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Topic: Unrequited love--I'm in pain
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The Mutable Night Force
Knowflake Posts: 1440
From: England
Registered: Dec 2004
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posted May 29, 2007 05:56 PM
 
Okay, I haven't had time to read every single bit of this since.. there is quite a lot! haha Which I suspect has helped you quite a bit so far but I'll throw my thoughts in just in case it helps.Right, first thought, is that he does like you. It's hard for any of us to tell since we can't see you together, we only have your side of the story etc and you did mention he's back with this long-distance girlfriend (he still with her? And how far a distance?). But Your description in your first post about the nickname and jealousy would hint and especially the part later about him not touching you, which I always thought was a classic tell-tale sign of attraction (ahh, this was in a film once, I know it! Maybe Dr Who, can't remember). Sounds as if there's sexual tension bubbling. BUT what someone else mentioned was sound advice too. You say you want to have sex with him and that would be enough. Of course you want to but would you really be able to draw the line there if that was all he wanted? Maybe you should tell him how you feel, or at least hint, get more comfortable with the idea and see how he responds but also figure out how heavy he is with this other girl. I can identify with you in a lot of this and say there is no worse pain than finding out someone you adore loves another person. If he loves this other girl, best try to cure yourself of liking him. God, I hope this doesn't sound too simple, I'm sort of rambling.
Ah, basically I feel for you and wish you the best of luck, however this turns out. Btw, i don't think Scorpio men are that easy to bed! They may be sl*ts, but that's on their own terms! haha IP: Logged |
Lucia23
Knowflake Posts: 303
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Registered: Feb 2007
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posted May 30, 2007 11:31 PM
I really appreciate all of your insight on this!I have talked to a couple of (non-astrological) friends who know me very well about this, and they think that a big part of the problem is that when I met the Scorpio, I was in a major and very committed relationship. They think he was interested in me then and I was not open to it, and I really think that might be true. They think I had already, accidentally hurt the Scorpio before I even got interested in him back. Based on some early incidents, that might be true. I know he respects me intellectually and as a person. My next plan is to maybe try to be friends with him. It's hard for me, since I get very uncharacteristically shy around him. The Mutable Night Force, I'm having a lonely night tonight and your kind words have made me feel better. Thank you.
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Lucia23
Knowflake Posts: 303
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Registered: Feb 2007
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posted July 17, 2007 10:36 PM
It's been a long time and I keep trying to move on from my obsession with this man. Why can't I? Is it something in my chart right now? I do tend to be tenacious in love, but that's with men I've had actual relationships with. I can't stop thinking about him. I saw him yesterday and all of my feelings are still there, and even more intense than before. I forgot how beautiful he was. He was very friendly to me and seemed happy to see me. He can be so nice. He's never mentioned his girlfriend to me, but I know he's still with her. How do I move on? This whole thing is just making me feel bad. IP: Logged |
Sunny Mavericks
Knowflake Posts: 156
From: CA, USA
Registered: Aug 2004
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posted July 18, 2007 01:56 AM
Okay, I haven't read ALL of the posts, so I don't know if I'm being repetitive here, but I'll try to help. I'm a Scorpio with a Leo rising, so I have the scorp side, but I also have a Leo ego and hate to go unnoticed and unadored. Scorps are very direct and when we want someone we tend to get fixated. Yes, we're highly sexual but we also tend to get hurt easily, and when we do we don't want the person anymore (most of the time). However, sometimes when I am around a guy I tend to hide my feelings and act like anything BUT interested in them as a defense mechanism or because I don't know what I want to do with them yet. As for his LD gf, well we don't do well in LD relationships but I was in one for 8 months. I left because he was a typical Aqua, but I found myself always going back. It all depends on their relationship and why they broke up in the first place. Can I also remind you of the infamous Scorpio stare? You might have fallen prey to it. Hope this post helped, and made sense. Blessings,
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