posted February 02, 2006 03:31 PM         

Capricorn Sun
Virgo Moon
Gemini Ascendant

Confused and flighty? Yeah, unfortunately

Just a charmer who moves on when I've gotten what I want? No, but I will move on if I get bored or the other person gets bored (also unfortunate).

Hard to believe someone could love me? Absolutely... on some levels

With the last one, I know that I possess a certain attractiveness that I have no control over. There are moments where I know I appear extremely attractive, but those moments are just moments, and if you wait around I'll eventually turn ugly for some moments too. Personally, I'm artistic and moody and fairly individualistic. I'm am not a person who is always, 'on.' I need space as much as I need the comfort of other people.

posted February 03, 2006 02:17 AM         

I think between a Cap and a Virgo it's going to be a slow start. I think both signs have a bit of reserve and caution, and it's not the easiest to get over that. Neither are likely to open up very fast I don't think. If you're both comfortable sexually, and one of you is brave enough to initiate then you may move the process along a bit as intimacy seems to break through at least a Capricorn's shell.

It's a little tough for me to imagine how a Virgo/Cap relationship plays out. I think Virgo and Taurus are a better pair.

posted February 03, 2006 03:08 AM         

Are they confused and flighty?

They are confused not flighty. They are confused because they create many options for themselves or always hoping that they could get better. That doesn't mean they are disloyal. This is only till they really commit you.No wonder people call them opportunists.

Are they just charmers and when they get what they want, they move on?

They don't move on when they get what they want. They move on when they get something better. Remember they are ambitious and wouldn't settle for less. I think even in love.If they are still juggling with their options stay there they would come back and that time would probably like to get married to you or get a committment. They are also sometime afriad of responsibility called marriage.If they are really into you and there is really an emotional connection then it would be difficult for them to be away from you. They would remember you and would be telling his friends about it.

He would spend most of his time working and you might feel he isn't paying attention to you but be around.Don't give up... Let him take the lead just be supportive.That's the way it would be as you are Mutable sign and he is Cardinal. He would expect you to be there.

Or, are they so cautious that it is hard for them to believe that someone could love them?

Yes.They are insecure.

posted February 03, 2006 04:09 PM         

Caps do like direction even if they do not say so. Chances are he is listening and trying to change slowly. Give it some time and watch what he does.

I have only dated two Caps but both were serious to me. Both liked clear physical signals from me that they were liked. As in hand holding, not pulling away, trusting, staying at his house for drinks, dinner, cooking, not going out. Showing concern, and care over career. Its' confusing because a Cap will say nothing but reach for you?

I learned giving is hard for me in this way so I check to see the overall indicators for a good relationship first, and then give the green light. I have also found the juggling thing going on, but I do that too.

posted February 03, 2006 04:48 PM         

i tend to be cautious in matters of love because it is easy to start something, but often difficult to persist. trust is essential, and i need time to observe character; at least long enough to see the integrity of their persona

posted February 05, 2006 10:29 PM         

I think some people (like Capricorns) may be a bit defensive when asked to change. They may feel as though they are being attacked. Often that's the immediate initial reaction.

Upon reflection, though, maybe your Capricorn realizes that it won't kill him to give a little.

posted February 06, 2006 01:12 AM         

They also love to keep you on the phone while arguing the same point over and over without any resolution in a stubborn manner possibly to have a certain amount of control of you when they know they've crossed a line. They can't leave an argument unresolved, even as they are the ones causing arguments in the first place.

Also, I've noticed they like to keep tabs on every movement you've made since you've been out of their presence. And they flip out if you threaten separation, cause a big fight and then try to make up -- which invariably leads to the best make-up sex ever, thus causing the cycle to continue.

posted February 06, 2006 05:54 PM         

I too tend to never really believe it when someone truly likes or loves me. I know I'm a great catch but I'm so reserved and don't show my full personality so if someone who doesn't know me well say they like me, I won't believe them.

I know I don't like being told what to do nor will I change for anyone else. I do have a bad habit of not using the phone, I never used to call my ex-boyfriend. My current Scorpio date told me to call him more, so I try but its so hard because I hate the phone and I also get discouraged if I can't reach him. So change is hard, but if we at least try, then that's a good sign.

posted February 07, 2006 12:53 PM         

Hey! Yes, we keep you on the phone arguing the same point, because we feel like we're right and you're obviously not hearing or understanding us. It's the curse of being the most practical sign of the zodiac. We get into arguments because we think a person ought to correct their thinking, but people are pretty stubborn about their thoughts even when they're wrong.

"Crossed a line"
Maybe you had a messed up (or immature) Capricorn or something. Generally, we'll only cross a line in an argument if the other person is being completely unreasonable (i.e. crossing a line of their own). We then match whatever's thrown at us. If you match our logic or speak as sensibly as possible you won't have explosive arguments with a Capricorn. Ask a Taurus.

I wonder what sign you are to inspire this kind of reaction from a Capricorn. Keeping tabs on your every movement doesn't really sound like us either, unless you've given us reason to be paranoid.

We will work on keeping a relationship. That's for certain. I totally agree with you there.

posted February 07, 2006 03:31 PM         

AcousticGod - as I was reading your last post, I couldn't stop nodding. Its so true, I find it hard to give advice to people that aren't as practical in their thinking. I end up repeating myself over and over hoping that they'd understand my points. I end up doing that with my Pisces friends alot but I end up giving up when I realize they rather be illogical and unrealistic.

" We then match whatever's thrown at us. If you match our logic or speak as sensibly as possible you won't have explosive arguments with a Capricorn. Ask a Taurus." SO TRUE! Come to think of it, I have the best arguements with my Taurean friends. Oh, Starruby said she's a Virgo.

Keeping tabs on your every movement doesn't really sound like us either, unless you've given us reason to be paranoid. I'd only do that if I don't trust the person. Once I trust you and know your usual routine, those "where are you" questions stop.

posted February 08, 2006 03:21 AM         

Man, Acoustic! I'm a Sag with Taurus moon. Fiery and stubborn!! Didn't mean to get you all riled up, refer to this post:
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/008118.html

posted February 08, 2006 12:37 PM         

You said that we're very clingy, jealous, possessive, unnecessarily argumentative, don't respect boundaries, we're instigators, control freaks, and take out our anger on people.

For good things you only said we're good in bed, and persistent.

Make sense?

posted February 09, 2006 12:46 AM         

These aren't guys that I'm necessarily involved with, so the observations can't be from a reaction to ME. Just so you know.

My ex, the Cappy had the least amount of traits that I mentioned, except for that bedroom part