posted September 08, 2008 10:22 AM         

I'm asking because I had a dream like that a week ago. And also I'm thinking it was souls because the person in my dream, I knew who it was...it felt like him, I could just feel that connection...I knew it was him, but it didn't look like him. I'm not even sure if I looked like myself in my dream. And I think I remember the first thing out of my mouth and his was, "I miss you." And I think we also said it at the same time.

I'm just wondering....because it felt SOOO REAL! I think I remember it being in color too. And as soon as I woke up, I said his name (the guy that was in my dream). And when I woke up...I didn't know I had a dream about him until a few minutes later. And I knew I didn't even recall the dream yet until maybe a half hour after I woke up.

It was so weird. It was like reuniting with someone in a dream. It felt so real. It was a dream that I didn't wanna wake up from.

Anyone have any suggestions or thoughts on this? Or how I can find out if it was real or not?

I looked up the meanings of significant things in the dream...but the meanings didn't make sense, usually they do when i look them up in a dream dictionary. I would ask the guy that was in the dream but I haven't talked to him for a couple of months.

Any books you suggest I read?

Thank you in advance!

(I know this should be in the Dream section, but no one's answered so I'm wondering if I post it here (well, it does have to do with souls. hehe. ) that maybe someone will have any thoughts on this. )

posted September 08, 2008 11:36 AM         

I had not seen or talk to the love of my life one time for about a month and a half..Anyway he was sending me out all these telegraphs and I was ignoring him wanted him to call me or something..One night I went to bed and I dreamed that we were at one of his friends house, I met him over there..We started talking and catching up on what we had been doing since we had been apart..He got close to me and kissed me on my lips and said I really missed you..My body shook in my sleep, I felt it and woke up and looked around, like wtf...All that day I sensed him, it was like he was right beside me everywhere I was..So that following day I text him and said hi how are you, yada,yada..He text me back and said he was ok and he would like to see me..We had not talked in awhile but our conversation was real familar..So I am guessing he was in the dream with me..Thats just one of many..

posted September 15, 2008 02:29 PM         

Thank you all for the responses so far. I don't feel like I'm crazy and alone anymore. hehe.

Blo - that's so crazy that you've had that same dream repeatedly in one week! wow. I'm currently reading Sylvia Browne's Book of Dreams to make sense of
the dreams that I've been having. One of the dreams that she talked about in her book is kinda like yours. Maybe your subconscious is trying to tell you
something. In the book she was saying that if you want the dream to stop, before you go to sleep: imagine a white light of the Holy Spirit surrounding you
and pray that you want them to stop and ask for something you do want like courage to face your fear in your dream. Only if it's a dream that you feel
is bothering you.

oneruledbymars- See I'm not sure if this guy I dreamt of is my soulmate or not. I kinda think he is, but I'm not sure. That's what i'm also trying to
figure out with these dreams that I've been having. You remember talking and spending the day with him from your dream? I wish I could remember stuff like that.
I think I remember a lot of little details from my dream but i know i forget some parts about it.
What kind of meditation do you do? And what's the astral plane? Sounds interesting...

posted September 18, 2008 10:30 PM         

That's so crazy, did you get to finish the book? I haven't yet, I'm currently reading the chapter "when they're more than dreams" and telepathy. It's so crazy weird but what I have read so far...my weird dreams are starting to make sense.

Now I'm starting to believe that what I dreamt really was real. But I don't know what to do about it now...?

I was also wondering... if it was an Astral Travel... could it have been during a different time? Cuz the man in my dream looked totally different than the person it felt like.

But I do understand when you keep dreaming that you are apologizing to your guy. I did something similar (said something blunt, but it was the truth! and the first thing that came to mind...but i forgot to add the details..lol. I know that's the Sag talking. ha.) But yeah if I could go back to that event and say more about what I felt I would so do it. Even if it comes up in a dream...but I would want him to get the message too. Like in the book and in your dreams. Have you ever watched the tv show One Tree Hill? (Love that show! )

Well, if you haven't there's this one episode where the girl tells the guy, "I should've said 'yes'." That's how I feel with my situation. But things do happen for a reason right? Some of friends say that I should just move on, but I've tried...seriously...but every guy i've been meeting lately are a-holes. I wish I could somehow get the message to him that I really didn't mean what I said and I should've just told him.

posted September 19, 2008 09:27 PM         

I have a crazy idea...I was thinking about painting what I remember from my dream. I can't paint well, but I can definitely draw. And maybe if I see an actual image I can remember other things that happened in the "dream." I have this crazy thought that if he were to see the painting or drawing that he might remember if he was in the "dream" too, without me asking, like some weirdo. But I'd actually have to talk to him first. lol. Idk...I think I watch too much movies. But seriously I should've just said yes instead of "i don't know." But it was the truth...and I didn't know what else to say..I was so confused and felt like I was rushed. But I didn't say anything. I don't know if that's my Capricorn Venus or Scorpio Moon that can't say anything. I'm usually blunt and honest and say whatevers on my mind but when it comes to guys.... I stay quiet. But I am slowly working on it and voicing my feelings. Except for this ONE GUY, the Dream Guy. I don't know why I can't get up the courage to call him or at least text. I think it's b/c of the last time I remember talking to him...

