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Topic: Acoustic...........Where art thou?
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Tranquil Poet
Knowflake Posts: 660
From: IN HELLLLLLLLLLLL
Registered: Apr 2005
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posted May 28, 2005 01:49 AM
 
So what's up with capricorn men? If he's still calling me.....is he still interested?
Not sure if I remember but..do you have venus in sagittarius?
My boyfriend does. (Yes u can scream now)
Are you a roamer? Don't lie 
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AcousticGod
Knowflake Posts: 560
From: Pleasanton, CA, USA
Registered: May 2005
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posted May 28, 2005 02:09 AM
Hey!Yes, my venus is in Sag. Am I a roamer? From woman to woman? No. Do I need a certain amount of space? Probably. No, make that definitely. I'm actually better if I don't have to see the person every day. Is he still interested? Did he tell you that he isn't? You should ask him straight out, "Are you still calling me, because you want to be my friend, or are you calling me because you think we have a chance together?" If he says he just wants to be friends, maybe you should tell him that you're not ready for that yet. If you're bold go ahead and tell him how you feel, and how you envisioned things turning out. Let him know that you are serious. Ask him to be honest about why you guys shouldn't be together. Tell him you can handle it even if you're not sure that you can. It could be something that is only an issue in his head, something you can help him get over. IP: Logged |
Tranquil Poet
Knowflake Posts: 660
From: IN HELLLLLLLLLLLL
Registered: Apr 2005
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posted May 28, 2005 10:20 AM
He says we will take things slow..again. He also said we never know what the future holds. He says he still has strong emotions towards me.
He basuically just wants to take things slow all the time.
The last girlfriend he knew...he was friends with for 4 years before they even got together but she turned out being a **** .
So I could see why he is more hesitant now.
Well we will see how it goes today.
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Let him know that you are serious. Ask him to be honest about why you guys shouldn't be together. Tell him you can handle it even if you're not sure that you can. It could be something that is only an issue in his head, something you can help him get over.
According to him.....my jealousy. IP: Logged |
AcousticGod
Knowflake Posts: 560
From: Pleasanton, CA, USA
Registered: May 2005
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posted May 28, 2005 10:30 AM
Why does he consider you jealous? Do you make verbal barbs at other female friends of his? Are you too clingy or needy?IP: Logged |
Tranquil Poet
Knowflake Posts: 660
From: IN HELLLLLLLLLLLL
Registered: Apr 2005
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posted May 28, 2005 11:34 AM
I am clingy, needy, and possessive.Not my fault. Blame the cancer rising, taurus moon, and venus in taurus.
I use to be worst though. I have calmed down a bit.
I can't help it sometimes. IP: Logged |
Tranquil Poet
Knowflake Posts: 660
From: IN HELLLLLLLLLLLL
Registered: Apr 2005
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posted May 28, 2005 11:44 AM
I think it's the fact that alot of my ex boyfriends have been cancers. I was use to being number 1.IP: Logged |
maya-v
Knowflake Posts: 1354
From: New York
Registered: Dec 2004
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posted May 28, 2005 01:07 PM
I like you muuuuuuuch better now TP ... kudos for conquering the evil twin!I can understand, with a Virgo Rising & Jupiter in Gemini, how sometimes quicksilver mercury can mean amazing polarities in personal outlook. So Yay! Im so proud you went through another skin and were reincarnated so wonderfully. IP: Logged |
AcousticGod
Knowflake Posts: 560
From: Pleasanton, CA, USA
Registered: May 2005
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posted May 28, 2005 09:01 PM
I think he'll show you more respect and passion if you're able to show him you're your own person. I think to an extent he wants you to show that you take responsibility for yourself (because he doesn't want to be responsible for both of you). We Caps can be moody so we can't deal with the burden of being responsible for the emotional well-being of someone else...at least not all the time. Part of our being able to trust you is knowing that you'll be able to make it through the times where we're being weird.IP: Logged |
Tranquil Poet
Knowflake Posts: 660
From: IN HELLLLLLLLLLLL
Registered: Apr 2005
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posted May 29, 2005 11:08 AM
My sister who is a cappy dated a cancer for 41/2 years. She said she didn't say I love you and waited almost 2 years to say it. She said she told him right upfront I don't love you.....then she said she ended up loving him and that some people just take longer.
Any hoo so we went on our date. It was great. Well he held my hand when we crossed the street and even gave a man a dirty look for trying to talk to me LOL.
We did the usual. Talk Talk Talk, laugh, and then some more talking and laughing.
Then when we said goodbye to eachother we cuddled and hugged real tight for about 5 mins on the street. He told me I looked beautiful today and I told him he lookled very handsome.
