posted January 08, 2006 06:18 PM
moonshine you are getting into the responsibility part of sex in your head when you meet a man, don't do that. Just be his friend and invite him over to your house if you find him interesting at all. As long as you feel somewhat safe, find out his name, address, go to his house first, then invite him over. The more time you spend with someone at home, yours and his, the more connected you will feel. he doesn't have to be great looking just someone you can trust.
After a while the feeling happens and stays, and men do not expect you to get passionate right away ever, some expect a woman to wait months before even discussing romance, they know that your desire to him often is hint enough. Every man is waiting for that kind of signal and if he is passionate enough he will follow you. After that tell him you want sex just as much but when it's right. Don't give a timeline.
Again, they expect to hear this, it's NORMAL. That closeness and getting to know you is what drives the friendship, it's not about a tease. You may cuddle one and you both decide it's not for you. No harm done, no fireworks.
Again, happens all the time!
50% of the time we get passionate over practical reasons, it's late, it's snowing, he's warm, or it seems like there is a future. Men marry women for practical reasons too, not because she was super sex goddess!
Every man wants a woman to be there, warm, and loving, and he knows she's not going to put on some act.
Forget the Libra because libras are like that, my ex hasn't called me in weeks because of a mood. Do go after passionate men, and make signals towards new ones in case he maybe someone you do fancy.
Be clear about what turns you on?
What does not turn me on took me years to figure out.
Waspish, peevish, snotty, cheap, argumentative, too skinny, too fat.
Just weed those ones out and talk to everyone else. And never underestimate the lure of a warm home and a movie.
There are tons of passionate men out there, who maybe a bit younger, a bit different, but get out there and talk to them. Don't think there is something wrong with you.
Next time have a piece of pie, not the whole thing. Just cuddle, you'll KNOW.
Natasha
Lindaland
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posted January 08, 2006 03:38 PM
