posted July 13, 2006 02:25 AM              

This past friday night, myself and my friend who was here from out of town decided to go out for a drink, and *happened* to go someplace he's known to go on a weekend night... just in case we may run into him. We walked in the door, ran into a different friend, and I felt a tap on my shoulder... and guess who??? My libra man. I was OVERJOYED to see him and I felt it was mutual. We were attached at the hip all night. He was there with 2 friends and the 5 of us talked all night and later went to my house and the guys didnt' leave until almost 5am.

The libra & I were in our own world the whole night and my friend later told us it was like the rest of them disappeared to us. It was one of those magic evenings that you can never duplicate, and I think the feelings are mutual... however I now am once again at his mercy in calling me/making plans with me. I am starting to think "he's just not that into me" or he'd have gotten my number. His friends have my number and one of them called me the next day to thank me for the wonderful time and said he was speaking for all 3 of the guys, and they can't wait to hang out with me again. Why won't the LIBRA ask for my #??? Is he afraid of looking like a jerk for going out with two girls who are friends? Or is it that he just isn't into me? (I'd find the latter very hard to believe, btw!)

Also, the acquaintance friend that I mentioned in earlier posts before is livid at me for hanging out with him and it will be the end of our relationship if things with me and the libra go any further. She told me tonight she sees we have chemistry, and it makes her incredibly uncomfortable, and she asked me to stay away from him out of respect for her.

So here's my q, if anyone has any thoughts about this...

Do I make the first REAL move with the libra (aka calling HIM first)? I Don't have his #, but can easily get it. This feels risky b/c if he doesn't have feelings for me, then I've not only made a fool out of myself and made it awkward for our friends to all hang out around us, but I also feel I'm betraying the girl who's asked me to stay away. She'll probably never forgive me, which I could deal with except my BEST friend is our mutual friend. I.E, I'd hate to put her in the middle, and I can't even tell her the truth about me and the libra. Right now, I'm having to pretend I don't have feelings for him and I haven't noticed that he seems to have feelings for me. (ha)

posted July 13, 2006 06:26 AM              

Also libras can make decisions, One made it clear to me about decisions; they just don't like making decisions for YOU or for WE. They make decisions for themselves only because it's draining emotionally to take care of other people's issues. I can't say I blame them for this. I learned how to set better boundaries from a libra.

posted July 23, 2006 11:54 AM              

libra men are like women in romance novels they want to be grabbed, ravished, loved, treated differently, they want to be the center of your whole world and know that will last.

Can you do that?
If not then leave him alone already dont' hang around on the pretense that you have to get to know him better before asking him out!

And why should he call you? I just dont' get it, it's 2006. Women call men all the time.

Call him the first and only time and in the conversation make it clear that to be polite you won't call him again, you'll leave it up to him. Ask him when you see him in person about the other girl explaining that you don't want to step over your boundaries.

Libra men love polite questions, I never met a Libra man that asked me out I had to kiss him first, ask him out, make plans, offer my company first,

That's air men, they are insecure underneath.
They NEED a partner to feel secure and masculine, but if you are waffling then be careful you do not hurt his feelings.
And dating a Libra is like being married! Can you do it?

posted July 24, 2006 02:14 AM              

Natasha said:
I agree that the libra male in question seems about ready to be hitched to "someone", he's up for grabs and waiting for someone to take him.

May I ask both of you - why do you both think this? What is it that gave you that impression? Something in me is telling me the same thing but I have no idea why!

Natasha said:
And dating a Libra is like being married! Can you do it?

Answer - YES, I think he's worth it... only I'm not 100% sure what this means... ha... I'm guessing you mean they get intense quickly??? would love if you could clarify!

Thank you so much for all your great insights - I think I am going to have to bite the bullet this week and call him... will keep you posted and let you know how your advice works!!!

posted August 07, 2006 07:15 PM              

the way i beleive tht your MR.LIBRAN might have another prospect was the fact that he's coming to you but he's also leaving i rarely know of a libran that would leave a lady he was content on having that he has strong feelings for.but if he says i should go but stays another hour he LIKES you GIRL but being alibran he to gutless yes not SHY!!
hell i done this one when i was younger but not now. BUT i did it not to see which girl was the prettiest,who made me laugh,or not even to play them off each other, it was to see which one asked me first,which is what makes me to believe that theres some one else.Libra men are atractted to strong minded woman that can say wht they think COS he AINT.