posted March 08, 2007 11:17 AM         

Thanks

I must say, Im liking it here in Lindaland

posted March 08, 2007 03:41 PM         

glad tht u guys met

So now u guys can get talking i suppose...all u lovely cancer suns

posted March 08, 2007 07:07 PM         

So we were traveling and talking every day and trying, until last weekend when I called him and said this isn't going to work, we live too far apart to really get to know each other well enough, etc. etc. He agreed and we talked for about an hour, finishing each others' sentences, and finally just crying. We agreed that we will, after a couple of months, keep in touch again. He asked if we could, which is what started me crying, and I replied Of course we can - how can I not talk to you? Then he started crying and I said I thought it would be better if we had some time strictly to ourselves before we talked again. Then we hung up. I broke my own rule when I called him and wished his voice mail happy birthday.

Sh*t. It sucks so bad, but neither of us is at a point where we feel comfortable leaving our work to move closer without knowing each other on some sort of daily basis, which in my opinion is the only way to truly get past the dating "veneer". I'm feeling a little better - haven't cried for a few days. Right guy - wrong place or timing or something like that. Rats.

posted March 08, 2007 08:40 PM         

I think it's been exactly 2 months since I broke up with my Pisces. He called ME two weeks ago...the night of his birthday. He called repeatedly, but in the middle of the night. I never called him back. With him being so far away, I just don't see any point in it...and I guess it's the Cap in me wanting to retain my pride and self-respect...I couldn't stand to get hurt again.

I really did ok at first, and I thought that since we didn't date for very long it would be easy and quick to get over it. Now, two months later I'm finally admitting to myself that it hurt terribly. He wasn't perfect, and there were things about him that irritated me...but I was so HAPPY when I was with him. And now, I miss him so much. More than I did in the beginning. I played a song the other night that I used to listen to him play on his guitar, and I just cried and cried. It crept up on me like such a tidal wave of emotion.

I've even noticed now, after the fact, that we had some intense synastry aspects too...the ones that they consider "soul mate" and "karmic" aspects. Obviously my moon conj. his sun, his mars conj. my sun, my venus conj. his moon, his venus in my 7H, my sun conj. his north node, his sun conj. my south node...it just goes on and on. It probably all contributed to why I fell so hard for him so quickly, and why I got completely lost in him. *sigh*

In the past I would have jumped right out and started dating again, but I guess now that I'm older I know it doesn't work...although it does make a good "bandaid." I just can't though. I was so blown away that I have that feeling now that I'll just put him up on a pedestal, and for a LONG time I won't think that anyone could even compare. That's how I was with my Taurus ex too...and I kept him on that pedestal for 4 years after we broke up...

Here we go again...

posted March 08, 2007 09:11 PM         

I like your "bandaid" statement - a couple months after Sag, I had a short-lived...uh...fling with a guy I met. When I was talking about it later to a friend I said it was kind of like a palate cleanser, and without a beat she looked at me and said "Oh, lemon ice?" Then we laughed our butts off and it's been our running joke ever since. Nothing wrong with that. Actually I'm not sure it really helps, but it did dull the pain.

posted March 18, 2007 03:58 PM         

Well, I call his place a number of times the whole day...and his family is really simple...and he is very close to his family...so for the past 5 yrs he has been telling them all abt me...and praising me i guess ...so they all already like me a lot...and i hv met his mom before...so its not so difficult to relate to them... ( we have been friends and classmates for the past 5 yrs )
We get along really well...me, his mom and his sis...they r all so loving and absolutely adorable...i count myself really lucky to hv found such ppl...

posted March 19, 2007 12:12 PM         

but then again , we like (i particularly love them ) pisces for the kind of free spiritedness that they present .
the way they can be so adoring to all around them . it actually comes as a fresh breath cos we cancerians are somewere always fighting - you know the pent up anger , atleast thats the case with me .

i had a pis colleague in my last org. .
ah man ! i am yet to see another such person with so much love all around her .
she would be good to everyone ,even those who are the real rascals .(infact this free spiritedness and carefree nature makes them so attractive to air men , even she is married to a libra-scorp cusp)

yeah , wish you all the best with your man .
lucky man , i would say !

posted March 21, 2007 10:26 AM         

terrific combo!!!!!!!
you know what we too are a water family , besides me ,my two sis' are cancerian and my youngest sis is married to a cancerian (actually he and me share the same b'day )

ok and well about the age thing , yeah you are very much right but why i guessed about your age was , you are and your sis have two different way of presentation . she seems very very calm whereas you come of as someone with spruting energy .

even when she was discussing her love life , anyone could have marked the diff .
ofcourse it might havew to do a lot with her being a cappy .
thats the reason i said so.