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de1979
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From: Brazil
Registered: Apr 2006

posted April 13, 2006 06:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for de1979     Edit/Delete Message
I´m cancer, asc. gemini, moon in aries...my "boyfriend" is sagittarius (born at night, don´t know what time, in Brighton, England)...we´ve been dating for three monts now. He was very romantic and passionate, perfect, but I´ve heard sags reputation is not that good when it comes to love...and we are apart now...(he is going back to england and I´m staying in Brazil) and we are going to be like that for 4 months. Should I keep on with this, I mean: can I trust a sag? He sais he loves me, he wants to marry me...but not a phone call in a week?! HELP!!!

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gert
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From: south africa
Registered: Sep 2004

posted April 19, 2006 06:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for gert     Edit/Delete Message
Its hard to say,I personally don't do long distance relationships and I am a Sag.

Trust your instincts and not heresay!

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de1979
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From: Brazil
Registered: Apr 2006

posted April 19, 2006 07:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for de1979     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks, Gert..
I didn´t give up.I love him. But still with comunication problems. I guess this is the big thing about cancer and sagittarius - sags want to be free...and cancer wants feels threatned by sags freedom...anyway, I follow your advice...better, my insticts.

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Planet_Soul
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From: The Universe
Registered: May 2005

posted April 20, 2006 01:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Planet_Soul     Edit/Delete Message
I would trust him, until he gave em a reason not to.

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de1979
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From: Brazil
Registered: Apr 2006

posted April 21, 2006 07:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for de1979     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks for the advices...you´re all very kind...but I was thinking about something more technical...although we all know that love follows no rules...

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boo
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Registered: Dec 2005

posted April 22, 2006 06:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for boo     Edit/Delete Message
Me Cancer, Him Sag. Hello.

So my Sag didnt call me a while after we first hooked up. It turns out that the longer he didnt call, the harder it got for him.

I dont belive in the stereotypical man woman dynamic....basically I was the one calling him for a while, but I thought it got too much..which is why I didnt call him during the long no-call spell. You follow?

Anyways, after a while I thought Id send him an e-mail (a text woulda work just as well, but I hate texting. I'd pick calling someone up to texting any day) just to make sure he was alive and all.

Anyways I send the e-mail saying something along the lines of 'I care about you and it would be cool to see you again. Lets speak sometime. Kisses'. Notice the no-pressure-whatsoever use of words.

It turns out he was at home getting high, freaking him self out, writting shhh!!! loads of letters to me...and then like a pin to a balloon, I diffused the whole situation.

He texted(!!) me later that night and invited me to a fischerspooner gig. And we havent stop rocking since !

I hope you find some gems in this story. Hahaha. Basically Im advocating just getting in touch.

For the most part Saggies are philosophical, so its not like hes gonna get irritated. I would go as far as to say he would appreciate some straight forwards action.

Anyhoo, if you need anymore info...or you just wanna some more of my stories, dont hesistate to ask. I am on here ever soo sporadically, but I will reply.

Peace.

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de1979
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From: Brazil
Registered: Apr 2006

posted April 22, 2006 12:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for de1979     Edit/Delete Message
You guys are great! This is for you too Boo!
Seems like the same thing has been happening to me...we´ve been in touch for a while now after those horrible weeks of no news...seems like I was the one freaking out...things were pretty normal on his side!
The thing is to get used to this "more relaxed way of living" that sags seem to have...

Thanks for the advices!

Cheers!

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SparklingSag
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From: Kent
Registered: Nov 2003

posted April 22, 2006 04:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SparklingSag     Edit/Delete Message
Hey,
Saggie woman here - i like communication but am a female:-) Trust your saggie- i love with all my heart when I fall for someone.
Sparkling

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Dulce Luna
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Posts: 71
From: The Asylum
Registered: Mar 2006

posted April 27, 2006 10:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dulce Luna     Edit/Delete Message
Mad lot of experiences with saggies here. I think they're pretty much open-book type people, you wouldn't really have a reason not to trust them. Very upfront in the beginning. Usually, if theyre not the relationship type they'll let you know from the beginning.

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fayte.m
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From: ~out looking for Schrodinger's cat~
Registered: Mar 2005

posted May 01, 2006 11:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for fayte.m     Edit/Delete Message
A thread about Cancerians and different opinions about them, plus famous Cancerians.
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/008995.html

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