posted April 13, 2007 06:37 AM         

Errr...YEP! She even brags about it.

With your Pisces sun/Scorpio Moon? I dunno. But if I recall, you also have an Aqua venus? Yeah, both your tastes and/or values are probably on very opposite ends of the spectrum (Leo-Aqua polarity).

Errr...YEP! That's what finished it.

"Although Sun conjunct Mercury in cancer would probably make her extremely intuitive and easily affected by other's moods."

She is a bit of a nervous wreck because of it!

"Her venus-neptune trine could make her an idealist in love....or into art/theater/etc."

This is probably what I fell in love with. I imagine we had an idealised version of each other in our minds. The other stuff chipped away at that until there was resentment on her side and I guess shame on mine for being exposed (in HER eyes).

Maybe that's why it was hard to let go. I just wanted her to see that actually I was that guy after all, and not the person she thinks I am now.

She was very stubborn and quick to reject which shocked me really after so much understanding in the beginning.

Great work Dulce!

posted April 13, 2007 07:49 AM         

It's kinda like too much of the same intense energy I think Cancers are trying to get to grips with in themselves.

Obviously strong Pluto placements would help cope but I am difficult to handle just in the way I am. I have trouble myself!

I often wonder what sign would be best suited to live with my intensity and I keep coming back to Aquarius.

posted April 13, 2007 08:25 AM         

I think with this girl in particular, the gemini moon is what does her in. As the moon represents what we're comfortable with, she may not be comfortable with this type of energy even though she possesses it herself (sun/mercury conjunction in Cancer along with Mars in cancer). I have a gemini mooner sister who is really not comfy with that type of thing either (and she's a Pisces). Her gem moon also falls in the 7th.

I'd say if you ever wanted to go with a cancer again, look for one who also has either a water/ earth moon or a strong emphasis of water in the chart or even some earth to ground you. Going back to this girl again, I see alot of emphasis on social life and having fun (this is excluding her sun/mercury/mars combo).
Although her sun/mars combo would make her very attracted to the watery type; its probably not what she was comfortable with in the end because of her moon being in such a light and airy sign/ and again, the party aspects (venus-jupiter square).

Although her moon probably would've gone pefrect with your venus, its not what you need on a deeper level (scorpio moon). With water in your top three, you probably would've been disatisfied in the long run. She doesn't appreciate what you do, which would be very important in the long run.

posted April 13, 2007 08:41 AM         

Do you not find that without some strong water a relationship feels kind of "flat".

I need that passion, that underlying emotion to it. Sex for the sake of it bores me in truth and intellectual stimulation can only go so far. So Air and Earth have limited long-term appeal.

I want passion, passion, passion - even if sometimes it feels dangerously out of control.

Am I revealing myself here lol?

I felt she was uncomfortable with her own energy while being tempted by it. She chose to go with what she knows, I would guess her current bf is airy and fun and drinks and doesn't take life too seriously. Or an arrogant type who plays with her feelings as she is easily manipulated I noticed. That made me feel protective of her.

I would also imagine she will settle for that thinking it's enough but feel something is missing in the future when getting drunk doesn't hold the same appeal anymore.

I digress though, because I think I've spent enough time, energy and emotion on that girl though now. I'm just happy she seems happy - and goodbye.

Thanks again,

posted April 13, 2007 09:04 AM         

He wasn't at all like how Swerve's ex sounds. He was sooooo caring, nurturing, passionate, and protective. He was INSANELY jealous though. That eventually pushed me away. I felt too suffocated.
I dated a Gemini~Cancer too. The two men were very similar, but I got along much better with the Cancer sun.

The thing that I've noticed with Gemini moons is that they can be very irritable and unpredictable. It's not the most nurturing moon, but I would have thought with that girl's placements in Cancer, it might have cancelled that out a bit.

posted April 13, 2007 09:17 AM         

When you said you found yourself thinking that you might be best with an Aqua... I had a weird moment the other night. I was running different charts through my head, and thinking about which signs and placements would be best for me. Then I realized that I shouldn't even think about that. The right person will be the right person, no matter what the signs.

I was shocked a few months back when I really hit it off with someone. He was a Sag-Leo! Never would I have expected such a thing. We talked for hours and had a lot of laughs. You never know what can happen Swerve, so keep your heart AND your options open.

posted April 13, 2007 09:45 AM         

Logically it seems Aqua, but maybe another Pisces or someone with a Pisces Moon could be best.

Actually, one ex was Gemini Sun, Cancer Moon which was the opposite and she really understood me and actually liked my intensity and "out there" qualities.

Maybe a Cancer Moon then....who knows?

posted April 13, 2007 10:33 AM         

Just kidding

posted April 13, 2007 12:25 PM         

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Do you not find that without some strong water a relationship feels kind of "flat".

I need that passion, that underlying emotion to it. Sex for the sake of it bores me in truth and intellectual stimulation can only go so far. So Air and Earth have limited long-term appeal.

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Yeah, I have felt things to be a bit flat (even in friendships) when there wasn't alot of water. I just didn't end up getting close to the person. But while I do need that strong water emphasis....I also need a little bit of some of the other elements too. Especially air because I'm a gemini venus/aries mars in the 3rd I'm reaaally big on conversation and intellectual stimulation......its practically a must otherwise I get bored easily. I guess what I'm saying is that I can't have just ONE element in a relationship (especially not fire, Oh the Drama!). I hope I'm not sounding picky.

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Actually, one ex was Gemini Sun, Cancer Moon which was the opposite and she really understood me and actually liked my intensity and "out there" qualities.

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posted April 13, 2007 02:15 PM         

I feel like going and hiding away right now...i have moon in gemini, venus sq jupiter, mars in aqua.....lol

but really, we ain't tht bad! it depends on so many other things....mostly i think moon in gemini are a little queasy about showing any emotions....i dunno....well may be compared to double/triple water signs they *might* seem flaky

posted April 13, 2007 03:33 PM         

did u go for the circle of life reading?

you know what, i am always very curious about my future etc etc, in fact sometimes 'desperate' is more like it...but when it comes to going for an actual reading i begin to get the heebie-jeebies....i suddenly feel afraid of what they might say to me

so lets see which way i'll turn....*sigh*

posted April 18, 2007 07:13 PM         

Swerve

So much to say, and yet doing so takes the life right out of it.