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posted August 26, 2007 07:36 AM         

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Hi Shamrock,

I hope Hippichick will give you her point of view because i'm really not that great in seeing through aquas...but I would think to judge whether his party behaviour shows lack of interest or a typical aqua running from his love interest depends a bit on the context. If you dont know him, haven't really interacted or just chatted here and there, well then his behaviour might just show you're only part of the crowd in his opinion and he doesnt have you on his romantic radar.But I think if you've interacted before extensively and there was a connection and not just aqua chatting away as part of his 100st conversation, then his avoidance of you is plain weird and a bit 'suspicious'. And he might indeed be running....Do you know his other placements, for instance his venus and mars sign? I'm just asking, if he has a venus in capricorn, 'avoidance and ignoring really is classic behaviour when dealing with someone you are interested in. I'm not an aqua, but have venus in capricorn aspecting uranus (uranus sitting in my 5th house), mars is also in tight aspect with uranus. Just give you one little example of my behaviour....The first time I was invited to aqua man's party, I was already so in love with him, I could hardly contain myself before the party. I was so excited to see him, I was trembling. Went there with a male friend. Aqua man greets us, starts chatting to my friend and me and I excuse myself and leave them.....go to another room and start talking to complete strangers...I just had to get away, it was too much for me....my friend later on told me that NOTHING of this inner turmoil showed, I seemed casual, cool as a cucumber...so I'm just saying, people are all different and sometimes they act in strange ways, when they really, really like someone. I'm not trying to convince you that your guy MUST like you, but I guess it's not all clear cut, but hopefully Hippichick will give you feedback.In any case, if you know his other placements I would be really interested to know? Because I think it does make a big difference. For instance one aqua man, who was actually chasing ME, turned out to have a saggitt. moon with mars in aries and lots of fire placements, I think with someone so firy it's a completely different story than an aqua man who has his planets mostly in air signs or a capricorn venus.

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posted August 26, 2007 07:37 AM         

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oops, sorry double post, seem to have a nervous twitch today :-)

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posted August 26, 2007 10:05 AM         

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Sham---

He is a weirdo, tho most Aquas are!

I agree with what annaf says, especially if you two are not that aquainted.

I feel he may have sensed a bit of overzealousness on your part and that may have scared him. How old is this guy? Age really is a BIG factor. I am 45 and men my age are still acting like young fools....My Aqua friend is 56 and quite a bit of a boy still in him!!!

Don't get me wrong, I do not have ANY problem with women coming on to men, or making the first move, I used to do it quite naturally. The older men get intimidated by women coming on to them cause they are just not used to it, they prefer old school ways...the yonger men usually do not have a problem with it, tho there are exceptions to both rules!

As far as Aquas go, annaf is correct in saying what may be going on if he has Cap in him, if he has Pisces he may just be shy and may have been talking to the other girl cause he knew her better or some kind of comfort level for him or he had NO romantic interests in her..."friends" is always, always, always more comfortable for these guys than "romantic relations!!!"

My first impression was he is just being a guy...they are SO narrowminded---can only concentrate on one thing at a time, can not multiask then you factor in the Uranian propensity for the mind going all over the place...it must be hard for them!

(I have often pondered how difficult life must be for the fixed Aqua, ruled by the planet of change!!!)

Anyway, this whole scenario really depends on how well you two know eachother. I really get the feel you "scared" him...not that you meant to, you were just being friendly, flirty, etc.

If you are still interested in him you could try out-Aquarianing him....play his game, give him what he gives you....turn cold, cool, mystical, seem otherworldly (not too hard for the Pisces chick!!!) magical, VERY femanine!!! Make eyecontact then look away, shyly, etc....

I once was attracted to this Aqua doc (I am a nurse) and I flirted with him pretty heavy...he did not respond so I blew him off, but would make eyecontact, then look away, sometimes I would actually stare at him then walk away, never talk to him, etc...So he started coming around to find me...by then I had lost interest...

Men truely are hunters as well...The Aqua will always pursue the pretty little Pisces just to prove his masculinity for this way-femanine sun sign!!!

I am really curious to know his age and his Venus and Mars signs...would be very telling!!!

Blessings

Terri

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posted August 27, 2007 09:57 AM         

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Sham: just sit back and be patient this is just the beigining..I don't need to add to all that was said here bc its ALL true..I have been dealing with an Aqua guy for over 3 years now and he has done all those things to me that hippi explained. at first it drove me insane, but now I know him and his ways and I just look at him like he's crazy..Its true when the adore you, they are the strangest men around, they will try and ignore the crap out of you my Aqua tries it and I ignore him back and trust me it brings him to his knees. Yes deep emotions scare them. When they do not like a girl they are able to be the best friends with them. They are mental guys and well I always say they can fall for you two ways intellectually or emotionally and well if they fall for you emotionally its gonna scare them. They like the friendly feeling and if there feelings go past that friendly thing they don't know how to deal with it. I had to recently give my Aqua some space and well the way he lets me know that he still loves me is by not being able to be my friend us just being cool with out romance, bc they are friendship ppl and they usually can remain friends with their ex's or whatever. And inspite of their flightyness they know after some time what a lady is to them bc they can't get her out of their system ask me how I know..Just sit back and watch...

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