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Topic: Scorp Female Virgo Male?
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kiwigirl
Knowflake Posts: 4
From: New Zealand
Registered: May 2005
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posted May 24, 2005 05:56 PM
 
Greetings from New Zealand. I have been coming to this site for a while and it is amazing.I need some help. For the last two years my neighbour and I have had a thing for each other, we have never done anything about it cos of the age difference mainly, he is 23 i am 35. Yet there is this strong connection. In that two year period we have seen each other over the fence and every now and again we see each other out around town and always speak, although sometimes we walk past each other and completely ignore each other, me out of fear of rejection and scared of the attraction, him maybe cos of shyness? anway two weeks ago i was out with a friend and we caught up with my neighbour and a friend of his and ended up partying with them. It was a great night and ended up back at my place. While we didnt go the whole way we spent the next day in bed cuddling and kissng and chatting and it was great. Before he left to go to the meeting for his sports team he tidied up my place and filled a bottle with water and left it by my bed for me! very considerate. anway that was one and a half weeks ago and i havent seen him since. I know he has never let a girl in close before, and he told me i was pushing all his buttons, but i am kind of confused, there is something between us and i dont believe it is one sided, yet he hasnt come back again. Before he left my place that day he was kind of lingering and i was like what are you doing? and he replied that he was deciding what to leave behind so he would have to come back for it, and i was like, you dont have to leave something behind to come back, you are welcome here anytime. I havent had a lot to do with Virgos, from what i have read here He is alot like what is described, quirky etc, but i think he may be on the cusp, he is right at the beginning of virgo and end of Leo so i dont know what influence there is there. Would you wonderful people be able to advise me what to do and how to approach this. My gut feeling is to let him come around when he is ready, but i have a feeling that one he is shy and two, he is scared of rejection. How do i know if he is interested or not. From our conversations that day and from what some of his friends said i know he has discussed me over the two year period with them..... thanks in advance for your help everyone....i wish i had known this site existed earlier....it is so wonderful Hugs & love
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pixelpixie
Moderator Posts: 35
From: Ontario Canada
Registered: May 2005
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posted May 24, 2005 08:10 PM
Gosh, that sounds fun and exciting!
Do you know his birthdate?
What's yours?
*Astrological insights can be obtained better when a full chart is done.. including time, place and date of birth...You've been doing something right, so I'd say continue...
Be casual, so as not to scare him off.... but continue being the intriguing female you are.
Virgo's and Scorpios go well together.. sextile by sign, and I find I get on well with the Virgos in my life...
Good luck! Oh, and welcome!  IP: Logged |
kiwigirl
Knowflake Posts: 4
From: New Zealand
Registered: May 2005
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posted May 24, 2005 10:45 PM
Thanks for your welcome PixelpixieI was born on the 28th October 1969 i am not sure of the time as i am adopted. He was born in 1981 and i know it was August but cant remember whether it is 23,24 or 25th! He did tell me and he said he was a virgo on the cusp. We were both born in New Zealand, he is a New Zealand maori. Dont know if any of that helps at all. My head is all over the place at the moment, the full moon the last couple of nights has been so amazing, i watch it come up down at the beach where i live and it blows my mind. Peace
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pixelpixie
Moderator Posts: 35
From: Ontario Canada
Registered: May 2005
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posted May 25, 2005 12:38 AM
I am also an October 28th chick!!!!
Neat!!!
