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NAM
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From: Sunny place.
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posted November 29, 2007 06:33 PM
 
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum10/HTML/002994.html Thank you for going to that link! IP: Logged |
Mannu
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posted November 29, 2007 06:57 PM
Its unfair for the other person you are having sex with unless he is ok with it. But who does not need complete undivided attention? I do. Are you gemini or saggi?
3 way is completely different thing.
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NAM
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From: Sunny place.
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posted November 29, 2007 07:20 PM
Hey sweetie, I was really waiting for your answer... I am glad you decided to play!I am a Cancer.I do have a sag rising... you? And I have done this when I was married, I understand now that it was just the beginning of the end.The only way I could get through the deed...but I was interested to know what others thought.
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zanya
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posted November 29, 2007 08:16 PM
LL sex discussion that Nam might find informative. Sex Magick IP: Logged |
NAM
Knowflake Posts: 1756
From: Sunny place.
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posted November 29, 2007 08:26 PM
I'll read that, but this remains me, I bought a book on this, it is called "Modern Sex Magick" Secrets of erotic spirituality.
But I haven't read it out of fear... (i know probably stupid) but I am scare of getting the thought of pure sex dirty by trying anything to attract this to me...
yeah, I am a dreamer I still think love should just happen and sex comes with it.
I am not even sure if the book is about that, as I said, I haven't even been able to open it. LOLNow, if you would know how many things I tried with my ex husband you would know that this is really weird coming from me.
Scare me????? wow, I can't even beleive it. IP: Logged |
26taurus
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posted November 29, 2007 08:33 PM
Or you could find a website/forum you can join where sex topics are the focus might be of greater help.Why is it important for you to get into other people's heads, especially so intimately? Will that make you change? Should it? Is that what you are looking for; to get help to change your thoughts? I'm just curious. You may want to spend some more time finding out the answers to your own questions. Just a suggestion. Unless you already have your answers and are just being curious or nosey. Why did you have to post the link to your thread in so many forums? You give off an air of detatchment and dont seem to be to conflicted in your question, so it makes me wonder. Are you just bored with the topics here? Not racy enough? quote:
The only way I could get through the deed...
Get through the deed...Interesting. quote:
but I was interested to know what others thought.
Why? You seem to be okay with what you are doing. So why do you care? Really. IP: Logged |
NAM
Knowflake Posts: 1756
From: Sunny place.
Registered: Jan 2007
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posted November 29, 2007 08:43 PM
ok, gosh I am so sorry, but when I find people that have it so together with their beleifs and the way they know themselves then questions just pop in my head so I want to know what/how they feel about it.I have a marriage that failed and I feel this is probably one of the reasons why I am always trying to figure out what happened so I won't do it again.
I also think the family as a unity is extremely important to keep for a healthy society, but not every one thinks the same way, I am usually meeting people that think: this is my wife/husband my family and on this other hand is my lover/party/escape etc from this other world. Now, you guys in here are constantly looking for truths of who we are and what to beleive in, don't you think sex is a big (HUGE) part of it?
Just saying...
Edit: typos!
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26taurus
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posted November 29, 2007 08:54 PM
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ok, gosh I am so sorry, but when I find people that have it so together with their beleifs and the way they know themselves then questions just pop in my head so i want to know what/how they feel about it.
Dont be sorry! The people you percieve as having it together probably did a lot of inner work to "get there". Again, I wonder why it really matters how "they feel about it"? You mentioned the way these people "know themselves"...if you admire that in them, why not try to take after them in that way? I dont think they got there by asking everyone and their brother how they felt about this and that.
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Now, you guys in here are constantly looking for truths of who we aree and what to beleive in, don;t you think sex is a big HUGE part of it?
To be quite honest, I am not here looking for Truths. Or for people to agree on what to believe in. No, I dont think "sex is a big HUGE part of it". 
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26taurus
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posted November 29, 2007 09:02 PM
You might like Osho's book Sex Matters or IntimacyIve only flipped through them but liked what i read. IP: Logged |
NAM
Knowflake Posts: 1756
From: Sunny place.
Registered: Jan 2007
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posted November 29, 2007 09:12 PM
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To be quite honest, I am not here looking for Truths. Or for people to agree on what to believe in.No, I dont think "sex is a big HUGE part of it".
HAHA, then maybe I am just going through a face of my life similar to a midlife crisis.(funny) Things and issues I find intriguing today were not so much 10 years ago, I must admit.
10 years ago I had it all, nice house, husband, great job, kids, lots and lots of toys.
Today my life is different, nice house, no husband, great kids, hardly any toys...I am ok with that; but I guess I am not ok with going from point A to point B. And I would like one day to be able to tell my kids what to do and what not to do even know people say it is up to "us" (them) to figure it out, I think a bit of wisdom is always welcome to anyone.
But I have to find that wisdom first.
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26taurus
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posted November 29, 2007 09:17 PM
Many of us are going through "hard times" these days, each in our own different ways.Wishing you peace and clarity, NAM.  You are seeking, so you will find.
May Your own answers come swiftly. IP: Logged |
NAM
Knowflake Posts: 1756
From: Sunny place.
Registered: Jan 2007
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posted November 29, 2007 09:24 PM
Thank you.
So, I'll read the other thread that got closed ( I can't imagine why  )
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Mannu
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posted November 29, 2007 11:04 PM
NAM, I am cancer too but late.
I am sure you are early cancer. Most of earthlings do not have fulfilled life because they don't make love like animals Become insensitive having lots of sex first , watch lots of porns, and then drop those things There will come a time when we evolve that everything we thought we knew about sex will be an understatement. Our relationships , desires, everything will be very different than a normal earthling. Just saying won't help does it? When you will evolve you will remember those words.
