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Topic: Capricorn man Virgo woman
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starruby Knowflake Posts: 11 From: Brandon, FL, USA Registered: Jan 2006
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posted February 01, 2006 09:28 AM
Hi, I am a female (38) virgo (24degrees) with leo rising (4 deg), moon in pisces (8 deg, Mercury 12deg Libra, Venus is in 27 Degrees Leo, Mars is in 04 Degrees Sagittarius. I am being pursued online hot and heavy by a male (45) Capricorn with Rising Sign is in 24 Degrees Sagittarius, Sun is in 10 Degrees Capricorn, Moon is in 05 Degrees Cancer, Mercury is in 08 Degrees Capricorn, Venus is in 25 Degrees Aquarius, Mars is in 07 Degrees Cancer. Ok, just wondering if he is for real. He is telling me that he thinks I am "the one" and we have only been talking for 4 weeks. He says he loves me and wants to marry me! He calls several times a day, IM's and emails me a lot. We talk on the phone for hours. He lives in NYC and I live in Tampa, FL. I am very virgo cautious right now, and am interested in him, but not sure he is for real or not.....Thanks!
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Virgo-AriesArtist Moderator Posts: 1320 From: USA Registered: Nov 2001
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posted February 01, 2006 09:35 AM
How did you meet this guy? Is he someone you are comfortable with from the contact you've had? Those with heavy Cancer influences are very future based, and if he feels you are a secure bet, he will be persistent. Have you guys had time to spend together in person? If not, that would be my reccomendation, for it is only then you can get an accurate Virgo vibe on what his intentions are and if they are right for you. Hey Virgo gal, we're here for ya... ------------------ -K "Most people love with restraint As if they were someday to hate We hated gently, carefully As if we were someday to love"-Venus Trines at Midnight IP: Logged |
starruby Knowflake Posts: 11 From: Brandon, FL, USA Registered: Jan 2006
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posted February 01, 2006 12:33 PM
He saw me on Myspace on a mutual friend's friend page, and he started contacting me. I have pictures on there and he has pictures of himself on there on his profile. He has been very forthright with me about things but it seems to be a lot of emotion very fast. I am not used to this, usually I am the one moving too fast! We have not met in person yet, although he really wants to meet me soon.IP: Logged |
AcousticGod Knowflake Posts: 4405 From: Pleasanton, CA, USA Registered: May 2005
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posted February 01, 2006 09:54 PM
I'm a Capricorn, but I think I'm with you on this. I'd be tempted to think that's he's being very real. However, the internet can distort things, and you never really know if the chemistry is there until you meet.I think your hesitance may be an indicator of where you stand with him. If you were as enthusiastic about him, then I'd say go for it. It doesn't seem like you are. IP: Logged |
starruby Knowflake Posts: 11 From: Brandon, FL, USA Registered: Jan 2006
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posted February 02, 2006 03:39 AM
I feel that he is very genuine and we plan to meet within a month. Time & Money allowing....He is a very scheduled, but impetuous person. He says he has a hard time keeping his mouth shut when he should. He is very disciplined and likes things in their place. I am a very disorganized, procrastinating Virgo, looking for a father figure, and someone to keep me in line....is he the one for me?IP: Logged |
AcousticGod Knowflake Posts: 4405 From: Pleasanton, CA, USA Registered: May 2005
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posted February 05, 2006 10:11 PM
Tough to say.IP: Logged |
Belage Knowflake Posts: 8 From: Bay Area, California, USA Registered: Jan 2006
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posted February 06, 2006 12:50 PM
I noticed that your respective Venus are at opposite poles: Leo and Aquarius. To make it work emotionally, you would both have to be willing to grow and adjust to the other's point of view. It is really difficult to say more, as I would need more information, notably the respective Saturn and Jupiter, Pluto and Chiron positions, These planets are significant indicators of the potential longevity of any relationship. Uranus is important too to some extent. If you have a Uranus squaring Venus or opposite Venus, the relationship will not last. IP: Logged |
starruby Knowflake Posts: 11 From: Brandon, FL, USA Registered: Jan 2006
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posted February 06, 2006 01:06 PM
I was born 9/17/67 at 3:32 AM in Florida, and he was born 1/2/61 at 6:15 AM in Brooklyn NY. Does that help? He has asked me to marry him and I am considering it...IP: Logged |
Belage Knowflake Posts: 8 From: Bay Area, California, USA Registered: Jan 2006
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posted February 06, 2006 04:04 PM