But I am '76, and in Canada.What are your other placements? I wonder what we have in common? IP: Logged |
sue g
Knowflake Posts: 922
From: ireland
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted May 25, 2005 11:49 AM
Hello Kiwigirl and welcome to you. I was interested to read your post, as I was born on 29 October, my husband 25 August, and he is 11 years younger. Weve been together for 16 years and I initiated the relationship all those years ago.........now isnt that spooky. We are VERY different but it has lasted this long and I am on my third marriage (glutton for punishment). If you wanna ask any questions, please feel free, cos I wouldnt know where to start girl. It would be good to get both your charts read to see if there are any other similiarities. Good luck with him - love Sue xxIP: Logged |
kiwigirl
Knowflake Posts: 4
From: New Zealand
Registered: May 2005
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posted May 25, 2005 05:47 PM
Hi Sue, thanks for your reply. Not sure what our placements are, not too sure about a lot to do with him at the moment in regards to astrology. Just taking one day at a time. ARe virgos cautious by nature. Most guys pursue you if they are interested but this is kind of different to what i am used to, not sure whether it is his age or lack of self esteem or what....it has taken me two long years to admit how i feel about him and to be honest not sure how he feels about me, there is definately an attraction, but i know he hasnt had many girlfriends that have gotten close to him.How did you sway your virgo man your way, would love you hear your story. Saw another thread about soul mates, really sorry you had to go through that but there is a lesson in everything i guess. I am not into pursuing guys i usually let them come to me, but there seem to be different rules with this guy if that makes sense!! How do you know when a virgo likes you, he said some lovely things to me the other week, now i dont know whether he was playing me or whether it was the alcohol? anyway would love to hear anything you have to say. Peace and Hugs
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sue g
Knowflake Posts: 922
From: ireland
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted May 26, 2005 12:13 PM
Hi Kiwi, I didnt have to sway him cos he was already dreaming about me and I about him. We worked together in a design studio, he was 18 and I was 29 (saturn return - ha ha). Well we were friends for a while, liked the same music and stuff and then one day I asked him out, he said he nearly fainted. It carried on from there. I was married to another at the time and the first time I met Mr. Virgo for a date he said very seriously "do you think this is a good idea, you are already in a relationship with someone else". OMG 18 years old and so responsible and thoughtful, That made me want him even more!!!!! Like your man, he has always been kind, thoughtful, honest and very shy, although he is very open minded and fair, but he is moody, unpredictable and not on the same emotional level as me (but then who the feck would be- LOL). I am an extremely difficult woman to please in love, but he stayed and so did I. We still have great love between us but there are challenges, misunderstandings, BUT he is the only partner I have felt FREE to be myself. He isnt possessive or clingy, in fact his detachment mystifies me at times (to be honest I dont think he is the marrying type - and then he ends up marrying a very possessive and passionate Scorpio woman ha ha). He has been one of my greatest teachers - taught me to be myself, encouraged me to go out and learn stuff which has helped me grow, made me endless cups of tea, only needs asking a favour once, never forgets anything - dates, birthdays etc etc, I can trust him with my life, never been unfaithful (neither have I - thats a bloody miracle, he must have put a huge spell on me). I could go on and on, but dont wanna bore you. Above all Kiwi, I have huge respect for him, he is a VERY STRONG man, albeit aloof and distant at times, which drives me mad but at times intrigues me - being a Scorpio I love paradox. Anyway, I hope this helps - I think Virgo men at times need seducing, albeit subtely - so GOOD LOOK GIRL and enjoy the ride (mmmmm)  x x x:scorpio xxxxxxx  IP: Logged |
kiwigirl
Knowflake Posts: 4
From: New Zealand
Registered: May 2005
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posted May 26, 2005 04:38 PM
Wow Sue, that is an awesome story. You are a brave woman to ask him out, my fear of rejection is so strong due to previous things in my life that i will probably just let this slide, although i have spoken over night to someone who has known him since he was nine years old and i have been friends with her for two years as well and she said she would bet her pay check that he would be back, so will keep your story in my heart and believe that what will be will be. You sound like an amazing woman, thanks for sharing with me.Hugs
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princess_aqua
Knowflake Posts: 11
From: Cleveland
Registered: Feb 2005
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posted May 26, 2005 09:36 PM
Hello Kiwi!I had a post on my virgo as well  Virgos are really hard to figure out sometimes because the are sorta aloof and do not show much. I think that because virgos need reassurance and have a certain fear of rejection, it's safe to be the first to ask him out, subtly of course. But the thing is that virgos are not always self assured and they might not make a big move they aren't absolutely positive that they aren't going to get rejected. Here's the link to my post, i'm sure it'll answer some of your questions http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/004573.html Please enjoy! IP: Logged | |
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