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Topic: A person you keep coming back to
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Autumn wind
Knowflake Posts: 320
From: Calgary, Alberta Canada
Registered: Dec 2003
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posted November 01, 2007 09:44 PM
 
I have read M.N.F.'s post as well as everyone Else's. I have the same thing going on only It's been over 15yrs since I last saw the Cancer man I am attracted to. He was married at the time and I was not, but now I'm married and he isn't.(nothing but kissing happened the first time). I am married to a Scorpio, who really is a good husband! He treats me like gold, is kind, sensitive and giving. He also has total trust in me! Yet, the Cancer man is the one I can't stop thinking about or having such strong feelings for! He is also a really nice guy and has told me he loved me back then and still does. I love him too,(is that weird?) and always have...it's strange but I have always felt a connection with him from the moment I laid eyes on him.(it's not just physical either as he isn't really considered good looking on the outside)
I think to myself, what the heck is wrong with me! I have a good husband who takes good care of me and is my best friend. That's just it, he is more a friend to me. I know if I ever act on my true feelings, he would be devastated and would never forgive me!
I met the Cancer man on face book and have seen him a few times. (gone out for drinks and talked). My feelings are stronger every time I see him! but what holds me back is that I couldn't do that to my husband who doesn't deserve or should have that happen to him. I am really confused and sad. I don't know what I'd do if I lost the Cancer man in my life either!....I thought about him often with an empty hole in my soul for 15 years.IP: Logged |
miss_muffet
Knowflake Posts: 778
From:
Registered: Mar 2004
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posted November 02, 2007 02:14 PM
Hugs to you Autumn wind... I completely understand what you mean.Hoping that it all work out for you. MM IP: Logged |
Isis
Knowflake Posts: 1868
From: CA
Registered: Jan 2004
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posted November 02, 2007 09:41 PM
I'm a Scorp, and I've just reconnected with a man I dated 15 years ago. He's a Scorp too, and it was a very intense but short-lived relationship - we were both young, naive, selfish and a bit stupid at the time, but the chemistry was so incredibly strong and we had such a wonderful time. We can't even recall why we broke up back then. So now we're giving it another go. It's a huge challenge however, because he lives in Australia now and I reside in the US (I'm down here right now because of a death in the family).Us hooking up was completely unexpected, and while I always remembered our relationship fondly and we have stayed friends throughout the years, I truly never expected that we would ever reconnect. I find that throughout my life there were several people I've come back to...but I chalk it up moreso to "closure"...my relationships end generally in one of two ways: the dead horse that's been beaten to death, or just leaving things unsaid and slinking away as it were. When it's been beaten to death, there's really nothing left to be said, it's dead. But when you leave things unsaid and just fade away, I guess I have to go back and re-examine it. In every case except this one, there's really been nothing left there. It's been quite evident in short order exactly why it ended and why it ending was a good thing. Except in this case.  IP: Logged |
Autumn wind
Knowflake Posts: 320
From: Calgary, Alberta Canada
Registered: Dec 2003
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posted November 03, 2007 05:06 PM
Thank you MM, that really means a lot to me that you understand. That anyone can understand is ....well, it just helps knowing that. Thanks.IP: Logged |
miss_muffet
Knowflake Posts: 778
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Registered: Mar 2004
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posted November 05, 2007 07:21 AM
Autumn Wind...Sometimes it helps just to find a friend to talk to who will not judge. Just know that you are not alone. Be strong. MM IP: Logged | |
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