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Topic: are capricorn men romantic
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cajunwolf77
Knowflake Posts: 16
From: tampa
Registered: Jan 2007
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posted January 22, 2007 08:05 PM
 
its funny always thought capricorn were just serious andd no feeling but the one im with now we went out last night he rubbed my hand put his arm around me do cute things to flirt put his head on my knee get the door for me just hold me we did kiss but nothing more we both werent rdy for that its odd we are very much alike im a libra hes a capricorn but i have capricorn moon he has taurus moon ok heres his chart Sun Capricorn 26°47'43 in house 10 direct
Moon Taurus 9°41'23 in house 1 direct
Mercury Capricorn 4°03'21 in house 9 direct
Venus Capricorn 25°36'02 in house 10 direct
Mars Leo 3°30'26 in house 4 retrograde
Jupiter Gemini 27°55'13 in house 3 retrograde
Saturn Leo 29°21'13 in house 5 retrograde
Uranus Scorpio 15°53'59 in house 7 direct
Neptune Sagittarius 17°16'58 in house 8 direct
Pluto Libra 16°41'42 in ho
now here is mine Planetary positionsplanet sign degree motion here is mine Sun Libra 22°11'39 in house 2 direct
Moon Capricorn 1°37'48 in house 4 direct
Mercury Scorpio 16°43'35 end of house 2 direct
Venus Virgo 12°07'46 in house 12 direct
Mars Sagittarius 2°14'21 in house 3 direct
Jupiter Virgo 27°34'40 in house 1 direct
Saturn Libra 2°56'26 in house 1 direct
Uranus Scorpio 23°51'01 in house 3 direct
Neptune Sagittarius 20°25'54 in house 4 direct
Pluto Libra 21°42'54 in house 2 direct
True Node Leo 17°42'21 in house 11 retrograde
Planets at the end of a house are interpreted in the next house
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pearlized
Knowflake Posts: 12
From: TX
Registered: Jan 2007
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posted January 22, 2007 11:30 PM
My husband is a Cap, he is affectinate but not romantic. For example he holds my hand all the time even though that was uncomfortable to me at first and took some getting used to. Holds the door open for me etc. But when it comes to buying things such as flowers ,candy, and jewelry he doesnt see the point. I am one of those women who purchased there own wedding ring.IP: Logged |
pearler
Knowflake Posts: 10
From: Australia
Registered: Dec 2006
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posted January 23, 2007 05:43 AM
My bf is a Cap and he is very undemonstrative. He will occasionally hold my hand as long as it's not in public. For the past 4 years he has only kissed me in a similar way you would kiss your grandmother hello, he says passionate kissing is only for people who are just getting to know each other...so boring and not to mention frustating for this Mars in Taurus gal.IP: Logged |
sue g
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From: former land of the leprechaun
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posted January 23, 2007 06:54 AM
Two Pearls who are married to Cappys !!!!!!Pearl no. 2....Pearler  Dont you think you deserve more? 
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cajunwolf77
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From: tampa
Registered: Jan 2007
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posted January 23, 2007 07:18 AM
ok I dont understand this why does he call me some days alot other days get out of work and falll asleep not caling me yeah he owns his own business i understand but we fight alot over this i need someone to give me attention not feel ignored i dont understand he gave me roses held the door for me flirted told me he liked me but i feel un important even talked of having kids together one day and settling down only time he does when he almost loses me maybe its just best i go my own way if he cant give me what i need emotionally. But we had such a bond its hard to let go .IP: Logged |
sue g
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From: former land of the leprechaun
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posted January 23, 2007 07:26 AM
cajundont you also think you deserve more? IP: Logged |
Dulce Luna
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From: The Asylum
Registered: Mar 2006
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posted January 23, 2007 01:01 PM
Well your guy does have a Taurus moon which is a very affectionate placement.IP: Logged |
Sweet Stars
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From: New York City
Registered: Dec 2006
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posted January 23, 2007 01:29 PM
At least he doesn't have an Aqua Moon and Rising, Sag Venus, and Mars Gemini. Otherwise I'd tell you to run!But yes some of them like to be affectionate sometimes. not to affectionate though. Maybe his Taurus Moon can help out a bit? I have a Taurus Moon and I am very affectionate but then again my Venus is in Taurus. ------------------
I know you see me looking at you and you already know......I wanna love you, you already know. *----------* Gemini/Cancer cusp
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AcousticGod
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From: Pleasanton, CA, USA
Registered: May 2005
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posted January 23, 2007 02:39 PM
