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SacredSister
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From: Lethbridge, Alberta, Canada
Registered: Feb 2007

posted January 27, 2008 02:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SacredSister     Edit/Delete Message
Greeting everyone! Firstly I would like to say that you are all amazing souls! I have felt many warm feelings and found very helpful words from everyone. It is very comforting to find so many like-minded people. So thank you to all, for everything you have done.

And now on to my inquiry. For some time now, I have been feeling a growing urgency to find "that special someone" someone to make a life with. And though there are many potential suitors, due to the magnetic personality which is the curse/gift us lunar maids have, none of them have seemed quite right...until now. Unfortunately there are two...and I can't decide which one would be "better" for me. Mike is a virgo, which I know astrologically is better suited to my personality. Rob is a leo, which I know will be a harder relationship to endure. I have weighed the pros and cons and neither come out on top. So I'm asking for your thoughts and feelings on this issue. Should I be with one of these men? Or is there someone else out there for me that I should wait for?

On another note, I have an experience I would like to share and also get your thoughts on. It was 6 years ago that I was first introduced to Sylvia Browne, though not personally. Now say what you will about her but I have a great respect for Sylvia. I found her books to be a great comfort through a rough time. Not only did her books save my life but opened a whole nother world to me. But thats another story. So in the first book of hers that I read (I believe it was "Blessings from Beyond" or something of the like) was a meditation to travel to a past life. After crossing over a bridge you're supposed to enter the place where you lived, and see all the people you knew. When I got there, there was no buildings around, and no open arms to greet me. I didn't even get a sense of familiarity. But I also knew this was not a place of harm, nor was it "just my imagination" as some people have said. After six years, I can still see the beauty so vividly and often travel there to escape the craziness around me. I cannot describe to you what I saw. Only that if you imagine your absolute paradise, then mutliply that by 100, you'd be getting close to what I saw and felt. Anywho, while you're there, you hear (or see) the name of the place. What I got was Europa. At that time the name meant nothing to me and it wasn't till years later that I found out that's the name of one of Jupiters moons (one that may possibly harbour life). Then when you are leaving, and walking back over the bridge you're supposed to look over into the water and see yourself as you were then. But when I looked into the water I only saw a hooded figure...no face. So what are your thoughts...a possible look into the future or past? What do you get when you think of Europa?

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Aphrodite
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posted January 27, 2008 02:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aphrodite     Edit/Delete Message
My pragmatic advice is for you to not assume that either Mike or Rob is a "slam dunk" suitor as you choose. It's best to find out if they are dating multiple people too, just as you are, and see where they are at.

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yourfriendinspirit
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posted January 27, 2008 02:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for yourfriendinspirit     Edit/Delete Message
SacredSister, Hello and to Linda Land! I'm very pleased you found us.

As for your first question...
Not enough information has been supplied to be really of any assistance as per compatability. Ei; birthdates, times, places, etc. (or) even history with each.

As for your 2nd question....

While I do clearly believe in previous lives... I don't personally feel that anyone currently inhabiting this earth previously lived on Europa. I think that the spiritual exercise that you did was indeed pleasant. A astral travel experience maybe even? (not enough info to say one way or another)
Yes, in a spiritual sense there really is no past present or future. They each innertwine delightfully. Only your physical sense is constrained by time factors, LOL!

While I myself feel very connected to Jupiter (Sagi Sun n' all...) I do not really have any particular affinity or emotional attachments or even insights to it's moons just now...
I apologize if this response has been unfruitful but hey, I am just offering my personal perspective here, LOL!

I wish you luck with answering these inner questions of yours...


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SacredSister
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From: Lethbridge, Alberta, Canada
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posted January 27, 2008 04:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SacredSister     Edit/Delete Message
Thank you Aphrodite. I realize there is far more to the situation than what I explained. And I think I answered my own question there. If I'm still willing to wait for something better, then they're probably not right for me. Yet there's still something that keeps me around them.

