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Passionate Pisces022586
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posted March 03, 2007 06:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Passionate Pisces022586     Edit/Delete Message
Hello Lindaland!
I had been with this youngman a libra for quite sometime. however, we split during venus retrograde and my heart is broken.We had no closure. It has been 1year since the breakup and im still feeling an attachment to him. I don't know why. DO you see anything.

I appreciate the time and effort tremendously!

Him born Oct. 15. 1985 (don't know birthtime)
Sun Libra
Moon Scorpio
Venus Virgo
Mars Virgo

Me born Feb. 25. 1986 4:33a.m. jackson, ms
Sun Pisces
Moon Virgo
Venus Pisces
Mars Sagittarius

We have a tight (within 5 degrees)
Sun trine moon
Sun trine pluto
Sun trine mercury
Sun sextile uranus
moon sextile moon
moon conjunct venus
moon trine venus
moon conjunct mars
moon conjunct pluto
moon square uranus
moon trine jupiter
venus trine ascendent
venus opposite mercury
venus square uranus
venus square mars
venus opposite mars
mars opposite mercury
mars square uranus
mars trine ascendent
mercury conjunct pluto
mercury sextile neptune
saturn trine mercury
saturn sextile jupiter
saturn sextile moon
jupiter square pluto
pluto sextile neptune

we have loose or by sign

Sun opposite venus
venus opposite venus
Sun opposite mars
Sun sextile mars

His venus and mars MY 8th house
his moon in my 10th house conjunct my MC
his sun in my 9th

I don't know his rising but its seems virgoish!

What is the first thing that came too your mind? please share it, it may help me move on.
Thanks you sooo very much!!

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Ascendent Capricorn
Moon Virgo 8th house
Sun Pisces 1st house
Venus Pisces 2nd house
Mercury Pisces 2nd house
Jupiter Pisces 1st house
Mars Sagittarius 11th
Uranus Sagittarius 11th
Saturn Sagittarius 10th
Neptune Capricorn 12th
PlutoConjunctMC Scorpio

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kaira
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posted March 03, 2007 09:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for kaira     Edit/Delete Message
ahh, you Pisces people are so damn attractive to us Libras. let me just say this pairing is really quite beautiful. i've been with my Pisces for 2 years, been through some very extreme highs and lows, but we're still managing. i'd like to marry him one day, but no pressure upon him, although he has been talking about it quite a lot recently...

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BornUnderDioscuri
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posted March 03, 2007 10:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BornUnderDioscuri     Edit/Delete Message
I don't know if I can generalize but im a Gemini moon in Scorpio and i feel that i still have emotional attachment to all the people I have been in relationships with. Do you guys talk?

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Passionate Pisces022586
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posted March 03, 2007 11:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Passionate Pisces022586     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks for replaying Kaira, and BornUnderDioscuri!!

No we do not talk we have not talked since Jan.24.06 the day we last saw each other.

It hurts me soo deeply inside.

I know I should contact him, however i feel some kind of fear toward him, for I do not want to get rejected.

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Ascendent Capricorn
Moon Virgo 8th house
Sun Pisces 1st house
Venus Pisces 2nd house
Mercury Pisces 2nd house
Jupiter Pisces 1st house
Mars Sagittarius 11th
Uranus Sagittarius 11th
Saturn Sagittarius 10th
Neptune Capricorn 12th
PlutoConjunctMC Scorpio

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BornUnderDioscuri
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posted March 03, 2007 11:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BornUnderDioscuri     Edit/Delete Message
Well my best friend is a Libra Scorpio rising Taurus and she is a very kind person and forgiving too. I really don't know since she has never been in love, but I think it might be okay if u take it slow. Like contact him to try to fix the friendship that way no pressure on u or him.

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CrankyCap
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posted March 04, 2007 12:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for CrankyCap     Edit/Delete Message
Passionate Pisces -
I can really relate to your story, and I understand how you feel. One good thing for you is that you're still very young. Typically time heals these kinds of wounds, you learn from it, and become stronger for having experienced it. But I do know what it's like to wonder if there will ever come a day when you feel like you're "over it," or at least not feeling held back or still strongly attached to the person.

Unfortunately I can't give you an answer on that one. For some of us, it just takes a lot longer if there was a deep love there. It's also possible that this was a karmic relationship for you.

