posted March 04, 2008 01:46 PM         

You need to either give your full birth information (Full date, exact time, exact location) or post your chart. That's how real astrology works. Then people here will step up and try to help you.

posted March 04, 2008 11:31 PM         

This chart is too small and also, it needs to be a chart that is easier to read. That means it needs to include the degree numbers of each planet and each house, etc.

I don't know how to post the charts well here either, I never had the time to read through and learn it. If you just type out the information I can create my own chart and tell you what it says, or maybe one of the moderators here will be able to help you post the chart, but you are already anonymous so I'm pushing for you to just type out the birth data, you'll get your answer quicker.

It's up to you, please don't feel pressured.

Geocosmic Valentine

posted March 04, 2008 11:53 PM         

It tells you to click on the chart for a print version and I think you can right click on the image and do a "save as" to save it to your computer as a picture. Then you open an account at photobucket.com and upload the picture of the chart from your computer folder. Then photobucket has the code listed below the picture of your chart so you can just cut and paste the code (which will start and end with the three letters img for image) to your post here at LindaLand.

That takes forever, but if you don't want to share your birthdata with everyone at LL that is the way to do it. Geo also does private consultations as her business, so you are actually getting a nice free sample if you choose to go to the trouble to post your chart here.

posted March 05, 2008 07:33 AM         

If anyone wants to peek at my transits, I too would like an answer to this question...
I am 10/10/71, 9.45pm, Auckland, NZ - Thanx

posted March 05, 2008 09:53 PM         

If anyone cares to look at my chart i was born April 28th 1985 at 5:15am.

After a 6 yr relationship with a cancer (June 26th, 1985) I fell in love with his friend- a libra (october 9, 1986).

I don't know what to do. On the one hand i can see a future with the cancer and am comfortable and feel loved by him. On the other, the libra does something to me... i feel understood and as if i can breathe with him.

I don't know what you pros can tell me using my birthday and charts... but if you could tell me anything i would appreciate the guidance.

I wonder if the libra is worth complicating friendships...etc for. I wonder if he is a soulmate or just has some special aspect with me. Or is the cancer meant to be the one i build a life with?

posted March 05, 2008 10:17 PM         

Just from what you posted already in the other thread, your situation is unclear to me so here a few questions.

1. Are you still in a relationship with the original boyfriend in this situation?

2. If not, have you had a conversation with the Libra that makes it clear what you both want to do.

I ask question number because I understand it's difficult to start a relationship with the friend of an ex-boyfriend. But you have to know that IT HAPPENS A LOT. Life is NOT PERFECT OR FAIR, IT'S MESSY. If you both think it's a relationship worth persuing, if you both really love each other in a mature way, then both of you should act like grown ups and be true to yourselves.

I had a best friend who hooked up with an ex-boyfriend of mine and I wasn't happy about it when it happened, but they ended up getting married because it turns out that they really were in love and they were right for each other. I forgave them because even I could see that it was true love for both of them and that it was meant to be a gift from the universe. It wasn't easy at first, but when you realize it's meant to be, it's a very beautiful thing.

Also, how can you think of building a life with your Cancer boyfriend if you are in love with his friend?

Are you in love with both of them?

What is the situation? Those questions need to be answered before I attempt a look at these charts because I really don't think you need the charts to tell you what to do. As a matter of fact, the charts CAN'T tell you what to do, they are just to guide you in your free will decisions.

What did the Libra tell you that he wanted to do? Or did he leave it vague?

???????????

Good luck.

Geocosmic Valentine

posted March 06, 2008 10:14 AM         

Thanks for following the story. The relationship with the original boyfriend is OVER. We still remain friends as he had to go through some difficult/serious life situations and i still care for him and wanted to offer support. The only reason i mentioned building a life with the cancer is because despite being in love with the libra, I wonder whether i am tossing a 6 yr relationship away. Also, the cancer always talked about having kids, building a home so i guess those have stuck with me. Finally, I left the cancer when i realized i had feelings for the libra. Even if it was just a crush at the time, I felt it wasn't fair to not give him my entire heart. I never really explained the reason for fear of hurting him, but he has told me that whatever it was/is that we could work through it and overcome it. I believe him when he says that because of past obstacles we've overcome. Anyhow, I know he still loves me and is in love with me, and though i am not in love with him, i do still love him as a person who has been a part of my life for so long.