Then I walked home. He lives about 5 blocks away.
So I come home and complain about my feet hurting. Then I started watching some documentary on the discovery channel and he called me at 12am.
I know what you mean about him wanting to see me have my own life as well. I even ignore his call sometimes so he will think I'm out. I'll see him call once. If i don't answer, he calls again and lets it ring for a long time.
We agreed to some space again so hopefully he will give it to me this time.
Capricorn men.....so adorable yet confusing at the same time.
His aquarius moon and rising makes it worse.
Ugh.
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sue g
Knowflake Posts: 1119
From: ireland
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted May 29, 2005 01:17 PM
I understand how you are Tranquil, we both have that Taurus moon dont we? I have had to detach so much from my man, it feels really difficult sometimes and at times I think "oh I am just gonna go out and get another intense Scorpio or someone without that bloody Aqua moon", but I dont, I havent for 16 years, and probably wont, but I know I have in the past driven him mad, I can see it in his face. Like tomorrow night he is staying in the city, workstuff, andhe says "is that okay with you" and I say "of course it it" but a part of me want s him to stay here, but I AM LEARNING TO LET GO" and so shall you honey - they like it those Aqua moons when you become a little aloof - oh the lessons of life, arent they shite at times - love to you - take it easy, play it cool girl and he will be falling at your feet xx IP: Logged |
AcousticGod
Knowflake Posts: 560
From: Pleasanton, CA, USA
Registered: May 2005
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posted May 29, 2005 10:15 PM
Yeah, I don't have to deal with Aqua in my chart. I get the other devil called Sagittarius.  IP: Logged |
Tranquil Poet
Knowflake Posts: 660
From: IN HELLLLLLLLLLLL
Registered: Apr 2005
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posted May 31, 2005 12:04 AM
Ugh he has sagittarius as his venus also and in his 10th and 11th house also.
*Barf
I'm talking to him right now. *Sigh IP: Logged |
AcousticGod
Knowflake Posts: 560
From: Pleasanton, CA, USA
Registered: May 2005
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posted May 31, 2005 01:54 AM
Yeah, Sag and Aqua are both a bit scary to deal with in relationships it seems.IP: Logged |
Tranquil Poet
Knowflake Posts: 660
From: IN HELLLLLLLLLLLL
Registered: Apr 2005
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posted June 01, 2005 09:38 PM
Well....everything is still the same. Him calling me.
The day I asked him if he loved me and got the answer I didn't want....I told him I would leave then..but he said please dont go.
I'm gonna give it a couple of more months.
He confuses the sh*t out of me. I need to stop all this.
I don't know what to do anymore.
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AcousticGod
Knowflake Posts: 560
From: Pleasanton, CA, USA
Registered: May 2005
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posted June 01, 2005 11:17 PM
Wait and be patient I say. It's all about him trusting you.IP: Logged |
maya-v
Knowflake Posts: 1354
From: New York
Registered: Dec 2004
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posted June 02, 2005 09:48 AM
Hey TP, doesnt he have an Aqua Moon? Trust me, you shouldnt ask them those questions without expecting to get your fingers burnt - I did, badly and still do, everytime I ask a direct question. He will tell you, just give him time, he mgiht surprise you some day, when you least expect it!------------------
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Tranquil Poet
Knowflake Posts: 660
From: IN HELLLLLLLLLLLL
Registered: Apr 2005
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posted June 02, 2005 10:28 AM
He has an aqua moon and aqua rising. Double the fright LOL
It's wierd. He has told me he loves me in the past.