I'm a pisces moon (8H), and I noticed that you've got an 8H moon as well. I wonder if perhaps that has something to do with "holding on" to past loves. I've got one of those myself that still haunts me after breaking up 5 years ago. It's just difficult to let them go when they've been so significant in your life. My logical side tells me to just not bother with him, and it HAS gotten better over the years...but there's still that part of me that always wonders about him. I think I'm averaging a little over 12 months in as far as how long I can go without contacting him. Then I do...we try to be friends...and then we can't, and communication stops again. Right now, we're "friends," but once again I find myself missing him, and wanting to see him face to face. That's when I think that I should just let it go.

So, as far as contacting your Libra...it really just depends. I don't think there is a right or wrong answer, but if you're anything like me...you do what you feel. If you think you can just be friends, or at least start off that way, then I certainly don't see any harm in it. But, if you still feel love for him, it could be a difficult situation. Rejection is painful, but it can be meaningful too. We all have to go through it. This Taurus of mine has put me through the ringer countless times, but he's endured as a friend in my life for 7 years. I trust him, and his honesty. Every time I jump back into his life with an email or letter...he always responds, and he always seems so excited to hear from me. I have no doubt that my relationship with him is very karmic, and it seems that there is always a new lesson for me to learn when he's in my life.

Honestly, if you're still feeling very troubled by this breakup after a year...you might want to give it a shot. At least you'll know. The not knowing can sometimes be what really holds you back. Closure is also very cathartic, and even if his feelings for you are not the same, at least sorting that out would give you peace of mind. Don't fear rejection so much...remember that it's always a learning experience, and it WILL make you stronger.

Good luck with this, and keep us posted on whatever you decide to do.

-CC

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Passionate Pisces022586
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posted March 04, 2007 01:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Passionate Pisces022586     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks CrankyCap,

its good to know someone understands me thats a great feeling. I do believe this a karmic relationship for me because it will eventually teach me an important lesson and that lesson being How to let go.
I still love him so I doubt we could ever be friends. For I have ran into him many times but my emotions overwhlem me and I just turn and go the other direction.

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Passionate Pisces022586
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posted March 05, 2007 10:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Passionate Pisces022586     Edit/Delete Message
Hello Everyone, Do anybody see anything that suggest a Karmic bond?

How can I calculate the moon nodes?

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Ascendent Capricorn
Moon Virgo 8th house
Sun Pisces 1st house
Venus Pisces 2nd house
Mercury Pisces 2nd house
Jupiter Pisces 1st house
Mars Sagittarius 11th
Uranus Sagittarius 11th
Saturn Sagittarius 10th
Neptune Capricorn 12th
PlutoConjunctMC Scorpio

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BornUnderDioscuri
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posted March 05, 2007 10:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BornUnderDioscuri     Edit/Delete Message
www.astro.com when you do an extended chart selection there you can check a list for them to put the True Node in by selecting it and then draw out your chart

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thebigeliza
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posted March 07, 2007 04:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for thebigeliza     Edit/Delete Message
Oh my god, my birthdate is October 15 1985

i have never known anyone else born that day
i have aquarius rising though
I think you should contact him,he is very understanding underneath his mysterious facade.Sending you lots of luck,love and light to you,Eliza Libra/Scorpio

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Gooberzlostlovefound
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posted March 07, 2007 04:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gooberzlostlovefound     Edit/Delete Message
Have you looked at the composite chart?

(it's different than synastry)

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Passionate Pisces022586
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posted March 07, 2007 05:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Passionate Pisces022586     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks, thebigelize
Thats very interesting to share a birthday with my him, I bet you're very magnetic and attract very many people. I absolutely love that combination Libra/Scorpio!

Hi, Gooberzlostlovefound,
Thanks for the suggestion. However I don't know how to calculate a composite, for I don't know his time of birth.
Thank you sooo much though!

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Gooberzlostlovefound
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posted March 08, 2007 09:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gooberzlostlovefound     Edit/Delete Message
Yeah, that is tricky.

If you enter his birth time as noon, though, than for the most part the aspects in the composite chart would be the same. However, the houses would be off. But still..It's a worth a look. Composite charts are very revealing.

You can use astro.com

Hope you feel better....

GLLF

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Passionate Pisces022586
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posted March 08, 2007 09:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Passionate Pisces022586     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks Gooberzlostlovefound

I greatly appreciate you sweetheart. I looked up my chart it was interseting but I couldn't post it.

I will try to post a new topic and hopefully someone that knows how to post it helps me.

Again your advice is greatly appreciated.

Have a wonderful night bye bye..

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Gooberzlostlovefound
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posted March 08, 2007 09:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gooberzlostlovefound     Edit/Delete Message
You're very welcome, you too

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