posted September 15, 2006 09:58 AM         

I just want to know what a Sagittarius is like in a love relationship? I am a Libra but never been in a relationship with a Sag.
But, there are some things I have already noticed!

posted September 15, 2006 10:21 AM         

Very strong desire to maintain independence but can also be extremely romantic.

Lots of Saggies are very chatty - but some are quieter and appear to run deeper. They have a lovely intelligence, and some of them are very witty.

posted September 16, 2006 10:22 AM         

And being outgoing takes it's emotional toll. To be loving and loved back, be supportive, rub feet, listen, cook a meal, be there. It's suprising but that's it.

posted September 17, 2006 12:04 PM         

I find Sag women very upfront and they are some of the more trustworthy women of the zodiac: generally, if there is something bothering them, or if they want to see other people, they make it clear. I very much respect that.

Sex is fun with female Sagittarians. They aren't very wild or adventurous in bed, but they have a very tangible sexuality that I find easy to get in touch with, they seem to know exactly what they want. This I find great, because I know a lot of women who don't even know their own bodies or how to reach the heights of pleasure.

posted September 17, 2006 12:33 PM         

But my hubbie has Saggi rising and also Mars there......

He is very into fast cars, fast sports, roller coaster rides etc and is very sexual.......

posted September 17, 2006 02:07 PM         

My man loves em too.....those bloody loud racing ones...need for speed....aarrrghhhh....hehe!!

posted September 17, 2006 03:51 PM         

They may slip up once in a while and share some discreet information with others, but they're never the type to purposely use anyone's secrets and confidences against them.

Most female Sagi's seem to aim to be wholesome people.

posted September 18, 2006 05:33 AM         

Don't ask a Sag 'does my bum look big in this?' if you don't want the truth, I mean the real truth not the sugar coated one Cos if your bum looks big in that - they'll tell ya: without the diplomacy, i.e 'Yes, it looks huge! I'd wear something else if I were you!'

posted September 18, 2006 02:30 PM         

I don't know the birthdate of one of the Sag girls, but she happens to be the one of the three that I mentioned that wasn't clingy at all. The two clingy/jealous Sag girls don't have Scorpio Mercuries, here are their placements-

A)
Moon- Pisces
Mercury- Capricorn
Venus- Libra
Mars- Libra
ASC- Unknown

B)
Moon- Gemini
Mercury- Sagittarius
Venus- Scorpio
Mars- Capricorn
ASC- Pisces

posted September 18, 2006 10:46 PM         

Whatever you do make sure it's not boring. NOTHING is worse than going through the same scenario over and over again. That applies to spending time together as well as sex.

Don't ever lie or whine. Even about little things. It's a huge turn off.

A bit of physical challenge is always fun.

posted September 21, 2006 07:22 PM         

We can be a bit of a handful that is for sure. The more fire we have the harder it is for some to deal with but I would say (and I am HIGHLY subjective) we are worth it LMAO..

I often advise people to wait to take a Fire sign seriously until we are seasoned- say like in our 50's .. kidding - but maybe late 20's at the earliest. I have always been full of fire and determination and expected to be with a partner that could provide both as well. I was not as spiritual as some- meaning overly philosophic conversations annoy me especially with too many variables. I sit there and think "Come on... there has got to be more than theorizing.. let's go find out..."

I am a logical thinker and I like things laid out in a logical manner. I find that Sagittarians are either very abstract or very logical. Either we are super artistic and dreamy or we are scientific and to the point. Sometimes we have both sides, but have a hard time with the integration process...

That is where TIME comes into play. When we have been knocked down a few times, when we have had our hearts broken by merging with the wrong person that could neither return our love because they were loveless or abused our trust, well then we start to see who we really are and what we want out of life.

We are usually so "on the go" that we rarely allow things to hurt us too deeply. I used to tell myself I would deal with the pain when I was ready. Sometimes life makes you ready and you deal with it. Archers are better Mates when we have "dealt" with the blows.

I am neither clingy nor jealous by nature but I can be jealous when provoked. Not by someone's looks or flirting with my mate, but if I find they are connecting in other ways. Maybe he withholds from me as a control issue but shares his thoughts with someone else. That hurts. Communication is paramount. Knowing that I can count on someone to be loyal and honest is a must- because if I am giving all that I have to them and being honest and loyal I automatically (and in the past naively) thought they would do the same.

In a relationship I always think about the other person and how my actions will affect them because I have been on the other end of a thoughtless person. With my husband Bear, I keep those lines of communication absolutely open and he knows where I am at almost any given time (he of course is in Germany, so I don't want him to worry about me).

He does the same for me. With him I know that I can count on him. I love talking to him, laughing with him and going places. That is another things -Archers require motion, action and above all KEEP THINGS FROM GETTING BORING.

OMG.. tying me to a couch potato is a death sentence.

Now.. as I have gotten older I have become more Spiritual (well I always was- it just wasn't ready to share until about 10 years ago). I love to be able to talk to Bear about our dreams, what we feel about the world around us and topics related to Shamanism, Astrology and any other Spiritual topic that pops up.

It is easy with him because he is "sensitive" and he is "open". I have dated people in the past that were closed and harsh- it doesn't work out well.

