posted January 19, 2007 12:33 PM         

Him:

Sun - Pisces 8th hs
Moon - Pisces 8th hs
Mercury - Pisces 7th hs
Venus - Pisces 8th hs
Mars - Sag 4th hs
Jupiter - Gemini 11th hs
Saturn - Scorpio 4th hs
Uranus - Cancer 11th hs
Neptune - Libra 3rd hs
Pluto - Leo 1st hs
TN - Cap 6th hs
Ascendant - Leo

Me:

Sun - Cancer 12th hs
Moon - Virgo 2nd hs
Mercury - Leo 1st hs
Venus - Virgo 2nd hs
Mars - Leo 1st hs
Jupiter - Scorpio 4th hs
Saturn - Cap 5th hs
Uranus - Leo 1st hs
Neptune - Scorpio 4th hs
Pluto - Virgo 2nd hs
TN - Libra 3rd hs
Ascendant - Leo

posted January 19, 2007 12:39 PM         

All I'll say is that these two SunSigns have the potential for Heaven or Hell when they get together.

The key is understanding and patience beyond belief. Also the Cancer must take responsilibility for their fears and the Piscean remember that they are in a very intricate game that has an unsurpassable prize and treat the situation with the respect it deserves.

I'll let others dissect and advise on the finer astrological points, but I know the essence of this extremely well, in both forms.

It would be nice to hear for once it turns out to be Heaven.

posted January 19, 2007 12:47 PM         

It's strange to be with someone who seems to know me so well, which is part of my issue, I think. I'm usually the one who knows everything about everyone else, but I keep myself to myself. Not this time - he just sees right through me.

posted January 19, 2007 12:57 PM         

Expect to learn things about yourself that you never knew, good and bad.

Also, for once, emotional manipulation and feigning softness, a Cancer speciality are OUT. He'll just know.

However, the balance of power is nice and even between Cancer and Pisces and usually you will be feeling very similar emotions and sharing the same dream, which is remarkably rare in most relationships, and leads to problems for others.

This could even be too much of a good thing though!

So hold on tight!

posted January 19, 2007 01:10 PM         

As far as the Cancer traits of emotional manipulation and feigning softness, for whatever reason (maybe Leo and virgo all over my chart), those don't seem to be my way of operating.

I'm pretty direct and don't even pretend to be a priss - he actually commented on that and said he was attracted to me because I was different, and felt like I was the "real thing", not someone manipulating their image to fit in with another's expectations. Communication is very good, and there's a lot of it.

posted January 19, 2007 01:48 PM         

A couple of things I found interesting; You and I are polar opposite suns/moons (Im Cap/Pisces), but I've found that that actually makes us strangely similar in our ultimate conclusions/actions. (Dulce Luna can attest to this ). We're both Leo ascendants as well. We've also got a very similar mixture of elements in our charts. You've got 3 water planets, I've got 3 water planets. You've got 4 fire planets, I've got 4 fire planets (including ascendant). You've got 4 earth planets, I've got 3 earth planets. Kinda spooky. Your boyfriend's chart, well, at least the first 4 planets anyway are exactly the same as a Pisces I dated. I find that I'm generally HIGHLY sexually attracted to Piscean men and a lot of Scorpio men. The relationships always start off hot and heavy, and believe me I understand what you mean about "getting lost" in the guy, feeling utterly consumed, and almost frightened at the same time. It's an exciting ride to say the least.

Here's where I tend to run into problems; you may feel a bit uneasy from time to time always wondering if he's hiding something. With your fiery nature, you may be a bit more of an open book - like you said, you are very direct and honest - I'm the exact same way. I like to get everything out in the open and I don't like secrets or feeling like I'm not getting the whole story on something. The fact that 3 out of 4 of his Pisces planets are in the 8H is only going to increase this tendency in him, and make him much more intense. He's no doubt sexy as hell though, and I'm sure quite irresistable.

My advice would be to take it slowly if you possibly can (and I KNOW this will be difficult). Make sure that he is true, and follows through with his promises. Pisces can be so deceptive with their dreamy eyes and flowery words, that it can make them a bit dangerous to a happy-go-lucky fiery girl. They live in the moment and what they say today, they may not believe tomorrow...the fish just changed directions.

It can be marvelous, but be careful & cautious.

posted January 19, 2007 02:14 PM         

I know - his chart has so much PISCES in it. I'm telling you, this is all brand new territory for me, and I certainly appreciate your comments. Yes, I DO have a feeling from him, not of dishonesty, just...secrets. And I always get secrets out of people without even trying, but I don't know about him.

We were talking the other night, though, and he was telling me (he's a business owner) about a new product he was developing, but not saying what it was specifically. I just let him talk and listened, occasionally chiming in about some part of it, and after about 20 minutes he said what it was. Then looked at me, kind of shocked, and said "I just told you something I haven't told anyone!" He didn't mean to. He just spilled it out. Hahaha...I thought it was a good sign. Like I said, people just seem to want to tell me things.

He is very exciting to be around, and the attraction is incredible. Funny thing is, he's not the type, physically, that I would normally be attracted to. The thing that draws me is his humor, intelligence, and they way he looks me right in the eyes and just sucks me in. Dreamy eyes and flowery words - exactly.

Jeez, I think I'm a goner.

