posted February 09, 2007 07:32 PM         

but i wudnt worry about it. i think that when we meet someone right, we wud know. nobody goes out there with a list of qualities they r looking for. it doesnt matter unless u r planning on registering on an online dating site and need to spell out what you want.

i have tried it. it doesnt work. there is always something u wud forget. always something u wished u had thought of. always something tht u cud never have dreamed u wud like until u meet a real live person and fall in love with them.

i have left the whole thing in the hands of fate kind of. i have accepted that i have no clue what i am looking for, let alone what would be good for me. i have left it to the universe to either give me pointers, or lead me to the right person

i did get some clues....so i know what i *cud* like. and know quite emphatically what i don't like. but that's about it. i suppose i wont really know until i do find *him*.

*edit* I have this same problem, just dont find guys whom i'd find interesting. i have plenty of friends. but very rarely do i find myself getting turned on by a guy

I was talking about this to a friend. and this is what she said: 'that person has to be really unique, otherwise why wud he be 'the only one' for you'. i mean if every 10th person u meet fits the bill, then what wud make u want to commit to no.30 as opposed to no.60 ?

posted February 12, 2007 08:37 PM         

quote:

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don't know what I want
but I know how to get it.
- Anarchy In the U.K., The Sex Pistols

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posted February 13, 2007 12:58 AM         

You strike me as an unusual being. Honest, perceptive, self-evaluating. You also have a tremendous heart from what I've seen of you.

Some are not ready for this type of connection. And I bet you push people away from you quite soon. I wouldn't look at this as fussy, but ultra intuitive (and smart).

However, you will meet a person, a woman, who feels like a friend, but is really your ultimate lover. Let the inner animal guide you.

posted February 13, 2007 08:15 AM         

I'm used to your wise counsel now and it may have seemed like that was taken for granted. I assure you that was not the case.

lovely - I like that idea....suits me very well...

posted February 21, 2007 01:41 AM         

"Wish I knew what you were looking for/
might have known what you will find..."
---The Church, "Under the Milky Way"

"I am human and I need to be loved/ just like anybody else does..."
---The Smiths, "How Soon Is Now?"

posted February 21, 2007 03:09 PM         

Swerve,
I wanted to add that what you wrote to me was very timely, as I've been at a cross-road concerning LindaLand for some time.
What happened prior Christmas has left its mark. Although I remain at impasse, unsure, I appreciate so much what you took a moment to give to me. Regardless of where I do go, I'll remember your kindness.

(sorry if I've strayed off topic, but I felt it important to thank you more properly.)

posted February 21, 2007 11:26 PM         

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posted March 02, 2007 03:02 AM         

sue dear, was that heart for me?

posted March 04, 2007 04:39 PM         

Just got back from a holiday in Prague for my birthday so not been around.

Seven - glad I could help you before. Thanks for your words.

Lia - don't you dare go anywhere, permanently anyway. Maybe an LL break is in order? I usually have them every couple of months myself.

It's easy to forget that the content of what we post and the subjects we flirt with mean there is a probably a huge amount of energy passing between people on this site.

Something to bear in mind when the heart begins to feel that much heavier....

Of course you've had more than usual to face as well recently, so I understand. you present mood.