I'll stop the emotional crap though. ------------------
Gemini sun, Cancer rising, Taurus moon IP: Logged |
pidaua
Knowflake Posts: 3322
From: Sierra Vista, Arizona
Registered: May 2002
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posted June 02, 2005 01:55 PM
Capricorn's take time - Aqua moon detaches - they analyze (in a similar yet different way than Cappy suns). The Venus in Sag is playful, loving, but doesn't want to be restricted. Having Venus in Sag can cause the Cap Sun a bit of trouble in that their heart wants to run with it, yet the logical side of Cappy says "Hey, slow down, no need to jump into something and get hurt".The Gemini Sun wants is all now.."love me, tell me how you feel..talk, talk talk..." Where as the Cancer rising says 'He didn't call, does he hate me, why is he acting different, does he not want me". Then you have that adorable Taurus moon (my Nephew has this placement). Wanting the affection, wanting the love- which the Gemini Sun doesn't quite understand as it is NOT possessive- but Cancer rising / Taurus moon is. I grew up with a double Cappy dad that seemed to always take things in a more analytical manner. Throw in that Aqua moon and they can reason themselves out of alot of things. My ex-bf is a Leo with an Aqua moon- at times I had a hard time understanding him - even with my Sag placements. They can just be different, very blunt, to the point and sometimes just very aloof (yeah, I know that is the pot calling the kettle black since the Archer isn't known for being all that "present") I would advise you to really use your Gemini sun qualities to understand his moon - of all the signs gemini should know the aqua tendency to detach. Use your Taurus moon to nuture and understand his Cap Sun. I like Cappy men as friends, but I am too much fire for most of them and my Aries moon does not provide me with the patience to deal with their issues or timing. Then again, I am with one of the most slowest signs (as far as making a decision) in the zodiac..the Taurus- but he as a good dose of fire in his chart. One more thing, I am not sure the degree of his Aqua rising- but one thing I have noticed about Cappies with their Suns in the 12th house- they are prone to affairs (as most people with 12th house Venus or Sun unless they have a boatload of aspects that cancel out the wandering tendancy...like say Saturn in the 8th). Make sure he is not just "keeping" you. I have seen this with other Cappy men, including my own dad. If he doesn't see a future with you or if he as gone from "being in LOVE" to now he wants to just go slow- then you need to really evaluate the situation and decide how you want to proceed and what you will allow. Good luck IP: Logged |
Tranquil Poet
Knowflake Posts: 660
From: IN HELLLLLLLLLLLL
Registered: Apr 2005
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posted June 02, 2005 06:56 PM
I ended it all.
Thanks for the advice guys. It was nice knowing you all.
Good luck in your life.
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Tigerlily
Knowflake Posts: 47
From: Florida
Registered: Nov 2004
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posted June 02, 2005 10:21 PM
Your post is a bit cryptic. I don't know you but I'm worried about you. You aren't feeling suicidal, are you? Please don't do anything your soul would regret. The pain you're feeling now will pass and one day you'll look back on this unbearable time and feel peace. Think of other hard times in your life. They passed and so will this. Getting through it is a tall order but you can do it. I don't know you but I know you're surrounded with a lot of love and support here on this forum. Reach out to your friends here and they will help you get through this painful time.IP: Logged |
future_uncertain
Knowflake Posts: 1154
From: ohio
Registered: Aug 2004
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posted June 02, 2005 11:17 PM
Tigerlily, I was thinking the same thing.  IP: Logged |
Tranquil Poet
Knowflake Posts: 660
From: IN HELLLLLLLLLLLL
Registered: Apr 2005
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posted June 03, 2005 12:53 AM
I'm not suicidal.No one is worth taking my life for. Don't worry guys. Well he called me.
I had sent him an e-mail saying goodbye but then I couldn't stand it anymore so I called him and told him to just ignore it. He said oh oh. What you don't want to talk to me?
He said it in a very sad way but I told him to not read it. I know he is nosy so he was gonna read it anyways and he did.
We spoke for about 40 mins.
He told me he hates it when I get jealous over things and that we are friends right now and he enjoys going out with me and likes it when he sees me happy....the way i use to be. He says he loves it when I talk and just go on about things. He says he wants me like that all the time. he says he will no longer tolerate any jealousy. He said he loved it when we went out to eat saturday and that he wshes I was always like that.
He says I have to stop thinking that he is interested in every girl. He said for us not even to label ourselves as friends or anything right now but as just "Us".
He says he can't deal with emotional stuff right now especially after the loss of his beautiful kitty. (He finally got her ashes today).
He says he needs my friendship right now and for us not to think about what will happen in the future because that will just screw us up more.
I'm gonna have to tatoo a shut the hell up b*tch...don't start again tatoo on my arm so I can look at it and remind myself not to start any drama.
I do not want him out of my life.
So we are gonna talk again in a couple of days. Some space is needed.
I don't care if any of this doesn't last. I want to spend as much time as possible with him.
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AcousticGod
Knowflake Posts: 560
From: Pleasanton, CA, USA
Registered: May 2005
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posted June 03, 2005 01:30 AM
Sounds good. I'm glad you replied. IP: Logged |
maya-v
Knowflake Posts: 1354
From: New York
Registered: Dec 2004
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posted June 03, 2005 10:08 AM
TP ...  (((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))))) Hope your heart finds joy with his ...  IP: Logged |
Tranquil Poet
Knowflake Posts: 660
From: IN HELLLLLLLLLLLL
Registered: Apr 2005
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posted June 04, 2005 09:32 PM
Gracias IP: Logged |
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