And thank you Yourfriendinspirit. Now I see that I missed the whole point of the last paragraph I wrote. I meant to put in there somewhere that I've always known that the meditation went wonky somewhere. I know that I didn't go into a past life of mine. As for the men, I don't know birth dates or times or location for either unfortunately. And for history, I haven't known them for long (6 months give or take). But I still feel strongly for both.

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yourfriendinspirit
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posted January 27, 2008 05:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for yourfriendinspirit     Edit/Delete Message
Regarding these two guys:
OK, hypothetically speaking...

BASED SOLELY ON SUN SIGNS:

If you are looking for a sincere, kind, methodical, best friend type, totally faithful, practical, very handy, explorative, goofy, and socially acceptable relationship. (Mike is the choice)

If you are looking for a spiritual adventurer, nourishing, original thinker, warmhearted, romantic, fantasy oriented, crusader, etc. (Rob is the choice)

Both will display pride in amounts likely to make you cringe. For one it will be based on ego and for the other insecurity.

If your family has any say they are likely to choose Mike.

If you follow your La'La' factor you are likely to choose Rob.

Neither is likely to dance, both with likely allow you space... At least enough to hang yourself with, LOL! Both will require 100% faithfulness, though only one will likely return the favor.

Um... What sign are you?
And... what is the age group we are working with here?
Ei: late teens, early/mid/late 20's, 30's, 40's, etc.

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SacredSister
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posted February 02, 2008 02:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SacredSister     Edit/Delete Message
Thank you yourfriendinspirit! I myself am cancer, and am probably the most typical cancer you'll meet lol. Rob and I are in our early twenties, and Mike is 30. So which one is likely to remain faithfull to me?

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yourfriendinspirit
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posted February 02, 2008 02:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for yourfriendinspirit     Edit/Delete Message
Again, based solely on Sun Sign compatibility (not taking anyone's house positions, aspects, or other planets into consideration...) I would say Mike is the safe choice in this respect.

Has Mike been married before?

This is the only thing that may cause a reconsideration of the before said, LOL!

If he has...

Most specifically, if there are children involved... this could be the deal breaker.
He will feel a very strong desire to do what is right in his eyes... even if this means his unhappiness.

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SacredSister
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posted February 03, 2008 11:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SacredSister     Edit/Delete Message
No Mike has never been married, but they both have children. Rob's girl is 1 and a half and Mike's girl is 5.

The thing that bugs me is that Mike has no understanding or belief in all of the paranormal, supernatural or psychic things that are a very large part of my life and me. It's not that he's never experienced it so doesn't understand, he just refuses to acknowledge that it may exist. Whereas Rob and his mother are not only very much into that, but also have some very strong psychic talents.

Another thing is that Mike reminds me of my father very much, which is not a good thing.

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SacredSister
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posted February 04, 2008 01:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SacredSister     Edit/Delete Message
So I have found out birthdays for these guys. Mike is 09/19/1978 and Rob is 08/25/1983. Sorry I was not able to get times or locations. Oh and I am 07/07/1988.

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GypsyDancer1221
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posted February 04, 2008 10:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GypsyDancer1221     Edit/Delete Message
Wow, that's an incredibly interesting vision of having been on Europa. My guess is that it's the future, unless you were not alive as a human; when you tap into the akashic records you can see the future, too, so that's what I would guess. I'm not sure, though...

About the Leo vs. Virgo, Leo is the teenager of the zodiac, also they're very dramatic. This means life would never be boring, but you would have to deal with all the leonine drama in your life. Since you're the mother of the zodiac (like me! ^_^) you would probably be good at taking care of him, but since he's a teen and you're a mum, if you're ever too confining and smother him, he may rebel and grow to resent the amount of attention you give him. (Not sure, just going off of astrological and other stereotypes; I'd have to see their entire charts to tell you a personalized compatibility.) Virgos, however, would be less likely to rebel, but they can grow monotonous and be too obsessive compulsive/perfectionist. There's also the possibility that Virgos can be very manipulating, but not always. If you give us their birth info I'm sure we could give you more insight, but if you want adventure, I'd take Leo; if you want stability, I'd go for Virgo. Hope that this helped. ^_^ Take care!

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