posted July 10, 2005 11:43 PM
Yes I agree with beig picky. But it's not good that you want to explode. I used to be very picky until I realized that every man has something beautiful about him, his hands, his lips, his legs. If you focus on thing you love about a man, and tell him, you will see how attractive he will become.His eyes will light up and he will be softer, sweeter and then if you massage him, or touch him on the back of the neck, you can feel closer to something positive.
I know this sounds strange but it works,
I also have Venus in Aries and Mars in Sag/1st house, plus lots of Aries energy. I need to be one with the one I love when I feel it, not when he's ready so it's very frustrating.
I have learned how to get in touch with my feelings and let a man know what they are in a subtle way, and honestly men can turn themselves on to you in a such a way as to show you a different side.
Sometimes I have to cuddle and hug a man I didn't like before but eventually I get into a "zone" with him and like just him.
I agree with the loving the exes thing too, I have to literally turn myself off.
Another practical idea is to get checked for a low level bacterial infection. Lots of water and no sugar can help this.
Natasha