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Topic: Aquarius/Pisces - would that work?
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shamrock227
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From: Is a Pisces ever really anywhere?
Registered: Oct 2002
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posted August 15, 2007 05:09 PM
 
I am a Pisces (Feb 27th) and I have met a wonderful, sweet, warm, funny guy who I just found out is an Aquarius - Jan 31st. Now, funny enough, that is the day after my Mom's birthday (Jan 30th). My Mom and I go from being Bestest Friends to me wanting to choke her (and everything in between) but, the majority of the time more towards the positive.
The only other Aquarius I know is a coworker and she is also Jan 31st and I want to choke her much of the time - funny enough she is the polar opposite of what Mr. Wonderful seems to be.I've read the relevant chapter in Love Signs, but it's kind of vague to me. What do you lovely Knowflakes think? Go for it or jump out of the water before the turbulence starts? (Of course, this may all be a moot point. He's a little hard to get a read off of -- I'm not even sure if he is interested in me.) IP: Logged |
Mama Mia
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posted August 15, 2007 05:30 PM
More then likely he is interested, they are smitten with Pisces women, if he acts strange and weird he's interested. Though they are like that all the time mostly, but something will let you know. Friends first, be his friend get him comfortable, Us Pisces also have to be comfortable so it should be ok. WE have the edge bc we can read these guys pretty good. There is some gray areas sometimes but they have a hard time hiding their feelings with us, it tends to just ooze out of them when dealing with Pisces women..Maybe I am just speaking from my end, but you may see..Goodluck.. IP: Logged |
shamrock227
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posted August 15, 2007 06:39 PM
Thanks for that  Yeah, most definitely strange and weird. But not in a bad way - in an endearing way. (Although apparently only to me - my Taurus friend asked me "WTF is with him?" when we were in the Ladies' Room  So, you have been very reassuring. I just didn't want to flirt with a guy that wasn't interested and make him all uncomfortable (and quite frankly at 38 I don't need to waste my time with someone who's not interested - or a relationship that would be doomed from the get-go. (I don't care how cute a Leo or Sag is -- back away buster!  ) And, I don't want to scare him off, because if he's not interested in me romantically we'd still be awesome friends - we could take over the world! BWAHAHA! *ahem* So, I guess, next Friday I will get all cuted up and wiggle my fishy tail and see if I get a bite quote:
Maybe I am just speaking from my end, but you may see..
That's what makes him so gosh darn frustrating. I can read anyone. I don't care what front you are putting on, I know what's in your head and your heart. But, I cannot get anything off of him - well, nothing I trust, anyway. But maybe that's just because I am trying to work out what he thinks of me - that's always harder.IP: Logged |
GeminiLover75
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posted August 16, 2007 01:11 AM
My grandparents were Aquarius and Pisces, although my grandad was the Pisces and my grandmother the Aquarius (she always said she was on the cusp, but I ran a chart recently and she was 29 degrees Aquarius - technically I think that's almost the cusp, but not the cusp itself... 0 degrees is the cusp I think)... anyway they were married from their 20's I believe, until they both died.  They had their ups and downs, but during 60 years together, who wouldn't? IP: Logged |
Mama Mia
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posted August 16, 2007 05:23 PM
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That's what makes him so gosh darn frustrating. I can read anyone. I don't care what front you are putting on, I know what's in your head and your heart. But, I cannot get anything off of him - well, nothing I trust, anyway. But maybe that's just because I am trying to work out what he thinks of me - that's always harder.Well you first have to learn things about the Aqua man then your intutive thinking can kick in. I was clueless at first and use to think this guy does not like me at all, but as time went on and that pyschic lick between us got stronger all the things that he could not say to me I felt from his heart. Its weird I know but its real, and if you pay attention and listen to your gut you will see..
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hippichick
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From: The Ether
Registered: Jan 2006
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posted August 20, 2007 05:49 PM
 My eldest daughter (Aries sun) awhile ago told me to turn on the TV...the local Mexican channel (I live in San Antonio, a multi-cultural diverse community) that there was a "zodiac" program on... So, I tuned into the channel, curious... All be darned, if there was not a Piscis (Pisces) male and an Aquario (Aquarius) female on this (obviously) love show going head to head about things I could only decipher intermittantly...as I speak a little Spanish.. LOL!!! Love is universal as is the Pisces/Aqua relations...as is... the Zodiac... T~~~ IP: Logged |
miss_muffet
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posted August 21, 2007 07:39 AM
Hi shamrock,How did the story go? you guys going out yet? MM IP: Logged |
cancerrg
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posted August 21, 2007 12:11 PM
From my experience , pisces -among the water sign is the only sign that is matrimonally(if thats a word) copmpatible with air people especially aqua and libra . and i see this more in the case of pisces woman , there is lot in thier inherent nature that attracts them( i am skipping the nature explantion part)
and i dont see any problem in the relation .ofcourse , for a water sign( with all thier emotions on the sleeve ) to handle an aqua is tough but i feel pisces woman do handle it and they are the only one who bind an aqua .
