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Gooberzlostlovefound
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posted May 20, 2007 07:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gooberzlostlovefound     Edit/Delete Message
And are you as scared as I am?

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Blue Baby 143
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posted May 20, 2007 10:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Blue Baby 143     Edit/Delete Message
I'm not afraid of love.


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BlueTopaz124
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posted May 21, 2007 12:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for BlueTopaz124     Edit/Delete Message
I haven't recently fallen in love, but know what that's like GLLF.

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Gooberzlostlovefound
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posted May 21, 2007 01:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gooberzlostlovefound     Edit/Delete Message
Blue~ I'm not afraid of being afraid.

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Gooberzlostlovefound
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posted May 21, 2007 01:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gooberzlostlovefound     Edit/Delete Message
thanks topaz

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taurean_scorpion
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posted May 21, 2007 05:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for taurean_scorpion     Edit/Delete Message
i'm not afraid of love but i am about losing myself...it is not healthy...you need control to stay levelheaded in love....not such an easy thing for a taurus/scorpio/cancer... =_+, or for anybody for that matter...

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Xodian
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posted May 21, 2007 05:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Xodian     Edit/Delete Message
Recently giving it a 4th try at a relationship actually. To say that I am totally uninhibited and not worried would be a lie. I mean there is just so many times a guy can forge a strong link with someone only to have it broken off for what ever reason and not show any signs of reluctance and a bit of skeptisism.

However, so far it hasn't affected me much or has been an issue at all between us . I guess there is nothing I can do but give it my all and love with all my heart.

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Gooberzlostlovefound
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posted May 21, 2007 07:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gooberzlostlovefound     Edit/Delete Message
xodian~

That's very much how I feel.

When I love, I Love For Keeps -- with all of my heart.

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Xodian
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posted May 21, 2007 08:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Xodian     Edit/Delete Message
Well just don't let it totally get in the way of your current relationship . Offcourse there will be some degree of reluctance but to totally let it get to you would only make it unfair for your partner who is giving it his all.

All I can say is this is a chance worth taking IMO .

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Gooberzlostlovefound
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posted May 21, 2007 08:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gooberzlostlovefound     Edit/Delete Message
Yes, I agree.

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seveneieghtorange
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posted May 22, 2007 06:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for seveneieghtorange     Edit/Delete Message
The feeling of falling in love terrifies me...but at the same time, it is addicting and exhilarating. To be honest with you, I completely welcome the moment of falling in love, but the decision of totally giving myself mind, heart, soul and body to someone? That terrifies me. The most I will go for falling love is giving into the rush of feeling at that moment in time. But forever and ever? I get too scared!!

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BlueTopaz124
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posted May 22, 2007 09:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BlueTopaz124     Edit/Delete Message
GLLF, is this a person you are in a relationship with? Are you both available to be in this relationship? Are you having doubts for any reason that could be causing this fear?

Just questions for you and don't mean to impose doubt

No relationship is guaranteed 100%...things and people change, that IS guaranteed...go as slow as you need to if you feel you need time...get to know this person...if there are any red flags, take a look at those...

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Gooberzlostlovefound
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posted May 24, 2007 03:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gooberzlostlovefound     Edit/Delete Message
hi Laura

Yes, we are in a relationship. I don't have any doubts about him. It's more about myself.

I got hurt really badly last year.

I think it's just going to take some time.

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let ther b light
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posted May 28, 2007 08:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for let ther b light     Edit/Delete Message
i've had three relationships, all of which i took very eriously. in the sense that i wasnt goofing around. the first two barely lasted a coupla months but left me badly hurt. the third one was a seven year rel which i broke off last year. after i got over the initial pain and depression i felt quite light....and free. i dont think im ready to get serious again for sometime. just wanna make the most of my freedom. i've done a lot of things in the last coupla months i normally wud not do...and im feeling good!!! as of now the idea of getting serious is not welcome in my mind!!

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