someone like that, who makes you feel that way. But be sure that you will find another love. Stay friends with this Aqua man, be his friend. That's all they (you know who I'm talking about)say they want, so do it. Be his friend...and don't waver from being his friend, even when you feel like you'll melt right into the floor if you kissed him!! Try it!! Thanks for keeping me posted!!

Much Love,

L

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posted May 26, 2005 01:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Secret Garden     Edit/Delete Message
lucitienne, thats very interesting, yes i do plan on being his friend, and forever, even if he doesnt need me. which reminds me of something very interesting,

i told him, sometimes i need to talk to u, becoz u get me and other ppl dont, and i feel upset or lonely. he said, ok let me tell u the secret way to contact me that only may family knows of (and he tells me), and says if u ever need me contact me here. i said, i know i will need u, but will u ever need me? and he said, need is a four letter word for me.

that made me crack up before it made me sad, because it shows me that he is incapable of loving the way that i do...so it gave me invaluable insight into his character...he seemed very involved in the conversation, 100 percent there, which is so rare, and kept asking, when will u come?? so am i invited to ur bday? etc. i did invite him although i know he will never come, he is fixed, and for an aqua, driving 5 hrs each way, or flying an hr each way, is too time consuming and too expensive....afterall he doesnt have time right...

on the other hand he wants to talk to me, wants me to act like i am his girl but not willing to call me that? i wish i understood him in terms of relationships but i really dont, i understand him in every other way

find your voice with the gemini, he will appreciate it....thats how i feel. if u felt the connection chances are it was definitely there...in the 5-9 patterns ive seen that usually feelings are mutual, whereas in incompatible situations theres usually an imbalance of power or emotion on one side,

if u felt that strongly, and u are fixed, i would say he definitely felt it and still feels it, Geminis are softer at heart than most people would expect, and it is very very difficult to move along, i have a Gem stellium and would be considered independent or carefree but I was hung up on a Leo for 4 yrs when he could care less after we broke up,

Love
SG

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posted May 26, 2005 12:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lucitienne     Edit/Delete Message
You are right, I am certain I will contact him sooner or later. I just don't want to find out that he has a girlfriend now or something. I was thinking of writing him....but to me that's the coward's way of contacting someone, esp. if you have their number!! I am making it too hard for myself, I know. Your Aqua guy, he sounds like a person I know. I would never admit that my Gem guy was my boyfriend, I never referred to him as such. We were long distance the whole time we were together, at first only 4 hours separated us, then 8. He always came to visit me when 4 hours separated us. Then I moved to Pasadena, and with him living in Reno, we both had to drive 4 hours to see one another. That only lasted a little over a year. We never lived in the same area. Which is another reason why I am reluctant to contact him. Would I really want to do the whole long distance thing again?? I don't think so. What would we do? Doubt is a bad thing. Have you ever told your Aqua man that you loved him? I mean really told him??

Hugs,

L

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posted June 03, 2005 04:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lucitienne     Edit/Delete Message
SG,


I finally did it, I wrote him a note, and I actually mailed it!! I am scared of the outcome, but I asked the heavens to at least have the letter make him smile, chuckle or something!!! I knew I would do it, it was just a question of when. So, we'll see what happens.

How are things going with the Aqua guy? Are you two still "friends"? Keep me posted!!


Gasps,

Lucitienne

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