posted February 04, 2007 01:53 AM         

(1) You will never know all her secrets, and if she is ever uncomfortable talking about something, let it go. If you do not pry or act childish like some men have with me when I choose not to tell them what is on my mind, I will eventually open up when I feel I can trust and not be judged. That kind of trust takes time.

(2) This does depend entirely on her and what she likes to do. Some Scorpios are very private and don't get out much, but the Majority I know, and I work with alot of other Scorpio gals, We like to go out and have a good time. You know eat, drink, be merry. Cancer males are known for being homeboys, me personally- I want a man who likes to go out and be around other people too, and can be totally comfortable doing it. The two Pisces males I have dated were homeboys, I had long term relationships with both because I loved them, but I always wanted to go out every once in awhile and they never did. When we actually did go out, they always looked like they were ready to go home. That really got on my nerves! Trial and error, thats all I can say. Communication too. Each person has different things they like to do, you should BOTH be considerate of each other and do things that BOTH like to do, or just let that person have time away to do them.

(3) We are EXTREMELY JEALOUS! This might be repetitive because it is a MAJOR deal. Just cheat on her, and you will never ever get another chance, We are naturally suspicious too, until trust is established. Some Scorps have a hard time with their man having girl "friends". It is just the way it is. I really haven't had a problem with promisciuos men that I have been committed too, so I haven't had it happen to me. I guess because they saw how I reacted when they checked out the girl with the halter and the mini out somewhere-

posted February 05, 2007 01:51 AM         

as far as my experience with scorps goes ....
i am normally very friendly with them . infact among all the male friends , they are first one that i have a similar wavelength in the shortest period of time .

posted February 10, 2007 09:21 AM         

may be bcos , we never take the initiative , may be cos we are always very respective of you all . we value you people , we really do . may be cos we find our emotional fulfillment with you .

infact, there are a lot of may be's

posted March 31, 2007 06:05 PM         

I was in love with a cancerian man and he lost me and came back when it was too late, now he has married the wrong girl and is unhappy. So I am going to try the best i can to help you - might work for you !!

1) "I truly love her but I don't know how to tell her" - well first ask yourself why you love her, then spend time with her and tell her these things (not all at once cos is too much) but slowly and surely in a way that is not too full on. Just so she knows. Scorpios like to make up their own mind, so too much too soon can ruin the romance. The reason is - we love the build up in romance. Don't take too long though cos we get frustrated and bored. So try and strike a balance -sounds difficult but it won't be cos you will know! Also don't force her to respond, if she doesn't then leave it - we hate people who say things juz to get something in return. We do give quite alot to people so when we receive it is rare and it is even more special when nothing is expected back

2) "will a scorpio female ever surrender to their lover?" - yes, if you have made them feel safe enough they will give you everything and more.

3) Yes we look for equality, dominance is our immediate protection - equality is our long term goal. So yes, for sure.

4) We don't really have secrets, we juz hold the secrets of others and lots of them. To be honest we say most of what we think and feel, people just don't listen. We hold the key to other people's pandora's boxes. Our imaginations on the other hand is a whole different story lol The key to a scorpio woman's power is the knowledge she holds about everyone and everything around her - that's the secret & she will use it when necessary - but only if really provoked. Knowing people better than they know themselves is very powerful, and draining. That is why sometimes we looks so intense - cos we are holding other people's pain and thoughts.

5) Not likely to put up with too much moodiness, if you feel moody let her know and let her know it isn't about her, give her a little insight and tell her that u need to be alone to figure it out. Don't just ignore her - that will infuriate her.

6) don't flirt in front of her, don't try and make her jealous (cos she knows), don't lie to her, don't stand her up, don't pretend if you don't feel it - tell her.

7) juz show you appreciate her - send her a little text message when u r out with the boys saying 'am thinking of you' - not a million messages - just the one and then maybe one just to let her know you are on your way home. Consideration is key!

