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GeminiLover75
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posted June 29, 2006 05:24 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Looking into our 7th house stuff, I found that he has sun, Venus and Mercury in my 7th house and I also have Venus there.

BUT... I have Pluto in his 7th house (Libra). This sounds to me like a bad sign. Can anyone tell me what the warning signs/danger zones of this are? At the least it can make me aware of how to deal with possible issues.

Could it be that he energises me more than I energise him? If that was the case, I would have thought he would've deserted a long time ago...

Or is it a case of intensity and transformative power (either destructive or positive) within our relationship? If so, which one of us possesses this power? Or is it both of us?

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GeminiLover75
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posted June 29, 2006 09:57 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I just made another realisation... I could use some help with this!

My MC is Leo and my IC is Aquarius.
He is the opposite: MC in Aquarius, IC in Leo.

What does this mean for us, if anything? (Edit: I just read that one thing it means is that we have different life goals, but can work together??)

Sorry to bombard the forum with posts about me and him! I am just fascinated to know the astrological workings of this relationship because we seem to have a lot of coincidences... (We also both have Chiron in Aries, and I'm not sure what that means either... although I do see a pattern where he reminds me of me as a child, when I had some issues that I let go of as I got older; I'd like to encourage him to let go of it too... maybe this is Chiron at work?).

Also my Jupiter is in his ascendant and the same as his moon sign. And HIS Jupiter is the same as MY moon. Any ideas?

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GeminiLover75
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posted June 29, 2006 11:42 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
One more post. Now that we've been together a year, could someone please help me interpret our composite chart? Or at least, the sun, moon, ascendant, MC and 7th house?

Does the composite Leo vertex have any interaction with our individual Leo MC/IC that I mentioned? Interesting that we also have a composite Aquarius ascendant and Leo descendant... is that weird that it echoes our individual MC/IC's or is that how it usually works out?

There's a heck of a lot of air in there... hot air??! lol (A bit worried about the Scorpio midheaven... sounds scary to me! Especially with me having Pluto in his seventh house...) Makes me worried about our ability to last the distance!

I'm not sure if this relates, but in the past year while we've both remained individuals, there have been some very strong transformations for both of us that directly relate to us being in each other's intimate life.

Advice about anything you see here?

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posted June 30, 2006 06:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for writesomething     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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GeminiLover75
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posted June 30, 2006 06:12 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
OMG that is so accurate it's amazing! It's all so familiar, the good and the bad... I would say, that from all of those negative things mentioned and from what I've experienced is that periodically we get into a type of 'power struggle'. I can't be bothered with it though, I don't think it's healthy, so that's when I (without "backing down" per se) back off and spend time on my own. Soon after that, he's thought about his reaction and comes to a compromise. I think I'm a compromiser by nature, or more willing to find a middle ground - this is probably because I was previously in a serious relationship for five years and I learnt how to handle situations - but he's less willing to do this at first. So I have to wait for him to come to the realisation by himself.

So what all of this points out is the amazing great times and our connection together, but the potential for problems of dominance (from BOTH of us) and communication. Those issues are definitely there in the background, so it's good to be aware of them. Now the key, it seems to me, in not letting those problems become big ones, is finding ways to deal with them?

Thanks for all your hard work, writesomething!!!

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