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Topic: I know Aqua's are odd, but help! Aqua female vs Virgo female roomate
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bunnies Knowflake Posts: 78 From: U.K Registered: Mar 2007
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posted February 06, 2008 06:18 PM
Aquarius 4. How strange. I have just remembered an incident wherein my Virgo attacked me with a handbag (my own) I remember we were also in a car albeit stationary having one of our everlasting arguments when in frustration he grabbed my handbag and started hitting me with it.It was the only time he ever got physical and I have to say the sight of a large rugby player swatting me with my own handbag reduced me to hysterical laughter. But remember children. Violence is never the answer. Just keep clear of handbag toting Virgos...of either sex! IP: Logged |
virgoleorising Knowflake Posts: 44 From: coon rapids, minnesota, usa Registered: Jan 2008
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posted February 07, 2008 09:14 PM
i'm a virgo married to a double aqua man and i adore him, yes he frustrates me to no end but i need that or i became too introverted. he is work, but life is never boring. we are not so different him and iwe just come to the same conclusions just at different times. i think virgos and aquas should spend time alone thats when the relationship shows its positives...down time is best for them seperate themselves from the masses and you will see what makes this combo unforgetable. IP: Logged |
aquarius4 Knowflake Posts: 91 From: U.S. Registered: Jul 2007
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posted February 08, 2008 08:28 AM
Bunnies - you post just made me laugh out loud! virgoleo - yea i can see that, they are both signs that (sun sign generally speaking) need their down time and space sometimes. i think it can be a great combination although i admit virgo men do scare me a little bit with all i've read - i would never let that get in the way if one came around. i think they can be a great team with lots of space, balance and really taking the time to understand each other. IP: Logged |
virgoleorising Knowflake Posts: 44 From: coon rapids, minnesota, usa Registered: Jan 2008
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posted February 08, 2008 04:49 PM
thanks for responding aqua4...i love aquarius' they fascinate me the way their minds work, so quick witted and i love the word play between my husband and i. think virgos and aquas just need to take some time and paitence (not a virtue neither sign has) and they will find out that they can't live without one another...they do tend to create as linda goodman said in love signs a shangri la, just as long you do take periods of reprieve from one another, both high strung nervous sorts (virgo ruler of nervous system and uranus the planet of lightning and Aquarius)NEED to seperate for a time, and if you do that it is a fantastic relationship. IP: Logged |
Lana29865 Knowflake Posts: 153 From: Registered: Mar 2007
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posted February 09, 2008 03:30 AM
virgoleorising, you put it so well, also in that other thread.I am also VirgoSun/LeoASC, and my man is AquaSun/AquaASC. IP: Logged |
virgoleorising Knowflake Posts: 44 From: coon rapids, minnesota, usa Registered: Jan 2008
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posted February 09, 2008 04:59 PM
where u from lana would love to exchange stories please write back. thnak u for the comment... it takes alot of work for us but we do love fixer uppers and a challenge don't we and why not get us a uranus ruled water bearer huh? keep replying love the stories and topics.IP: Logged |
Soulflower_13 Knowflake Posts: 21 From: Grand Rapids, MI USA Registered: Oct 2007
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posted March 24, 2008 12:49 AM
I know this topic is old, but I thought I'd update on this crazy situation. Things were going fine until she became passive aggressive and mean. Being the pacifist (usually) I am, I gave her some space and only spoke when I was spoken too. When I finally asked her what was wrong, she told me in a very "matter of fact" tone that she was giving me "a taste of my own medicine" She went on to say that myself and our other roommate treat her poorly. Then she tried to make it better by saying that it wasnt really how I treat her, just the other girl we live with. I felt horrible for a few days (thinking I had really wronged her) until I realized that it was childish and shady of her to do this. I've always been upfront about how I felt and tried my hardest to salvage our friendship. I was really hurt by it. A word of advice for anyone dealing with Aqua's, if they feel wronged, you should run for the hills. Because my darkside came out and I dont think I've ever felt so malicious and angry at one person. Basically, we dont speak. I do everything in my power not to smack her, and she stays out of my way. Thankfully, we all move in 2 months, and I most likely will never have to see her again. Until then, I'm holding my tongue.
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bunnies Knowflake Posts: 78 From: U.K Registered: Mar 2007
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posted March 24, 2008 01:32 PM
Oh Soul. As a fella Aqua I beg you not to hold your tongue for 2 months. We are too wired! If I am unable to express myself I get weird ailments like sore throats and tooth abcesses all things connected with the mouth. So does my Aqua daughter. We are not good at holding things in and if we can't airily float out of the situation we just....implode. I think you need to pin her down and not let her back up till she apologises....I mean agrees to have it out and clear the air!! We are rational human beings. Keep beating her till morale is restored!IP: Logged |