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alma_pisces
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posted August 21, 2007 12:28 PM
I dated an Aqua for about three years and honestly it was amazing! In my expierence. We are still really good friends and we tell each other everything. I think Pisces girls understand Aqua's more than anybody else, and we enjoy there wierdness I guess you could say. Pisces and Aqua can talk for hours about the wierdest things and make it a fun conversation. With my ex- aqua we came to every conclusion about everything under the sun together. I think you two can learn alot about each other. IP: Logged |
shamrock227
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From: Is a Pisces ever really anywhere?
Registered: Oct 2002
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posted August 22, 2007 11:23 AM
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How did the story go? you guys going out yet?
Not yet. This Friday evening. There is a party and we will both be there. You all are giving me hope. When I first met (at a different party) we talked most of the evening. I felt a real spark. But, then later I found out he was an Aqua and it made me worried that maybe I was just setting myself up for disappointment. But, maybe not, from the sounds of it So, Friday, I'm going to put on one of my most feminine, flirty, pretty tops and the jeans that fit me *just right* and I am going to go for it. I know I have a brain that can keep an Aqua interested - I just have to suck it up and get past the shyness to let *him* see that. Wish me luck my Knowflakes IP: Logged |
cancerrg
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posted August 23, 2007 09:05 AM
best of luck! IP: Logged |
miss_muffet
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posted August 23, 2007 07:07 PM
Good luck!IP: Logged |
shamrock227
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posted August 25, 2007 12:44 AM
I looked terrific. The jerk ignored me. His loss. I'm done. No more energy to him.
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hippichick
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posted August 25, 2007 09:18 AM
ShamSorry it did not go well....but I would be willing to bed that he did not ignore you totally. Aqua men put things under a microscope..study them, including people in their lives. I feel certain you were/are being watched, studied, as a curious creature he can not quite fathome. You interest him, intrigue him, but with all that goes on in their airy, intellectual minds, you are not the only thing of interest in his mind! And if you are seeking effuse verbalizatoins of interest from the get go, forget it. They come off as cold, non feeling, non interested, but they are just the opposite. I have always said they are aliens..they just do not act like "normal" men at times. You have to learn to read their actions, their body language and become very psychic, cause as I said, it is rare for an Aqua man to tell you anything as to his feelings toward you. It is a very long dance with the Aqua man, but quite refreshing because when they love they love unconditionally and freely!!! I am a Pisces female, too, with a HUGE Aqua influence in my birth chart, so I attract Aquas, men and women like flies to s%^t!!! I know the Aqua man through and through... They will always love Pisces women because they love "witches." And the Pisces woman with her mystique, femaninity will drive the Aqua man insane for eternity----just the way it is! IP: Logged |
hippichick
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posted August 25, 2007 09:21 AM
O, and his eyes will give him away....always.Aquas tend to have a problem with telling the truth, but their eyes never lie, ever! IP: Logged |
hippichick
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posted August 25, 2007 10:13 AM
I just had to do this...A moment inside the male Aqua mind.... "Wow, she looks HOT...(eyes divert momentarily away) what is that on the TV? O, I see a recount of Apollo 13 mission, you know those astronauts....look at those legs...I have to go tomorrow and pay my taxes, (someone changes the channel) hmmm Rosewell...do you (hot lady) believe in aliens??? What is in this drink...it is not settling with me..(goes to the bar for another, someone at the bar mentions something about Roswell and Aqua man stops to chat for a bit.) (allthewhile chatting...) my taxes are really too high, I must consult my CPA in the morning, but he is going hunting so I will have to call tonight....I wonder how that new 410 gauge shotgun will do with dove hunting...yea I think that debri they found in the desert was from an alien ship! (hot chick wanders up, getting ****** off) o, yea, she looks SO hot, wonder what she looks like underneath those clothes....wonder how much she paid for them...probably not as much as my taxes!!! (meanwhile the new founded bar friend is getting drunk and starts to ramble on about Roswell,,,the hot chick is really pissd off by now, so Aqua man seeing the hot chic's dismay and the drunk's interest in Aqua things resumes conversation with the drunk....allthewhile pondering why she is SO ****** off! Still thiking she is hot, but not in the mood tonight or ever for emotions!!!) In reality it is far worse than this....my little example was about 60 seconds in the Aqua mind..... IP: Logged |
annaf
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posted August 25, 2007 11:31 AM
