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posted December 04, 2006 11:26 PM         

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well, have you looked at your synastry together? sounds like she has some sort of sick hold on you...

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posted December 04, 2006 11:33 PM         

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Thanks Gemlover!!! I appreciate the support. I really didn't think I'd get attacked for that.

LOL...Zala you crack me up!!! Yeah, those damn fish never leave me alone!

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posted December 04, 2006 11:35 PM         

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Cranky Cap you guys look awesome and in all honesty you are way prettier than your friend so she's probably jealous...

GeminiLover, rock on! It does get lonely without girl company sometimes but i have my high school best friends who i would trust with my life and thats all that matters even though i dont see much of them.

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posted December 04, 2006 11:38 PM         

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No, I haven't. Never really thought of it, although I have looked at her chart before. Just from what I remember off the top of my head...most of it is not good. However, her jealous/posessive streak toward me might stem from her cap moon conjunct my sun. Don't know...we both have leo ascendant, which probably doesn't help any for competition, although I've never felt that way toward her. If she ever got a boyfriend that I could actually MEET I'd be happy for her. Sh*t, I'm giddy as a school girl when she meets new girlfriends to hang out with...gives me a little break.

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posted December 04, 2006 11:53 PM         

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BELIEVE me...she has sent plenty of naked photos to men's camera phones and email address

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Yep, that sounds alot like our former friend the attention-wh*re. I wonder why we felt bad for her for so long? Perhaps she "sensed" the energy of my sister's sun and my neptune ishh. She believed we were suckers...ughhhh.

Well, good luck cutting ties with her. And maybe Sue's thread can help you too. BTW, you guys look great

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posted December 04, 2006 11:56 PM         

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Hey CC, what degree's your Moon and Asc?? I'm:

Asc - 29d
Moon - 26d
Sun - 26d

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posted December 05, 2006 12:05 AM         

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I'm:

Asc - 1

Moon - 10

Sun - 11

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posted December 05, 2006 12:14 AM         

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You know Zala, the first friend I made on the first day of school in the 6th grade was a lovely Libra-Pisces. She was the sweetest, most sensitive girl I've ever known. In the 8th grade she found out she had diabetes and started to miss a lot of school. We drifted apart some, and I didn't talk to her much after high school, although I would call her when I had the chance and we met up a couple of times.

I ran into her at a bar when I was out for another friends birthday. My boyfriend at the time and I were about to throw a party at our house and I asked if she'd come. She seemed so excited, as I don't think she got out much anymore because she was always so sick. About 2 weeks later I got a call from her mother saying that she had passed. I was so devastated. I gave a speech at her funeral through heavy tears.

She was such a good friend, and I'll miss her forever. I can see that you have that same sweetness, wisdom, and compassion. Libra-Pisces is a beautiful combo.

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posted December 05, 2006 12:20 AM         

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Awww, thanks CC -- it takes one to know one.... I'm sorry to hear about your Libra/Pisces friend

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posted December 05, 2006 12:26 AM         

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Thanks Zala, but it's ok. One of the GOOD things that the Pisces moon brings us is a deep spiritual connection. As far as I'm concerned, if you live your life well, and don't hurt yourself or others, there's a better place waiting for you. I don't feel like anyone I've loved is really gone...they're just someplace else...waiting for me and watching over me.

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posted December 05, 2006 12:31 AM         

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Amen!! I feel the same.....

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posted December 05, 2006 03:17 AM         

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I agree with everyone Cranky, you are WAY too good for this girl. I think that is almost too obvious.

I'm sure he knows that too. Sounds like you've come to a great decision, hope it all works out.

If you have any more questions let me know.

p.s. You look bloody good together.

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posted December 05, 2006 03:37 AM         

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Good luck keeping her out of your life... maybe you could do the 'Breaking the ties' exercise that Sue posted.

Good riddance to evildoing so-called "friends"...

In my experience it's better to have one close friend than one "fake friend" too many.

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posted December 05, 2006 11:00 AM         

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Just wanted to say thank you to all of you for your input and support. This forum has become such a great private sanctuary for me. I can talk about things on here that I can't talk about with anyone else in my life. I am very appreciative and greatful to everyone. Much love to you all!

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posted December 05, 2006 01:37 PM         

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Hi CrankyCap ~ You and Mr Pisces do look beautiful together! One of my Best friends is a Cap Sun / Pisces Moon, she's a lovely soul

Definitly work on removing the cords connecting you & the Leo lady. Since this has been going on for quite a long time you will have to do it often, whenever you think of it. I do it morning and night when i'm washing my face because i've consciously made that association - clean off the face, clean off the unwanted cords, hehe.

I used to just 'slice off' the cords of everyone because I though it would be better to just start fresh and new and that the heart cords would grow back instantly anyways. But this actually sort of hurt and I noticed that when I did this i'd mysteriously get a phone call or e.mail from the person/s I was trying to 'remove'. So what works for me now, is I cut the cords and imagine that i'm plugging them into the Sun, which is a huge amount of energy & light so the other person dosen't really notice any shift in energy at all. Then I heal my own 'cuts' by imagining sparkly star-dust type stuff going over the areas where the cords were.

Just remember it's not your intention to hurt her feelings even if it appears that way to her. I wish you well! Keep us posted.

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posted December 05, 2006 01:49 PM         

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Just had to share with you guys...below is the response that my Saggie friend I mentioned before wrote to me about this whole thing...it cracked me up. She has known the Leo for years as well, and has never liked her...

RESPONSE:

Yeah....you know my response....FU*K THAT ***** AND DON'T TALK TO HER ANYMORE!!!! I would call her out on it and then tell her to never fu*king call you again and that friends don't do that to friends so you are no longer friends with her. You know my feelings about her and I can't believe you still put up with her sh*t!!!! That's great about Dave forgetting her name...I know that burned her...oh well, fu*k her. He sounds like he was very innocent in it. Just make sure not to make it a huge deal with him where he thinks you are calling him out or not trusting him or making it seem like he is lying when he seems like he was very innocent in it. I think you just need to get rid of her.....
I'm glad to hear that things are still going with Dave though....hopefully he is a keeper!

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posted December 07, 2006 11:23 AM         

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CC....

Finally, a visual of you and Mr. Pisces.... LOVE, LOVE, LOVE IT... Adorable.... I'm glad you finally made that step and ex-ed that bia out of your life... Good riddens to bad rubbish...

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posted December 07, 2006 02:29 PM         

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Awwwww...thanks scorpluv! Just keep your fingers crossed that it's not short-lived.

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