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Topic: Predisposed to relationship failure?
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Peri
Moderator Posts: 514
From: 49N35 34E34
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 14, 2009 04:28 PM
 
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I'm just wondering if anyone else out there has ever felt that they may be fundamentally unable to maintain a relationship. By their own doing. *sigh*
yes  another 7H Saturn here love and light to you and your baby, Ghani  IP: Logged |
Orange
Knowflake Posts: 28
From: Georgia
Registered: May 2009
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posted June 15, 2009 11:49 AM
Hi, ghanima. Good luck with the bed rest and the delivery. Wishing for a beautiful girl. Why were you told at 19 that you would never get pregnant?reading yours and other responses, it comes to me once again that much of the problems and the heartaches we experience in our lives are created and brought to us by ourselves. If only we can master the art of not rationalise and over analyse life too much and not take different situations personaly, we could have saved ourselves much grief and blockages. I was reading Robert Shekley recently(a super marvelous science fiction novelist) and in one of his short stories, an extraterrestial being went for a vacation on Earth but left after 2 weeks with the notion that "The Earth is a wonderful place for a vacation but it is not suited for living" and that his host " Mrs. Roberts, spent most of her time frustrated and upset, just like most of the humans" 
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Virgo/Leo Cusp
Knowflake Posts: 3
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 17, 2009 01:28 AM
Yeah I hereI have personally never had a real relationship ( last relationship was 8 years ago and one unrequited love) and I'm about to turn 29 years old.......and well I'm also just going to accept that maybe love isn't for me.......I have learned to be independent, driven, kind and compassinate person...over the years.....but yeah the thought of finding someone, is in the back of mind almost everyday......especially when you see people falling in love, your friends and family have found love ......and then you ask yourself.....why can't I have that too. well I have Chiron in the 5th house, Venus in the 7th house ( which isn't doing anything) since it is Square Pluto.....so it seems I destined to feel alot of pain regarding love... oh well IP: Logged |
jenfullmoon
Knowflake Posts: 1
From: California
Registered: Jun 2009
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posted June 17, 2009 01:03 PM
Oh, I'm definitely doomed. Chiron conjunct sun on descendant, Venus square Saturn. I just got a reading done, well...yup, doomed, I think. It's like I desperately need a partner, but it won't work out.IP: Logged |
aerialcircus
Knowflake Posts: 7
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Registered: May 2009
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posted June 27, 2009 03:30 PM
I definitely feel this way as well. Even if I wasn't into astrology and didn't have all these issues laid out on a chart, I'd know they were there and would still feel this way.I'm kind of a "serial monogamist." I thrive on mental/emotional connection and am pretty ooey/gooey romantic in general, but it always comes down to a power struggle for me. I always inevitably feel held down or misunderstood, like my partner doesn't really "know me." It's really, really difficult for me to imagine a man and a woman being together forever. --- * Sun(Aries) Square Moon(Capricorn) 0°07 * Sun(Aries) Opposition Pluto(Libra) 0°39 * Moon(Capricorn) Square Pluto(Libra) 0°32 * Venus(Pisces) Square Ascendant(Gemini) 0°58 * Neptune & BM-Lilith in the 7th house, both conjunct my Descendant in Sagittarius IP: Logged |
future_uncertain
Knowflake Posts: 46
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Registered: May 2009
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posted June 28, 2009 09:38 AM
Gypsee, I can so relate to this: quote:
The chaos and confusion in my home became the norm, and therefore my comfort zone. If I wasn't hiding under the couch, I was walking on eggshells.
This has served me well in life as to be strong, independant and very well at diserning peoples motives.
But it sucks for love.
Somewhere theres a little girl that thinks she doesn't deserve love, cuz if she couldn't get it from her own family, why would some random person hand it over willingly.
It's only been in the last year or so that I'm not angry over the past anymore, but I've also come to learn that it's never going to go away and there are some things that I'll just never have emotionally. Relationships are so hard. Real ones. Prior to marrying I would move from one long-term relationship to the next, always overlapping. I don't think I've spent more than three months single. How awful is that? My relationships would last for long periods of time, and I've never had a one-night fling, but still, it wasn't any more healthy in the long run. Right now my husband and I have been together for 5 years, married for 2. And I still don't know what the future holds. I felt that way throughout our entire relationship, and yet we're still here, trying to figure out what it's all about. I could easily walk away and move on. It's my nature. During the course of our relationship, though, I've learned a thing or two about commitment and it's still a rather large pill to swallow. When I say it would be easy to walk away, I mean because it's easy for me to break ties in general. I don't think I would find anyone I couldn't walk away from. Do you think a predisposition for relationship failure is in any way linked with a disregard for traditional marital roles? IP: Logged | |
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