LOL, Hippichick, this is so funny and sadly, you are probably dead on!!! Sham, although I’m no aqua men expert and also struggle with one at the moment, I would completely agree with Hippichick. I’m convinced they do not tick like other men and therefore you cant judge them by normal standards. With ‘normal’ men I would also say, well bad sign, he’s ignoring you, he’s probably not interested…with aqua men, well I really don’t think it works that way. Did you have no contact at all at the party, or how did he look at you when he first saw you? Did his eyes go all soft, did he treat you in any way different than the other women? I’m just asking because at the last two parties i had a very similar experience with ‘my’ aqua…..first party – he shows up, says hello to me unbelievably nervously with trembling voice, eyes all soft-soft…..and then proceeds to ignore me all evening! Second party happens following a disastrous coffee after which I hadn’t contacted him again, but he reaches out and invites me to his party….when I’m vague in my response to the invitation, he actually asks me to come specifically, emphasizing how he would really like to see me again….ok, so any sane human being would think you are welcome at the party. But when I show up, he greets me nervsouly again, with a warm, loving look in his eyes….but then proceeds to ignore me all evening, ONCE AGAIN. Only when I get up to leave 4 hours later, I suddenly get the drunken special treatment, accompanying me all the way down to the exit and giving me a big hug. So I’m just wondering Sham whether you can tell any ‘nuances’ in his ignoring you last night?
Hippichick, you really do seem to know them inside out, I would just be curious whether they get this distracted and ignore the woman only when they are half-heartedly interested or do you think they act the same way even when their emotions are already involved?
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hippichick
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posted August 25, 2007 01:47 PM
annaf~~~----you really do seem to know them inside out, I would just be curious whether they get this distracted and ignore the woman only when they are half-heartedly interested or do you think they act the same way even when their emotions are already involved?--- Good question!!! From my experience and many interactions and discussions with my current "soul mate" An "older" Aqua male here is my response.... If they are not interested in a woman for "romantic" reasons, you will experience the political correctness and friendliness of the Aqua....Drives women crazy...they can be SO friendly, so courteous, so correct upon brief, passing interactions, but if they "like" you are even remotely interested in a you as a woman, the picture changes... Enters the aloof Aqua guy....He is still friendly, conversative, etc. however when even the smallest of emotions arises in him...when he looks at a woman at something more than a friend he rebels (as all good Uranians do) and escapes....He likes what he sees, and it is foreign to him what he feels so he does what he knows to do and runs...away from emotions.... Friendliness, common conversation is comfortable to him...emotions are not and when he feels like he is "falling" look out, duck and find a life of your own because you will not hear from him for awhile.... Liz Greene, one of my fav astro authors even states this...they friggin blow you off when the like you!!!! Ironic?? Yes but so is the planet that rules him!!! Uranus, the planet of ironicity!!! Unexpectedness!!! So, to know if an Aqua guy is into you---if he leaves, if he blows you off, if he vacates himself from your energy/emotional space..then he is into you.... So much for that guy who wrote a book about "He is just not that into you" He should have taken into consideration the Aquarian male...they do just the opposite... Having said that, when the ground is layed, when boundaries are set, wants and needs between the two parties involved, stated, he can behave just like any other man in love...but there will always be that bit of aloofness, that bit of escape.... And as my last statment in this rant...there is NOTHING like an Aqua telling you "I love you...." They will tell you once or twice then it is all in the eyes.....the actions...the body language and the subtle nuances of psychic conectedness..... Blessings Terri God....I SO love those guys!!!!
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annaf
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posted August 25, 2007 02:21 PM
Hippichick, thanks for your feedback. Just double-checking, if I understood you right (English isn’t my first language,)...so he is corteous and friendly when there isn’t any interest?? Because the aqua guy I have been referring to treats me with extreme cordiality….(at the party, but also when I ask him for help in something. He helps immediately, but he is cordial and impersonally friendly on the phone)…so this cordiality paired with the behaviour I have described at the parties rather points to lack of romantic interest? I think I’m just not sure, I completely understand your description of how they act when they are romantically interested...do you mean by ‘blowing off’ that they will not treat you with respect, or start a fight and just not respond to your emails for instance? Sorry, I must sound slow, but the word ‘blowing off’, as a non-English speaker, sounds like some kind of aggressive behaviour.