I'm a Cap, and my Moon is not in Taurus, but I'm generally the more affectionate one in the couple.IP: Logged |
pearlized
Knowflake Posts: 12
From: TX
Registered: Jan 2007
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posted January 23, 2007 03:19 PM
Interesting, my hubby venus is in aquarious, moon &ascedent in leo. He is affectionate but cheap, cheap , cheap!IP: Logged |
InLoveWithLife
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From: In the middle of nowhere
Registered: Aug 2006
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posted January 23, 2007 05:23 PM
i am a cappy female and i need to feel verrryyyy comfy with a person to be able to show my affection. i think not hving any pressure from the other person also helps, bcoz i do need time. if i feel pressurized, i have a tendency to bolt. i don't like to buy gifts and cards on valentine's day and stuff. i feel tht's so artificial. i am also not into buying big expensive things to show my love. i am more into buying cute silly little things without any occasion. ILWL IP: Logged |
cajunwolf77
Knowflake Posts: 16
From: tampa
Registered: Jan 2007
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posted January 23, 2007 07:02 PM
yes I feel i deserve more i call him every day he barely calls me yet he likes me what is that come on and when i go to move on hes jealous but i need love not to feel pushed aside or told im pushing too hard in the beginning he chased me now i show him affection its like hes backed off i like the caring loving call you every day i miss you type who shows they care not put work before me he says to me im very sensitive yes when i feel ignored and what kind of guy is into you and doesent answer your call but when you tell him bye hes so quick to beg you to stay its causing more pain than peace IP: Logged |
cajunwolf77
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From: tampa
Registered: Jan 2007
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posted January 23, 2007 07:02 PM
yes I feel i deserve more i call him every day he barely calls me yet he likes me what is that come on and when i go to move on hes jealous but i need love not to feel pushed aside or told im pushing too hard in the beginning he chased me now i show him affection its like hes backed off i like the caring loving call you every day i miss you type who shows they care not put work before me he says to me im very sensitive yes when i feel ignored and what kind of guy is into you and doesent answer your call but when you tell him bye hes so quick to beg you to stay its causing more pain than peace IP: Logged |
pearler
Knowflake Posts: 10
From: Australia
Registered: Dec 2006
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posted January 23, 2007 07:46 PM
Pearl no. 2....Pearler Dont you think you deserve more? Sue G
.....yes I do and transiting Saturn on my venus is driving that message home. IP: Logged |
sthenri
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From: Generic New England City
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posted January 23, 2007 07:47 PM
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cajunwolf77
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From: tampa
Registered: Jan 2007
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posted January 23, 2007 09:04 PM
so happy we just talked he told me how he feels me too he did try calling me i really care so much about him him as well we are now dating but only each other ty lord hes wnderful.IP: Logged |
CapGirl
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From: Indianapolis, IN, USA
Registered: Mar 2006
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posted January 23, 2007 09:26 PM
Great Cajun. Capmen are not all that they seem on the surface. There's more going on beyond what meets the eye, beneath the surface. SueG~ I do value your contributions to the site, yet why so grounded in the black-and-white superficial? There is more complexity going on with these connections of the soul... IP: Logged |
sue g
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From: former land of the leprechaun
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posted January 24, 2007 03:29 AM
CapGirlMaybe I am at this point too long in the tooth Three husbands later and all that Watching women "make" do and "put up" with second best Can make one a tad cynical at times And no sorry. the soul connection thing doesnt make excuses to be involved in a relationship where you are short changed....I have been there, done that, worn the tshirt etc I have severed myself from at least three soul unions because the person only came to me to teach valuable lessons...it didnt mean I had to stay with them (unless I chose to be a martry of course). Your reference to superficial....haha....never been given that word in my life...still there is always the first..as you may gather from my writings, I am a profoundly deep and feeling person...that "s" word doesnt even enter into my vocabulary. Strange choice of word there girl? Capricorn...? Aaaaahhh my mother was one...Saturn.....her love never felt enough. She also was never in the wrong...at least she didnt admit to it... I always felt I deserved more...which of course I did! Am so glad you appreciate my contribution to this site...as I do yours....we may be able to teach each other something... ? 