Well his sun sign is Sagittarius (but doesn't act totally like one) and has an Aries Moon. While I'm a tail-end Scorpio Sun (sometimes I think I have more Sag traits.lol) with Scorpio Moon.

I know it seems like we wouldn't be compatible or anything...but for some reason I know it's deeper than Astrology.

You have Scorpio Moon too! No wonder your situation is similar to mine and you know how i feel. When I talk about it with some of my friends...i don't think they get it, they just tell me that i should move on. But I've tried. and i don't get the same feeling or attraction to any other guys even if they are better looking. lol. I know I'm still young...and should live my life, but I don't wanna regret this later on like you and one of my friend's said. But I'm so afraid to talk to him. I don't know why... I think this is the first guy that's gotten to me this way. Even though I have dated quite a few guys.

posted September 27, 2008 02:20 AM         

Thanks. I am going to talk to him. I was gonna go today, but I ended up taking a long nap...but I WILL talk to him, at least say hi the next time I see him. Cuz I didn't mention this before but I did see him and I know he saw me, but we didn't talk (I was too scared, yah i know...slap me in the head,please...i think i need it..lol) My friend told me he works at the gym I go to...and i haven't seen him there until that one time a few weeks ago. I would've said hi or something but i felt my heart beating faster and getting nervous, and i think i couldn't even get a "hi" out. But that's when I didn't have much self confidence or determination...but I do now!

I will talk to him the next time I go to the gym. I don't wanna keep wondering and having this regret. You and a few others (my friend and cousin) have told me to go and see and talk to him. Don't worry, I will...and I'll let you know what happens.

posted October 10, 2008 09:58 AM         

I had a deep affinity with him...maybe a past life. I didn't ask him for his email, address or phone number as I believe in fate. After meeting him in real life I realised that I need to get serious with my law studies. He seemed deicated to his studies even though he is alot younger than me.Committed and dedicated to his studies, maybe he is a Capricorn.

Has anyone had an deja vu experience with soulmate or twinn soul before you actually met them in real life? Or have you met someone and known they have a beautiful soul by looking into thier eyes for the first time ie a soul union?

Another incident, I was going through a real tough situation, October 2006, and I met this guy and it wasn't love at first sight in the tradtional sense. Actually, I was very attracted to his voice and was wondering who was talking behind the bookshelf. Normally, I don't just walk up to strangers but I did. For the first time in my life I was blown away ,literally, off my feet. I thought, my God he is the most beautiful soul but then I thought he is so aggrogant. I wondered what he was so aggrogant about. He looked so shock too. It's complicated but he was talking about me. I have never met him before in this lifetime. I smiled and walked away. Later that month I dreamed about him and I was waiting for DVD "What dreams May come true" but he took a wrong turn with my sister. After a wrong turn with my sister he took control of the car and we melted into each other. My Dad passed away and I dreamed where my dearest Dad strongly suggested that I wait for the dark stallion as he was just getting ready for his freedom.

posted October 21, 2008 12:10 PM         

well... you know what... (you know that's a "i didn't do it kinda 'well' " haha. But really i would try to motivate myself to go talk to him...but then i dont know why i couldnt just go do it. i even had the people closest to me push me and encourage me to go talk to him.... but then i haven't. I think it just has to feel right, at the time... i don't think it did.

But what's crazy is, I met a new guy in the last week and a half. I know there's a definite physical attraction on both ends with this one, the other i wasnt sure if i was physically attracted to him. I feel less nervous to talk to the first one now (sag sun with aries moon). I still wanna talk to him, just so maybe i can maybe emotionally "let go" of that one, so I won't screw up this second one. lol. Crazy as that may seem, I feel like this one has a lot of potential. I just get this feeling about him that he's someone i could relate to more and connect with on all levels. just my thinking or optimism. lol. He's a Libra Sun and I think Scorpio Moon. seems like it...

But i most definitely want to talk to the first one. If I want something great and amazing to happen with this one, which i do... I would have to talk to the other one sooner or later.

posted November 05, 2008 03:22 AM         

I've had a few dreams recently about the same guy, and the dreams don't seem as real as the one i posted about in here, but then there was nothing weird about the dream. I guess what I'm trying to say is that it felt like we were meeting each other in my dream. Like that's our meeting place, because we both are probably too afraid to call or talk to each other. lol. it sounds silly, but i am working on finding the courage to see him.

I'm just wondering because I read some where that if nothing odd or weird happens in a dream, it means that it's an astral visit or something....? Like, we're meeting up with each other in our dreams? and i must say that i wake up smiling or feeling like i just want to go back to sleep so i can dream again... LOL! haha :P i know, i'm lame...

any thoughts on this???
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seveneieghtorange, yah this is the same guy. lol. :P It didn't really work out with the new guy... there was miscommunication, misunderstanding, and jealousy (we're both Scorpio Moons) but then I still want to be friends with him cuz i know i'll be seeing him around again, we have the same friends.