With the libra it is different. He was very vague but recently revealed that he thought about a serious relationship with me but would erase the thought because he did not want to hurt his friend (the cancer really is a good friend) or cause havoc is the group (very long-term tight-knit group of friends). As you may have read in a previous post I'm studying in another city as my ex/the libra/the group and the libra has to encounter them on a daily basis so I have been holding myself back in way, because it wouldn't be fair to leave him with no friends and not even be around.

Libra keeps asking if i'm coming back for good - i've been known to travel extensively and may have an opportunity to stay in this city to further research/studies. I'm beginning to feel that it may be because he does want something serious but wants to know i'll be around. I have to admit that it is hard for me to have a clear and open discussion with the libra, for a few reasons: he is good with words and can gloss over situations, his guilt over 'stealing' his best friends girlfriend keeps him from saying everything he really feels (he's told me this a few times himself), and i like to be very direct and i don't think he handles it well - he often has to process it and gather his thoughts but then finds it difficult to respond due to guilt etc...

posted March 06, 2008 12:48 PM         

You did a great job clarifying the story. I just need to know your place of birth, it's very important for the chart. I have some other feedback as well but I need to think it through first, but please give your birth place. Thanks.

posted March 06, 2008 01:24 PM         

I was born in Toronto, Ontario Canada

I'm not 100% sure of the boys- i think both may have been born in Richmond Hill, Ontario Canada...

I appreciate you looking at the charts- I'm fairly new to this, and though i've read online explanations, I still am unable to see the big picture.

posted March 06, 2008 05:51 PM         

quote:

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when will i find love?

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posted March 07, 2008 06:04 AM         

wow cat we have a lot of similar placements! i wonder if we're very alike??

oh and here is my chart, hopefully THIS will work

posted March 07, 2008 09:15 AM         

Ya know something, if you were 27 I'd be worried, but you're NOT EVEN 18!!!

Yes, I am gonna be a downer and give you this speech. Just be a kid for now, some one is bound to drop into your net at some point.

Yes, I am going to look at your chart, but give yourself a break, just hang out with your friends a do school and socialize and you'll meet someone.

I'm just in shock, I thought you were going to be a middle age woman like myself who was worried about relationships in her life. I don't want to minimize that for you, I understand it's important at any time in our lives, but you are just barely getting started. OK, I'll stop the speech and give me a little time for this and we'll see what we can dig up, OK?

Geocosmic Valentine

posted March 07, 2008 09:31 AM         

Have you had any luck looking at my chart? I'm sorry if i seem over-eager (please take as much time as you need- i honestly have no idea what the process involves and appreciate what you are doing immensely!). I guess i'm eager to understand what the h*ll is going on and how i ended up in this mess! Because my personal life is a mess it seems to be seeping into all other areas. I'm sure everything will work out in the long run, but i feel like i need guidance right now... or at least to begin to understand my current state.

posted March 07, 2008 12:20 PM         

Just to repeat, I didn't mean to minimize your need for companionship or feelings of loneliness, but I'm not one of those people who will tell you that there is no difference between 17 and 47. Social opportunities and relationship needs most certainly do change in that time period. So the difference between a 17 year old person asking this question with her whole life ahead of her is different than a 47 year old woman with a huge important chunk of her life behind her.

You may not like this even more because you made the mistake of bumping into an "Old Fashioned" middle age astrologer who is of the opinion that you should thank your lucky stars that you don't have a boyfriend right now at the end of your junior or senior year in high school when you need to be concentrating on YOU. Be smart and do your best to secure your future.

OK, even that speech is over. But when I get a chance I will continue looking at your chart. BUT ONLY IF YOU ELIMINATE WORDS LIKE "CURSED!" That doesn't exist, you are not cursed. You're a beautiful spirit who creates her own reality with positivity and faith in her future. Positive faith in your future, hold that in your heart and mind.

OK, I'm FINALLY off of my pedal stool (and feeling like somebodies mother in the process, which makes me feel old since I don't have kids.)

You're gonna be OK, Anne.

Geocosmic (Old Lady) Valentine

posted March 07, 2008 12:25 PM         

I realize you're in confusion and you don't want to rush me. You do have another option since I am a professional astrologer, you can contact me and have a real consultation if you like. I have slots available this weekend Saturday and Sunday, just email me at the address below. I can email you my prices or you can click on my MySpace page and click on the buy button to get a preview of the price for a one hour consultation for one chart.

Read the top blog to get an idea of what the consultation is like. Read all the blogs.

It does involve a lot of time and work to look at charts so when someone offers to do it free, you really do need to wait longer. But just so you know, this option is available.

Geocosmic Valentine
Professional Astrologer
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