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1scorp
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posted January 24, 2007 10:39 AM
Some people need the flowers, gifts, etc.
and some not as much. I've noticed that some people need affection or gifts and some need feeling. They aren't always the same things. Someone could give me flowers all day and if there is no "feeling" behind it, they really don't mean much. Someone could hold my hand and if there is no "feeling" behind it, it doesn't mean much. However, someone could simply smile at me and put feeling behind it and it would mean way more to me than anything that money could buy.  Does this seem off topic? It seems to relate.... some people need larger doses of feeling, while some need tangible tokens (gifts, hand holding) and the feeling behind it is secondary ... some need that feeling foremost and the tokens are a secondary. Of course in a perfect world, we'd get the feeling and tokens together all of the time.  Edit: I just wanted to add that from my observation only (meaning I could be wrong)... Capricorns aren't wasteful with money... they tend to think on practical terms... they also feel plenty, they just don't show it for just the sake of showing it. It's all a matter of what makes you happy and if they're not doing it... it's really no one person's fault. You're just different. They are who they are. Edited again: I deleted a small sentence due to it possibly being easily misunderstood.
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scorpluv
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From: new york, new york, USA
Registered: Jun 2006
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posted January 24, 2007 12:56 PM
I definitely have to chime in here... I've been dating a cappy man for 4 years and it's definitely a comfort level... Remember that these people do not trust people as a general rule... They actually can be rather affectionate and rather romantic, however they aren't the mussy types... There is a time for everything... that's their basic model on life... If you guys haven't been around eachother too much or have known eachother for only a short period of time, I think you'd be rather disappointed to know that they aren't the type to have artificial displays of affection... however when they love someone wholeheartedly, they are the most affectionate and giving men around... I'm speaking from first hand experience....IP: Logged |
scorpluv
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From: new york, new york, USA
Registered: Jun 2006
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posted January 24, 2007 12:57 PM
I definitely have to chime in here... I've been dating a cappy man for 4 years and it's definitely a comfort level... As a Scorpio, I can completely associate with this logic.. Remember that these people do not trust people as a general rule... They actually can be rather affectionate and rather romantic, however they aren't the mussy types... There is a time for everything... that's their basic motto on life... If you guys haven't been around eachother too much or have known eachother for only a short period of time, I think you'd be rather disappointed to know that they aren't the type to have artificial displays of affection... however when they love someone wholeheartedly, they are the most affectionate and giving men around... I'm speaking from first hand experience.... IP: Logged |
1scorp
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posted January 24, 2007 02:20 PM
I'm sorry to hear your relationship with your mother was so hard sue. My Taurus mother had a difficult relationship with her Cancer mother. I can't really comprehend it... my mother is a wonderful woman... the Cancer just never seemed happy enough to give much love. ___________________________________________
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sue g
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From: former land of the leprechaun
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posted January 24, 2007 02:31 PM
Thanks 1Scorp  She loved....but was rather cold and reserved... I remember once a few weeks after our son was born..(I had nearly died in childbirth) she came to visit Was going through a bad depression and so needed to have my mum"s comfort. I lay my head on her breast and was feeling good, when she moved away as if to say "thats enough" Will never forget that, it felt like a huge rejection...i felt gutted..was at my lowest and she did that... There was never enough comfort or understanding... Sorry for the rant. I hear what people say about the abillity to show feelings etc, but some of us, especially during our youth cannot read minds... We need warmth and affection... For me, its paramount for health....and sanity.. My Moon in Taurus needs that... Am sorry for my Mum...she missed out so much...  IP: Logged |
1scorp
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posted January 24, 2007 03:06 PM
Don't worry about ranting. I'm sorry. I can understand how that would have been hurtful. There's really not much that I can say that wouldn't appear shallow in response. I agree, she possibly did miss out... I'm sure that if she had been willing, you could have taught her. Edit - Some children that go through that exhibit the same traits as the cold parent when they grow into adults. You took the higher road. _________________________________________
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sue g
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From: former land of the leprechaun
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posted January 24, 2007 04:32 PM
thanks IScorp...very understanding you are...Do you know what...my mother would never change or allow herself to be taught. When I got into my 30s i asked her if we could become friends now....and she said "no i am your mother, i cant be your friend I am in control" What hope was there... Yes, I am glad I learned from her coldness... Sad though hey? IP: Logged |
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