posted June 21, 2005 09:28 PM         

hehehe. havent seen u online in a bit either.

but anyhow im so happy ur meeting the gem. distant gems are either:
1. scared gems,
or
2. gems that are just putting their laundry away while watching jay leno and trying to finish up a project for work, stuffing that last bite of dinner in their mouth yes we usually do a cr@pload of stuff at once and that tends to distract us.

ease her into talking, becoz ive met people after having initially talking to them online, and ive talked my mouth off at them becoz i was so nervous about awkward silences. (THOSE ARE THE WORST!). dont try to take control but try to be funny and just be urself. dont stare too hard at her or she might feel like ur analyzing lol. the suggestion of looking into her eyes is great. i have a couple of gem gal pals and all of them think their eyes are their best asset. remember to compliment her on something; whatever it is that strikes u best about her, her eyes, her jeans, whatever.

dont do the paper bag joke. lol. altho she may laugh it off, but as a Gem i am personally super sensitive about my appearance. esp if im going on a first date, the guy better be shocked in the pleasant way. lol. but then again i have libra rising which makes me very vain about my appearance. i take a lot of care about looking good and dont like to get adverse reactions.

dont just say that u like the way she looks today, but act it. by that i mean, smile at her, look in her eyes, gently touch her shoulder and that sort of thing. for the verbal creatures that we are, geminis DO notice the nonverbal messages and they can be stronger than the words. we invent words....we know how superficial they can be!

posted June 25, 2005 07:28 AM         

I should have told you that we spoke on the phone Thursday night. It went well (she's got a great voice), but perhaps I was too flirty or too suggestive.

I feel the rapport between us, and I think that makes me want to jump ahead (I think it's that Cardinal quality impulsiveness). I do think she's probably more right, though, in her thinking. There's a lot of wisdom in taking things slow, and she just wants to ensure that we're friends first (4 planets in the 11th house). That was essentially what she meant by her email this morning.

Once I figured that out I was able to empathize, and figure out a way to make the situation a bit less threatening. Now we're set to have dinner in her city, go watch a movie, and have some dessert (she mentioned Cold Stone Creamery, so I think that's in the cards). Thankfully she isn't so scared that she felt like pushing it off til Sunday (to ensure I wouldn't be likely to return the next day if things went well). This way, we can meet and if it does turn out fantastic then I suppose doing something Sunday is an option. The fair is in town in my city.

Anyway, it should be fun. I'm looking forward to it.

She's challenging, and it's kinda cool. It keeps seeming like we're hitting an impasse, but then we're able to figure one another out and talk it out, and everything's fine. That whole psychic connection thing is cool. I'm not sure how it will translate in real life, though.

The beauty of writing is that you're not dealing with time constraints or body language. Instead, you have the time to really think about what the other person is saying and trying to communicate.

Ok, I guess that's it. Until I see you see you guys again.

Thanks and Love,

posted June 28, 2005 08:55 PM         

Oh, the suspense! What happened?

posted July 07, 2005 07:19 AM         

( aspects in your chart )
.. on the 4 th july .. within 1 degree ...

transiting / aspect / natal

mars sextile saturn
jupiter sextile venus
saturn sextile moon
uranus square venus
neptune sextile mercury

there were a couple of minor aspect from merc to Asc nd Mc .. also chiron be septile to natal venus ( it be a minor aspect of some sort ) .. .. Jupiter and Saturn are moving on .. Urns and Nept are still in reverse mode ( retro .. Urns goes back to 6.50 pisces and turns direct on 15th november '05 .. yet to write down Nep and Plut )

posted July 12, 2005 08:32 PM         

THIS THREAD NEEDS TO BE UPDATED!!!]

posted July 12, 2005 09:16 PM         

Yeah, AG told the Gem girl he wasn't interested already. I commend him for telling her early on and not dragging his feet or simply disappearing like a lot of guys would.

AG

I read that you're in Pleasonton. I'm in SF

Ciao,

posted July 27, 2005 12:22 PM         

I think you have something there - I know a few Geminis who are breaking up and going thro changes - I wonder why that is?

Love

posted August 03, 2005 08:34 AM         

For Gems it's true.Lots of changes are going on.I know one Gem girl who had relationship for 7 years and dumped the guy because she is afraid of divorce.She thinks it's better to quit right now rather than later. I agree but reason behind her decision was "CHANGE" . It got boring. I asked her some personal questions and she relaized maybe she doesn't know him so well.
Anyway she got new boyfriend and it didn't took long.He is sensitive,he cried for her while proposing and she was moved by that.I guess she has cancer moon.