8)Our jealousy is our biggest issue - we are aware of it so much that if someone does make us jealous we see red. Best to stay away from this sort of thing. I have know many a relationship break up over plain jealousy. Oh and by the way we can be completely unjustified in our jealousy too - we know it! Juz our achilles heal.

I walked away from my cancer man situation cos i just got plain bored with the moodiness, lack of conviction, immaturity (even though he is 34), and the 'i am a victim' routine - just plain boring. We scorpio women like to be with a MAN - someone who will stand up and be counted and be proud to be with us.

But let me tell you walking away from him was the hardest thing i have ever done romantically - i adored him - you cancerian men are gems - just divine!

In the end a scorpio woman will choose herself and her sanity/dignity/composure over you - whether it takes 5 mins or 5 years she will walk away if the game of love starts to make her feel compromised.

I hope I have helped, if you have any more questions please feel free to ask.

I wish my cancerian had known all of this and I wish for you to be with the one you love - GO FOR IT

posted March 31, 2007 07:36 PM         

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Any other info on scorpio females?
Also, will a scorpio female ever surrender to their lover? Do you guys ever accept equality in a relationship?

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posted April 01, 2007 12:26 AM         

you said you were extremely with your cancer man, why is this? I don't wanna pry into relationship but can you tell me the things that make you extremely happy about this relationship? If you can, please go in depth as possible and feel free to leave out what you don't wanna tell me.

posted May 29, 2008 06:57 PM         

ehem.. anyways, i just wanted to contribute to this. I am a cancer female with a little bit of experience in scorpio-cancer relationships that just might help. My best advice is to trust your instinct!
After all, there is a slim chance that shes going to come out one day and lay all her feelings out for you. I have always done best acting as i go and saying things whenever they feel just right.

posted May 30, 2008 10:29 PM         

Will I surrender to a lover: Oh, yes, absolutely, but he has to be a MAN, and by that, I mean very much what the other Scorp lady said: if I sense he is weak (other than the occasional and justified sensitivity) I lose all respect for him and he becomes completely unattractive to me. Loathsome. The victim mentality is such a turn-off. If he moans just a little too much about how hard life is, and how nothing ever goes right for him, holy crap he might as well put on a bra and stilettos, because that's how I view him. If he complains that he is so nice to everyone else, whereas it's never returned because everyone is out to get him, same story. Quit whining, do something. Extricate yourself from the bad situation, make a change, just don't ***** and moan constantly. I am attracted to strength of purpose and strength of character, with just a touch of sensitive soul. And the man is allowed to have his moods, in fact I prefer that he go off alone (rather than take it out on me) because that's what I do myself. I actually like a guy with an edge, so if he's a little full of himself and arrogant, it's OK.

Things I detest, other than the above:

A) if you're too tight with money. When you take me out, don't make me feel like I shouldn't have that 2nd glass of wine in the restaurant. Give a nice tip if the server was good. Be frugal when it makes sense, but don't make it your life's mission.

B) if you're too materialistic. You should want money but not want it for the sake of being flashy. I do not want to hear hours of talk about the new Audi, the new BMW, the new Aston Martin.

C) if you're petty. Just because my mother gave you a sweatshirt for Christmas that smelled like mothballs and had no tag on it, don't insist that we give her a crappy gift in return. Be the bigger person, OK?

D) if you ogle other women openly and tell me how hot they are. Listen, I know my knees are fat and my boobies sag. But you chose me, right? I know you're going to look at Jessica Alba and fantasize about her, but please don't tell me this and please try to be discreet instead of doing the head swivel when we're walking together.

E) if you try to control my every move. I need my space. If you like to stay home and I want a girl's night out once a month, DO NOT try to manipulate me emotionally so I feel guilty about it.

What makes me happy? Passion, intensity, a man who is willing to try new things, including new foods he is not familiar with and traveling to new places, a man who will surprise me with little tokens of his love every once in a while, not just on my birthday.

Oh, and be dominant in the bedroom. I didn't say hurt me, but please find a happy medium between that and sappiness.