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hippichick
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posted August 25, 2007 03:08 PM
"blowing off" meang avoiding you, not giving you the time of day...Not necessarially meaning to be mean... In my expeirence an Aqua guy will always be kind, corteous, politically correct, etc, the difference lies when they become romantically interested in you, then they emotionally flee... In otherwords they will always be nice, but when they begin to feel something for you, it scares them and they then become cold and aloof in the face of fear...their emotions... IP: Logged |
annaf
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posted August 25, 2007 03:27 PM
Thanks Hippichick!!! Yes, that meaning makes also sense in my experienc!IP: Logged |
shamrock227
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posted August 25, 2007 08:58 PM
ok. I was trying to save you guys from the boring details, but...Here's how it went. He was out back playing volleyball with some of the guys. The rest of the guys were coming in and out of the bar to get pitchers of beer and food and stuff and stopping to gab with us, but not him - he didn't come in - he had the boys get his beer while they were getting theirs. My friend and I went outside to smoke. He never even looked in our direction. Finally he got up and walked right passed us without a word - we yelled his name and a "Hi". He turned and smiled and said "Hey! Just got to wash up. Went his way and then took another way back to the table where the guys were..... We went back in. When the guys finally came in from the game. They came over and my friend said come here let me introduce the people you don't know. So, I stuck my hand out and said "Hi, I'm Shamrock", and he shook it and laughed and we introduced him to the rest of the people he didn't know. Some of the guys (his friends, BTW) hung around us and we were talking and laughing and generally having a good time......
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shamrock227
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posted August 25, 2007 09:03 PM
He went over and spent almost the entire night talking to someone people WAY over there. I looked in his direction a few times, but never caught him looking at me.The party started to break up (only me, my friend, him, and one of his friends would have been left of our group). As the other people started leaving he went "to the bathroom" but what he did was go all the way to the other end of the bar to talk to some other guy. Ok. I get that he frequents the place and knows a lot of people but come on. It was like I was wearing Aqua repellent. Whenever there was a chance we might interact he disappeared to the opposite end of the room. Finally his friend wanted to leave so my friend and I decided finish up our drinks and go, too (the band was really bad). So we did. I walked out without so much as a look in his direction and my friend threw a wave in his direction (which, now that I think about it, she says he saw her do - which means he must have been looking -- well that might have just been a coincidence).
(this really sounds pathetic - doesn't it? )
Anyway. I could tell nothing from his eyes since he was always too far away from me. And, I don't think he even looked at me. So, I'll live. It's just a disappointment is all.. IP: Logged |
shamrock227
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posted August 25, 2007 11:56 PM
LOL! I was just talking to my friend. And, she had just spoken to someone else that was at the party (one of the girls we work with - and one of the people Aqua guy was talking to most of the night). She said he was asking her so many questions she actually said to him "what the hell? Are you moonlighting as a newspaper reporter or something?"I'm still upset with him, but, I just thought that was funny (and VERY Aquarius of him). IP: Logged |
annaf
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posted August 26, 2007 07:35 AM
Hi Shamrock,I hope Hippichick will give you her point of view because i'm really not that great in seeing through aquas...but I would think to judge whether his party behaviour shows lack of interest or a typical aqua running from his love interest depends a bit on the context. If you dont know him, haven't really interacted or just chatted here and there, well then his behaviour might just show you're only part of the crowd in his opinion and he doesnt have you on his romantic radar.But I think if you've interacted before extensively and there was a connection and not just aqua chatting away as part of his 100st conversation, then his avoidance of you is plain weird and a bit 'suspicious'. And he might indeed be running....Do you know his other placements, for instance his venus and mars sign? I'm just asking, if he has a venus in capricorn, 'avoidance and ignoring really is classic behaviour when dealing with someone you are interested in. I'm not an aqua, but have venus in capricorn aspecting uranus (uranus sitting in my 5th house), mars is also in tight aspect with uranus. Just give you one little example of my behaviour....The first time I was invited to aqua man's party, I was already so in love with him, I could hardly contain myself before the party. I was so excited to see him, I was trembling. Went there with a male friend. Aqua man greets us, starts chatting to my friend and me and I excuse myself and leave them.....go to another room and start talking to complete strangers...I just had to get away, it was too much for me....my friend later on told me that NOTHING of this inner turmoil showed, I seemed casual, cool as a cucumber...so I'm just saying, people are all different and sometimes they act in strange ways, when they really, really like someone. I'm not trying to convince you that your guy MUST like you, but I guess it's not all clear cut, but hopefully Hippichick will give you feedback.In any case, if you know his other placements I would be really interested to know? Because I think it does make a big difference. For instance one aqua man, who was actually chasing ME, turned out to have a saggitt. moon with mars in aries and lots of fire placements, I think with someone so firy it's a completely different story than an aqua man who has his planets mostly in air signs or a capricorn venus. IP: Logged | |
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