posted February 01, 2007 02:50 PM         

I truly love her but I don't know how to tell her.

posted February 01, 2007 04:46 PM         

so finally we have a cancer male who is ready to make the move!! you have come to absolutely the rightest place on the internet to seek advice.

i'm not a scorp, but help shud be arriving soon....btw, cud u be more specific? if u like the girl, and know her since a kid, then wht is the problem?? go and tell her about your feelings! there must be some reason why u r hesitating, right? wht is it ?

ILWL

*edit* ohhh, and read the thread below....about scorp female/cancer male. it has been started by a scorp female trying to understand her cancerian love. so u see u guys r in demand read on to know about a scorp woman's perspective (and please pleeeease promise that u will try not to act like most cancer males do )

posted February 01, 2007 05:55 PM         

Dear Most wanted cancer man,

Scorpio women are easy. First of all, show off your brains. You're naturally brilliant, so use that with a good sense of humor. DO NOT show you vaunrebalities right away; as a scorpio woman does not appreciate "weakness" as they'd call it. Once you get her you can slowly reveal yourself.

Oh, and seduce her indirectly(that's your game!). Nothing like a sexy puzzle to make a scorpio woman go crazy ;-)

More importantly, you need to take that decision to "PLUNG"!

posted February 01, 2007 07:14 PM         

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Do you have Love Signs? The chapter on Scorpio Woman-Cancer Man would be great to read.

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That chapter is a beautiful one...the Scorpio-Cancer one.

posted February 01, 2007 07:57 PM         

I am a scorpio woman and you cancers intrigue me, fascinate me, and give me the warm fuzzies.

I think that you are off to a good start since you already know her. You probably know of her interests.

For me, I like intelligence and depth of character. When I give myself to a relationship, I give my all - nothing superficial here. Some types can't handle that intensity, but I think as a cancer you can and might even enjoy it.

posted February 01, 2007 10:28 PM         

Please take this advice. It is the only TRUE FULL description of us Pluto girls, in my opinion. It describes every depth and layer of feeling that I was in awe when I read it. I started to become interested in astrology and metaphysics at that point.

You can read it online, just look up Linda Goodmans Sun Signs, and Oila!

posted February 02, 2007 12:31 PM         

Anyway, on to your problem; I caught that you said you ALREADY told her you might be each others true loves, and three weeks later she broke up with her boyfriend; that is GOOD NEWS!!! It means that she's been thinking about what you said, if affected her. (That or she just got sick of her boyfriend, but Scorpios are complex; my best friend is a scorpio and she thinks about stuff a lot, and I've got Pluto in Scorpio, right next to my 8th house cusp, so I have some Scorpio traits myself... I believe it WAS prompted by what you told her.)

posted February 02, 2007 04:16 PM         

A. Some do, some don't. Cacncer men really want one great love. We tend to sense EVERYTHING! around us and through using our sensors we find our true love.

We come off as cheaters because we're in a rush to find true love. When we fail to find it, we continue our search because we just don't feel the need to continue the relationship. (Keyword "feel") This is why I haven't had a relationship even up to high school. If I find a true love, the feeling stays and I won't have a reason to cheat.

Question 2:
Are you cancer men able to come to a decision about a woman you like?
does it take you forever?

A. That's kind of hard to answer but the least I could do is tell you why thet take so long. It's all based on feelings, trust issues, and finding that one true love. Feelings are the top of the pyramid being that this helps us make decisions. (especially finding a true love)

Question 3:
And are you the kind of guys who string girls along just because you feel like it?

A. Not at all to be honest. We're just very nice to people and some have varying interpretations of this. Another reason could be that we're searching for a true love and are "feeling" your "energy" to decide if you are. So we'll subtlely get to know who you are and find out what you're about (just so no damage is inflicted if we find out that you aren't the one.)

Question 4:
When you are unresponsive do you prefer to be left alone or do you like to be given and shown love and effection?

A little of both. When I'm moody, I just like to be alone to process my thoughts. I don't mind being shown love but I'd like to just spend that time along. What really infuriates me is when people get mad at me for going it alone when I get moody. They hate it when I'm moody around them, but when I go elsewhere to let it settle down, they won't accept that. Just be understanding of his moodiness because you're usually not the cause of it. He is just overly worried and probably ****** off at life. It's only fair that if he is accepting of your faults, that you should be accepting of his.

posted February 02, 2007 10:06 PM         

I notice that she has sun,mercury, and venus in scorpio (me too!). Her pluto is in scorpio as well. Since pluto is a generational planet and you're probably close in age, your pluto could be close to either her mercury or venus. That would make for a powerful union.

The fact that she left her boyfriend for you is a mighty positive sign. If she is anything like me she likes mystery in the sense that someone displays a depth of character and everything is not on the surface. It gives her something to dig in to.

I think scorpios are like cancer in that they both like privacy and don't like people to pry. Neither party is really willing to put their cards on the table for fear of being fully exposed and potentially hurt or rejected. If you can come to some sort of agreement that whatever is said or shared between the two of you stays between the two of you, it might help get the ball rolling.

posted February 03, 2007 06:27 PM         

You are Cancer, the leader of the Water signs. A Scorpio girl actually WANTS her mate to dominate her and make her proud (in Sun Signs) and this is absolutely true- BUT without disturbing her secret individuality. You must always make her feel appreciated, like she truly deserves and there will be no end to how, and how far she will please you. She wants you to make plans, dinner reservations, trips, surprises, roses or flowers just for the heck of it. Physically, she wants to be pleased, but she might not be upfront about this. For instance, you decide to give her a back rub(etc) or just make her FEEL your love by the things you do, she will give her ALL to please you back and more. It makes us happy to dominate, please our men in every fantasy they ever had about being in love. We understand love, but- sometimes we have a hard time, LOL - like most women, to find someone who can fulfill all of what we seek in a man. A strong, masculine- yet sensitive, intelligient man.
Someone who inspires us to be great like we really want to be.

From all of your inquiries, you seem like this means alot to you and I am sure she will sense this, like you- Cancer- can sense in her. I am 24, and married to a Pisces. We are seperated, but our bond will never be broken. The only negative to water and water is it can create storms if you do not nurse, water, weed, and tend to your garden of love. Like anything. Long-term love needs just as much love and the "little things" as the beginning.

posted February 03, 2007 10:31 PM         

How intense can the secrets of a scorpio female be?

What are the things (besides the ones you listed) that please her?

Things to avoid doing so you don't make her mad?

Will she put up with your moodiness?

I've also read Lindman Goodman's love signs. Most things I've read online were very repetitive so I'm asking a lot questions to dig up new things from people with personal experience (or at least some kind of experience).