I can be high strung. I think too much and all possibilities of a situation and it can get me carried away. I take on more than I should in work and in my personal life - from the organizations that I work with to the fact that I am currently fulfilling three roles at work but I was only hired for one. I just hate standing still for too long or not seeing things get done.

But.... I am looking forward to moving to Germany to be with my Husband. I can't wait for us to spend time together every day and travel Europe. 10 years ago I would never have thought about NOT having number 1 career and moving to another Country for someone, but as we get older we realize our priorities and my career is with him - I love him intensely and could not imagine not being with him for too long of a time .

I will look into switching careers and possible become a Middle School Science teacher in Germany with the Army .. so there are always possibilities... and settling down (well, my version of it anyway.. LOL) is where I want to be...

Luckily this Saggie is married to a Leo in the Military that has spent a good number of years overseas. Maybe our next stop will be Italy? As long as we are together.. I'm happy...

~Pidaua

Sag Sun
Aries Moon
Mercury in Capricorn
Venus in Sag

posted September 22, 2006 10:23 PM         

Agree also: no whining without some effort first.

Don't expect me to pick up your socks

posted September 26, 2006 08:30 PM         

"One thing that gets to me is people who make superficial judgements (based on their own perception and thinking) about me, which many times is very inaccurate without getting to know me first."

You are so right about that.... I hate when people judge me just by an impression because I am usually out and about- on the go. I also don't talk much about my personal life and have found that leaves people just guessing.

When I was single I went out on a few dates. Somehow, seeing me at dinner with a couple different men translated to SO MUCH MORE.. but luckily I live in a small town (or maybe that is not so lucky) and my friends knew nothing was going on.. Well, until Bear came into the picture and we now know to keep the bedroom window closed as noise travels across the canyon hee hee

posted November 09, 2006 04:26 PM         

i've recently met a saggie... it sounds really premature, but for some reason, i got kinda hooked on him very soon after we met... and for some reason, i got the same feeling from him too... (i'm hoping i'm not thinking too much... or that i'm so keen on finding a soulmate i'm imagining things.......)

the only thing is - the only time we get to see each other is when we go out with a bunch of our mutual friends on the weekends... it's not even like we don't "click" when we see each other... but for some strange reason, we never even exchanged numbers even though we would hang out 'til 6 in the morning...

so it's one of those "we meet, we meet... if we don't, we don't" encounters...

he would tease me (A LOT)... and his best friend had, on several occasions, said something like "no wonder HE said you have good taste"... or "no wonder you and HIM seem a perfect match"... or he would personally come up to me and say "HE said he's heading over here now... and he's nervous"...

my question is - HE'S A SAG... and I'M AN ARIES... logically speaking, this shouldn't be the case if we're both interested, right??? one of us would have made some sort of a move by now, no??? it's been a month!

but then again, i've always been "defensive" like that... i blame it on my CANCER RISING!!!!

when i first met the guy, i felt like he's the one... and i still feel that sometimes (i think)... but lately (well, i havent seen him again since end of october), i feel like i was just thinking too much. then my low self-esteem kicks in and i feel like there's no way he'd like me... he teases about my height ALL THE TIME!

i have no way of finding out his birth time... so all i know is thats he's a sag sun/xxx rising/depending on the actual birth time, he could be an aries moon or a taurus moon

me... i'm an aries sun/cancer rising/sag moon

*sigh*

posted November 09, 2006 05:15 PM         

When I met Bear we were watching the Superbowl at a lodge (its a chartible organization that also has a lounge LOL). We both immediately noticed each other but never said anything more than our brief introduction. He would walk to the restroom (All sexy Leo-like) and on his return would make massive eye-contact with me. Yet, he never said anything but when I caught him- he looked away- sort of.. We laugh about it now because I felt he was giving me the "I'm a hot Leo... I seem shy, but really I am not... "

I could feel his presence behind me, talking to his friend and people that I knew (he was new to the place and only knew a few people). I said to myself "Okay Pidaua.. it's the 4th quarter... you want to talk to him and you may never get this chance again so....."

I turned around and said "Hi again! What are you guys doing after the game?"

That was it.... the rest is history.

What I am trying to say is if you feel you two have a thing, break the ice about exchanging numbers. It sounds like his friend is priming you and dropping not so subtle hints. You don't have to maul him, but getting his number is a good way to maul him at a later date.. hee hee.....

~Pidaua

posted November 09, 2006 06:13 PM         

But if yer the clingy jealous or posessive type you wont hold on to one.

Give them all the freedom they want to flirt (its usually harmless) if its you they want to be with.

Give them space when they want it, you'll find if you do the time spent together will be quality time.

Usually great in the bedroom and aim to please!

And if they truly love you (usually takes em a while to realise it) they're very loyal.

This is my own personal experience. I've had one relationship with Sag which lasted 4 years and we're still friends and another which lasted a few months. Wouldn't have missed the experience of either for anything. And I've met and been out a few times with a third one in past few months.
Something I do find strange is that they've all been younger than me. I dont know if this is a trait - not that well up.

I seem to attract attention from Sag males, think it may be something to do with my Moon and Mars being Sag.

But dont forget other planets and lots of aspects come into this, so not all will be same.