I've just dated all these fire sign guys who have not worked for me. They're so outgoing and fun and in the end, so not any sort of romantic. Even the Leo, which surprised me. Right now, Mr. Pisces seems to be exactly what I've been looking for. I'm ready for something marvelous and think this has possibilities. Keep your fingers crossed!

posted January 19, 2007 02:26 PM         

You probably have the same problem I do. We both have such an EVEN mixture of fire/water/earth, that it seems like none of them are "exactly" right. The water guys fulfill this need but not that, the earth guys fulfill this other need but not that first one, the fire guys are cool with this, but not that....

Vicious cycle I tell ya!

posted January 19, 2007 02:33 PM         

I never thought about my chart being so evenly divided being part of the problem. Makes sense, though. And hey, I'm aware that there's not perfection no matter what. I do believe that while opposites attract, similar interests and characteristics and real, basic friendship will make for a more enduring relationship.

Well, thanks for the advice. I'll keep ya posted!

posted January 19, 2007 03:54 PM         

Even your names are similar see?

Good luck Crabby.

posted January 19, 2007 04:27 PM         

I noticed the similarities in our usernames, too. It is spooky. CC, I'm so glad you wrote here - it feels like friend potential. Swerve, I've read many of your posts and have always felt an understanding of where you're coming from. Thanks for the note.

posted January 19, 2007 04:53 PM         

Obviously that would have to be in the States and a logistical nightmare for most!

If the will was there though....

I'm glad you know where I'm coming from Crabby I'm still figruing it out lol

Sometimes I don't think I'm very good at reading myself ironically.

posted January 19, 2007 05:31 PM         

So, CC - If it doesn't work out with my Pisces, I should use your reasoning and find a Cap/Pisces, correct? With Leo rising. Isn't it weird that every other relationship in our lives works wonderfully with all those fire signs, except the ones with the men? Maybe we're too pushy. !!

Vegas sounds good. Or my back porch, for smaller gatherings.

posted January 19, 2007 09:37 PM         

Honestly, after seeing the similarities and odd understandings between myself and you, as well as Dulce, I just can't help but think that it would be fascinating to see how it played out in an opposite sex/romantic relationship. That would be such an interesting dynamic! What with the sun/moon double trines combined with the opposite energy??? Push, pull, push, pull...I'd definitely be curious to see where that would go...

So, yes, I have a plan. I will sit with binoculars in the bushes outside of Grenier's house for a week. Sneaky like a cat...watching his every move and learning his routines. Then, when the time is right, I'll hop the fence, paint my entire body red, and dance naked in front of his windows! Hahaha!!! THAT ought to catch his attention!

P.S. - You might want to check America's Most Wanted first. Do you think you can give me a place to crash in case he decides that he doesn't want to profess his undying love for me and presses charges instead? A fugitive needs a hideout ya know?

posted January 19, 2007 10:36 PM         

In the unlikely event that it doesn't work with mr. pisces you can give me your stats and i'll start interviewing men with the same chart. you have mine, so i say go for it! I'll be interested in hearing how it works out.

Looking forward to hearing about your adventures...

sandy

posted January 20, 2007 12:14 AM         

First of all, Hello Crabby! I don't believe we've met before...its nice to hear someone else with my sun/moon combo. Only have a cap asc, which in a crazy way is kinda similar to leo with the 'whole being aloof to preserve dignity' type thing. But I could almost be a complete polar opposite with CC as my Asc is in late Capricorn and aqua takes up 2/3 of my first house...... Cappy shows up in my physical appearance, and aqua shows up in my style. ILWL is almost my exact opposite too. She has a late cancer asc I believe and a cappy sun, only with a gemini moon. I think its close enough because I have a gem moon sis and we're like day and night

As for you and your new guy, you both have leo ascendants...that's a good start. You come off to people (and eachother) in a similar way. Opposing moons is good too in my opinion...I can testify because I'm also with a guy who has a pisces moon (scorp sun) and I know many close relationships in which the two people have opposing moons. Two water suns together is always mad cool but You having your sun in the 12th has even greater affinity with his pisces sun. His pisces moon also goes very well with your cancer sun...mad supportive and psychic. He seems mad intense with his sun,moon, and venus in 8th. (I should know, and I only have the moon there )

Even though you seem more grounded than he is, there seems as if there may be alot of telepathy going on between you as well. Atleast that's what I think.

*edit* I see you posted the data. Do you have any birthtimes, though?

posted January 20, 2007 03:17 AM         

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It's strange to be with someone who seems to know me so well, which is part of my issue, I think. I'm usually the one who knows everything about everyone else, but I keep myself to myself. Not this time - he just sees right through me.

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posted January 20, 2007 10:22 AM         

My birthtime is 7:32 a.m. Portland,Or (This is daylight savings time)

His is 4:00 p.m., Billings,Mt

With this guy there are never any of those uncomfortable silences. Never have been from the start. We've been talking for about a month, seeing each other only two weeks, finishing each others' sentences or actually saying the same thing at the same time since we met. I have the feeling of knowing each other without having to cross any ground to get to that point. I've been around the block enough times to be...not in a hurry to just buy into all of these feelings, but there they are, and stronger than I've felt them with anyone else. That's the scary part for me.

Okay, Swerve, I know - it's my job to deal with my own fears. Thank you for that - you're so right.

posted March 08, 2007 08:38 AM         

I am the person ILWL mentioned, so i just felt really tempted to ask u how it is going with u? :-)
Its funny how u mentioned that the qualities which attract u to him r his intelligence, sense of humor and how he looks at u in ur eyes...and how he is not the kind of guy u wud normally be attracted to...it all rings sooo true for me too !!
It wud be nice to hear frm u

posted March 08, 2007 09:36 AM         

Oh my Gosh....Welcome!