"I was born 9/17/67 at 3:32 AM in Florida, and he was born 1/2/61 at 6:15 AM in Brooklyn NY." I just check my ephemeris book. You both seem to have been born close to the full moon. That means you tend to make hasty, emotional decisions. Okay, these are your aspects stats:Your Saturn at 10 degrees of Aries squares his sun at 11 degrees of Capricorn. Not good for him. Saturn is a task master and disciplinarian, fault-finding. He would feel that you're picking on him. His Saturn at 19 degrees of Capricorn trines your Pluto at 20 degrees of Virgo. Could be good. You 2 could do deep work together and build something strong. Your Jupiter at 24 degrees of Leo opposes his Venus at 26 degrees of Aquarius and his Chiron at 28 degrees of Aquarius. Not good, but it could be worst. His Venus at 14 degrees of Capricorn squares your Mercury at 12 degrees of Libra. Not good. Your mind might conflict with his love style, and you may have difficulties understanding his love nature. His Jupiter (good fortune) does not make any positive aspect to any planet in your chart. Not good. He is not going to bring you any good fortune. As a matter of fact, His Jupiter at 14 degrees of Capricorn squares your Saturn at 10 degrees of Aries. Not good at all. However, your Jupiter and his Uranus are conjunct at 24/25 degrees in Leo. Which is very positive, but not a special indicator of a love story. Uranus rules the unpredictable, so it's difficult to say in which way this will be profitable. Sorry, I wish I had more positive reading for you, but I call it the way I see it. The stars are not fate, however, and if you insist on marrying this guy, I would suggest that you wait a while until you get to know him better. What is the rush?
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Belage Knowflake Posts: 8 From: Bay Area, California, USA Registered: Jan 2006
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posted February 06, 2006 04:06 PM
Let me add:His Venus and Chiron are sitting in your 7th house, the house of marriage, so this is a good indicator of marriage interest. IP: Logged |
starruby Knowflake Posts: 11 From: Brandon, FL, USA Registered: Jan 2006
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posted February 06, 2006 04:12 PM
He is very interested in marrying me. I ask because we have not known each other long, I am planning to meet him next month, he and I have been conversing thru various media. For some reason, he really thinks he is in love with me and wants to marry me....help!!!! I am interested in him and all, but I am trying to avoid huge mistakes on this one.....IP: Logged |
Belage Knowflake Posts: 8 From: Bay Area, California, USA Registered: Jan 2006
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posted February 06, 2006 04:26 PM
Take.your.time.In his chart, his Uranus in Leo sits opposite his Venus in Aquarius. He could be the kind of person who falls very quickly in and out of love. Uranus is the opposite of stability. It symbolizes changes and unpredictability. So, date him, get to know him. Have fun! But don't rush into anything serious until you feel very sure that you know him. IP: Logged |
SweetCappie Knowflake Posts: 130 From: Registered: Oct 2005
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posted February 07, 2006 04:02 PM
Be careful and take it slow with ANY GUY that wants to marry you after only knowing you for 4 weeks. I have a Cancer Moon too, like your Cappie. I know this moon really softens me and adds loads of insecurity. Your guy is not exhibiting the typical cappie and cancer cautiousness which is why I think you should really get to know him well before jumping into anything serious. It typically takes Cappies, especially us with Cancer moons a while to committ to a serious long-term relationship. Sag rising and Venus opp. Uranus is probably why he's rushing in and falling in love so quick. Maybe that's also why he's verbal about it. I know I tend to not verbally express emotions unless I feel secure that they will be fully returned. Cancer moon makes me very sentimental, romantic, moody as hell, empathic, insecure in love, cautious and sensitive. Being in love brings out my poetic, romantic side. Capricorn/Cancer also needs financial & emotional security. If you plan on being serious with him, once you're in the relationship stage make sure you give him enough attention, affection, and reassurances and all in heavy regular doses. Without those, my Cancer moon would pout, withdraw, and cause problems (like manipulation, testing, disappearing acts). IP: Logged |
starruby Knowflake Posts: 11 From: Brandon, FL, USA Registered: Jan 2006
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posted February 08, 2006 07:54 AM
Hi everyone! You all have been so helpfull!!! I actually read your statements to my Cappy and he said you all are pretty much dead on! He said it was funny how accurate you all are.....lol Keep your observations coming!!! He is VERY romantic, and very verbal. Very affectionate, very driven. Intolerant of screw-ups, and he often gets into trouble because of his "big-mouth". Does this sound typical?IP: Logged | |