Until then just discover yourself without any ones dogmas. The truth is really one.
But unless you discover it you can't drop that truth.
Cheers!!!
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Azalaksh
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From: New Brighton, MN, USA
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posted November 30, 2007 02:02 PM
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I love to hear from Zala.
Why me, Nelly?? I'm no Sexpert or psychologist.....
I am curious why you titled your thread “When we have sex….. I think of someone else” and then in one of the other strings you wrote: quote:
NAM
Knowflake
Posts: 1710
From: Sunny place.
Registered: Jan 2007
posted November 30, 2007 09:26 AM
. . . . .
It hasn't happened to me, not that way, but I know of someone and that was part why I asked the question.
I pretty much agree with Pid (in the SU string). In my long-term partnerships I don’t recall fantasizing about another man while making love to my partner. Besides, I’m from the “Be Here Now” generation – and I think it’s important to be fully present for and with my partner. I don’t begrudge anyone else their indulgence in “animal instinct” as tidalwave put it, but I’m past that at this point in my life. I fully satisfied my needs for physical passion without emotional commitment (or even involvement), and for the thrill of the conquest, when I was in my 20’s. Fantasy doesn’t heighten my pleasure – only the Feeling of Total Merging on all levels, and the non-verbal communication of touch and the rest of the senses, does it for me now. I don’t want just another body – if I can’t be with a partner who fulfills my need for emotional (not just physical) closeness, then I’ll take care of myself I can understand the “need” for fantasy if it’s “just another body” and the other realms of intimacy are missing. Your friend who’s “gone thru 500+ women looking for the satisfaction he found only in his ex” comes to mind…..As for Magi, I have Juno conjunct Eros in Leo, quincunx Chiron….. rrrroooowwwwrrrr  IP: Logged |
NAM
Knowflake Posts: 1756
From: Sunny place.
Registered: Jan 2007
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posted November 30, 2007 03:16 PM
Ok, let's see, why and when I write my topic titles might be or might not be from personal experience.
Usually my topic titles are just an opening line.Edit:delete the rest IP: Logged |
NAM
Knowflake Posts: 1756
From: Sunny place.
Registered: Jan 2007
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posted November 30, 2007 03:19 PM
Zala, do you know what is my Juno doing?Nobody has ever said anything to me about Juno/Eros or anything related to sexuality. IP: Logged |
NAM
Knowflake Posts: 1756
From: Sunny place.
Registered: Jan 2007
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posted November 30, 2007 03:24 PM
quote:
There will come a time when we evolve that everything we thought we knew about sex will be an understatement. Our relationships , desires, everything will be very different than a normal earthling.Just saying won't help does it? When you will evolve you will remember those words.
Until then just discover yourself without any ones dogmas. The truth is really one.
But unless you discover it you can't drop that truth.
Tell me more , I want to know it all!
BTW, I am June 22
You?
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Azalaksh
Moderator Posts: 5646
From: New Brighton, MN, USA
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posted November 30, 2007 08:50 PM
Nelly ~ quote:
Tell me more, I want to know it all!
I'm not sure that "knowing it all" is possible for any *one* human being.....btw, your Eros is at 05Can44 and your Juno is at 29Can10.....
There are tons of strings at LL on both of those asteroids. Here's just one on Juno:
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NAM
Knowflake Posts: 1756
From: Sunny place.
Registered: Jan 2007
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posted November 30, 2007 09:39 PM
Must everything I have be in Cancer (pretty much) I'll read that later when the kids are in bed. And yes, I saw that earlier when I pulled my chart I was hoping for a meaning Thank you anyway! IP: Logged |
MUSTANG
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posted December 02, 2007 02:22 AM
Why did you find it neccesary to start yet another thread directing people to your other thread? Do you have these posts in every forum on this site?I mean, really, I'm starting to think you're not serious at all, but just looking for attention and trying to stir things up. I feel I wasted my time in your other thread....serious time and thought that I'd given, too. You owe me and everyone else who took the time and effort to post in that an apology.
A total turn-off...thumbs down...
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Sun Aqua, Moon Sagg, Asc Taurus IP: Logged |
NAM
Knowflake Posts: 1756
From: Sunny place.
Registered: Jan 2007
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posted December 02, 2007 08:02 AM
I only directed people in here, how else are you going to direct people to a forum that doesn't get the traffic that others do?I am just playing by the rules Mustang, I made a post, and put a link to the right forum...what is so strange about that, many people do this when they want to get the attention they are looking for the question they are asking (for the topic not themselves)
Do you go to other forums besides this one? I thought that was appropiate of it.
I am sorry you feel is a bad thing but I am asking you to think again since now you know why I did this. IP: Logged |
MUSTANG
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posted December 04, 2007 12:00 PM
This is in the same forum as the actual thread. Then, you have one in the astro section, in addition to the actual thread.
It's kind of annoying and "trollish," but whatever...
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NAM
Knowflake Posts: 1756
From: Sunny place.
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posted December 04, 2007 07:47 PM
This was originally at Universal codes.
It was transfered here IP: Logged |
MUSTANG
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posted December 05, 2007 11:43 AM
Oh...well that makes sense. I thought you posted them both here. I found that irritating. Now I know otherwise...Sorry IP: Logged |
NAM
Knowflake Posts: 1756
From: Sunny place.
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posted December 06, 2007 08:44 AM
Nope... that's ok. As I said the point was to create some traffic over here... I am sorry ,patience is not one of my attributes.  IP: Logged |
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