posted March 07, 2007 08:09 PM         

What do you like most about them?
What cant you stand most about them?

posted March 07, 2007 08:28 PM         

I have had many experince with Virgos (I seem to meet one every where I go)
I have a Virgo moon and a Pisces Sun, Venus, Jupiter, and Mercury so its alot of attraction.

What I like most about them is definately their reliablity and trustworthy. I can see right pass their hard shell and oppose to what most people say I find them quite cuddly. I love they way the always notice things( This can go both ways) They are so intelligent, and they get the job done. I find them not to be superficial they don't waste money. They have a Great sense of humor. They happen to be good cooks. The are good with mechanics. Mine always knew what was up with my car.LOL! Most that i've meet have pretty smiles with straight shiny teeth.
They always look like they just got out of the shower! Charming voices OMG

What I dislike about them they are crtical, and perfectionist. They happen to see the worst before the best, this is caused by their strong need not to fail. They have a huge pride for they never want to be wrong or look unreliable. They can become picky fussy if one things out of place. Most of them are picky eaters. They can be shy which can affect getting into a relationship with them. They like to take things slow which can really upset many people. But they are just protecting their heart because they love deeply and they like to take time to build things that last

How do I cope with their negativities. Most of the time I understand them and is attracted to them because of my placements, but their good qualities usually outweigh their bad. For they are charming they can **** you off and then charm you back in to loving them as if nothing happened..

posted March 07, 2007 08:52 PM         

Thanks for the prompt reply.

I think Im in the "courting" phase with a Virgo right now. But hes been calling me sweetheart, love, etc etc, since only after a week or so of talking to him. Very bold too, he grabbed my hand while we were crossing the street ...maybe thats just the way guys are in Pakistan?

Hes not the typical shy Virgo cuz he has a lot of Leo influence.

He cooked for me and made me tea, and served me when I was in Pakistan. Men in Pakistan almost never do that for women there!!

I really do appreciate their intelligence and that they're reliable too.

I agree they have Charming Voices - do you find their voice a bit monotone as well? Maybe it's just me cuz Im such an animated person.

I havent experience the critical tongue...yet...he made me promise him Id go to sleep early so that when he looked into the eyes of the one he loved I wouldnt have those dark circles there anymore lol!!!

posted March 08, 2007 04:00 AM         

Even if he has venus in Leo his moon in Aquarius makes him quite cool, he's not overly passionate. His mars is in Gemini, which adds to this one I think. But he is very gentle, which I like (I'm a pisces)

posted March 08, 2007 08:39 AM         

I am in shock at your post. My Virgo man is Pakistani too! LOL! What are the chances of that?

Passionate Pisces, I really loved your post. You almost completely described my Virgo and made me understand something I didn't quite get before.

PS - Mine can get cuddly too, but not too often. He has his moments.

posted March 10, 2007 01:01 AM         

In your second sentence I almost see "future_uncertain's husband is certain to be a virgo" which is true. We're getting married in October.

**don't mind me... just moseying through, noticing random things**

Perhaps I should throw my 2 cents in??

posted March 11, 2007 01:13 AM         

Well my boyfriend's a Virgo with Sag asc and Libra moon. (Me: Aries sun;Libra asc, Cancer moon)

The things I like most about him is his criticism, I mean at times it can be harsh but sometimes people need to be put into their place and i'm usually an emotional WRECK to the core and he helps me out. He's very honest with me as well. I'm a scatterbrain with plans and sometimes too spontaneous. I don't even think about money half the time, just the activity. I'm quite the spendthrift. He gives me financial advise and helps me sort out the activities. He is very loving for a Virgo though. He's working on romance, let me tell you. I do get a bit upset when I don't get suprises often. I suprise him with little gifts and trips quite often and usually don't expect anything back, but it would be nice once in a while.

posted March 11, 2007 03:10 PM         

future sure go ahead and throw in your 2 or even more cents in. Im not a fire sign, tho I have jupiter in leo, venus/nept in sag and sag dc.

And Yes I am drawn to Virgos and yes I get bored and impatient...I think I have the need to converse about random things more than he does.

babeefoxx...I like their critical side the best, most of the time...except in a fight. I have a Virgo sister and brother as well so Im well aware of how that can be...actually I can be much more critical when I want to be...not a good thing with a Virgo cuz they cant take criticism as well.

posted March 11, 2007 03:16 PM         

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I cannot stand the passiveness!! I think it has more to do with their own insecurities and uncertanties than not caring though?? What do you think?

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posted March 11, 2007 05:59 PM         

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Though what people fear about the online cynic is his/her straightforwardness. The cynic hold nothing back when it comes to identifying a problem and giving a solution even if it means giving no regards to plesentries or feelings. To them, the advice they give has the solution and that is what the poster asked for in the first place. This little attibute of theirs ends up making them quite unpopular or labled as the "troll" of a community, just out there to ruin everyone's day.

Well... I beg to differ people. See the cynic gives advice in its PUREST form; Avid of any misleading plesenteries which they regard as hinderence to the point they are trying to make. Whining people who tend to get burned by these guys need to get a grip! For the emos have been given a solid advice which could be one of the best ones they can ever get.

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posted March 11, 2007 06:52 PM         

She openly said herself that she isn't sure if she can love one man all her life. And yeah... it was a hige blow to many men's pride who she dated Lol!

posted March 11, 2007 10:00 PM         

Of course he doesn't see it that way. He's very much in love with me, but I just want to shake him and scream "IS THAT ALL!!!"

Oh, he'd be very puzzled indeed. He has no idea why his feelings aren't readily apparent to me.

Maybe Xodian can explain why Virgo doesn't bother running away with his emotions as almost everyone does at some point or another. Not only that, but most of us have felt so overcome with emotion that we couldn't possibly hold ourselves back.

I've never seen a Virgo perform this amazing feat. Have you??

posted March 12, 2007 08:06 AM         

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Maybe Xodian can explain why Virgo doesn't bother running away with his emotions as almost everyone does at some point or another. Not only that, but most of us have felt so overcome with emotion that we couldn't possibly hold ourselves back.

I've never seen a Virgo perform this amazing feat. Have you??

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Lol! Ummmm, now I am not an astrology expert so I can't really say. All of what I know only comes through reading Linda's books and whatever I notice around in people's behavior.

posted March 12, 2007 02:37 PM         

I just cant imagine Virgos being promiscuous...call me naive...cuz I am.

Anyways......Heres my story...

This Virgo Boy (not to be confused with Man) totally tried to sweep me off my feet. He said the most romantic things...wanted to know what kind of flowers and jewelry I liked. I told him I wanted to teach in UAE and he suggested he go there too to be with me...what a bad boy.

He always calls me sweetheart, love, darling, Khabsurat/beautiful. He said he loved me, missed me..and he even said he was IN love with me. It was like he couldnt control himself around me.

He really knows how to flatter a girl, and my red alert flag went up the first day I met him I have to admit...but I let him flatter me for as long as he did...nice boost to the ego, right? And always fun to see where these types of things go.

Anyhoo I tried to do my research on him cuz I didnt trust him from day one! And lo and behold, via the grapevine, I found out his parents got him engaged to a close friends daughter when they were kids.

So of course, I confronted him with this and flatout asked him if he was engaged as I had heard. He paused, said a long hmmmm, and then admitted that he actually was engaged and that he will follow his parents choice and orders because thats the honourable thing to do and because his parents know best. Thats the culture in Pakistan for you!

He then proceeded to tell me his love for me is different because im his sweetheart, his favourite and that hes in love with me. His love for his sweetheart is different from his love for his fiance or soon to be wife.

Well damn he thinks all girls from the West are easy...He can just have a fling with me and thats alright?...is that how most of them think?

I gave him a nice lecture on my values and morals and how dishonest he was being to his fiance, his parents and hers. Ha, and he disagreed!! Well he won't be finding any arguments from me cuz theres nothing to argue. Hes in the wrong and he's a slime bucket. He asked if that meant that I won't talk to him anymore. I didnt answer. I just wished him a wonderful day.

Glad it was only 2 months of talking to him and not 2 or more years.