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Topic: Signs that a Scorpio man is into you?
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girlloveboy unregistered
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posted September 18, 2008 05:48 PM
Hi  ****edited IP: Logged |
augentier unregistered
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posted September 18, 2008 09:06 PM
how do i say this gently.. he wants to bang you.
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sunshine_lion unregistered
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posted September 18, 2008 09:09 PM
anticipation its making me wait its keeping me waiting!
the love game is delicious! uh..yeah..he is interested
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SparklingSag Knowflake Posts: 399 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted September 19, 2008 06:08 AM
Believe me, you know when a Scorpio guy is interested :-)IP: Logged |
GemGemGem Knowflake Posts: 192 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 19, 2008 09:02 AM
Lucky Girl, he's into you!!! I wish a Scorpio was into me! I absolutely love the way they LOVE!! Passion, intensity, that stare....makes you feel like a WOMAN! haha.Enjoy! IP: Logged |
girlloveboy unregistered
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posted September 19, 2008 09:46 AM
thanx for your answers  Even if he likes me, he just told me he doesnt want anything from me at all... thats it, time to move on. IP: Logged |
sunshine_lion unregistered
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posted September 19, 2008 10:25 AM
i'm sorry.You will meet somebody. IP: Logged |
plutoprincess Knowflake Posts: 96 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted September 19, 2008 12:46 PM
He'll start stalking you :P...IP: Logged |
GemGemGem Knowflake Posts: 192 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 19, 2008 12:52 PM
I agree with Plutoprincess. You'll be seeing him again...very soon.IP: Logged |
Peri Knowflake Posts: 1848 From: 49N35 34E34 Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 19, 2008 02:38 PM
well if he is into you he will let you know and make sure you heard him right  when they get serious they tell you about it straight away and in a very direct mannerIP: Logged |
girlloveboy unregistered
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posted September 19, 2008 04:09 PM
Thanks again everyone for your kind responses  Well, sure that i will see him at work, but he said he doesnt want a girlfriend, and unfortunately or not, hard to imagine that he would just change his mind....IP: Logged |
BlueTopaz124 Knowflake Posts: 237 From: Portland, OR, USA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 19, 2008 11:42 PM
I hope the two of you can work together or keep some kind of friendship. The good thing, is he was mature enough to be honest and tell you he's not interested in a relationship. Believe him, for your own well-being. It's disappointing, for sure, but better now than get your heart broken or be a one-night stand.Besides, you have be there 8-9-10 hours every day. It's really really really flattering to have a Scorpio guy show interest...but, it's also really really really difficult to be the subject of gossip or to break up with someone you have to see every day at work. I would be professional, no more 'meaningful' eye contact and just be polite around him. IP: Logged |
girlloveboy unregistered
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posted September 20, 2008 03:17 AM
BlueTopazThanks, you're absolutely right. Of course, i accept and respect his decision and i know he's right. I wanted this discussion much earlier, but i didnt have the courage, and also i must have seen much earlier that we have no chance to be together. I have neptune square sun and Pisces on DESC...i always fall for unavailable guys and i only realize it when its late  But hopefully once i will find the right guy... IP: Logged |
BlueTopaz124 Knowflake Posts: 237 From: Portland, OR, USA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 20, 2008 04:00 PM
((big hugs)) You're welcome!!My Neptune always gets involved too and I tend to get all dreamy if there's someone who catches my eye (believe me, I know where you're coming from) and looks promising.  IP: Logged |
Diandra23 unregistered
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posted September 22, 2008 08:28 AM
I wish i have seen your post sooner dear sister.but it seems that now you are onto your Path and the scorpio has just left the building. There´s one thing i wannna say about Scorpios: before i met J. there was a scorpio guy that was after me ( we casually started talking online) and he was the 1st guy i met through internet. Scorpios have a thing that no other sign has:they trap you into their misterious world and even if at 1st you really arent interested,they disvcover the way onto you,without you even notice.and when you do,you have become his prey. You can think you are falling for him,maybe you are but it´s so complex when it is with a Scorpio - i cant quite explain it by words. I didnt want to have a relationship with him but i was getting too much involved ( and believe me...we didnt had any kiss!!!). Time started to pass and he gave up - but i can tell you that he is someone whom i will never forget - cause he opened my eyes to things i wasnt aware - spiritual,misterious,mistic,even obscure things... it will pass - you will find the right guy.And to be honest i dont think that your man would be a Scorpio - they are too intense for your sensitiveness(just like me ) IP: Logged |
LetsDance Knowflake Posts: 103 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted September 23, 2008 04:19 PM
girlloveboy, I wish I had read your post to get more details.*** IP: Logged |
girlloveboy unregistered
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posted September 24, 2008 04:17 AM
LetsDance  Thanx much for your response, it was a huge help.*** IP: Logged |
LetsDance Knowflake Posts: 103 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted September 24, 2008 01:45 PM
good luck.IP: Logged |
Lucia23 Knowflake Posts: 2395 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 30, 2008 07:01 PM
Wow, sorry I missed this thread. It would be great to hear from Scorpio men how you let someone know you're interested in her. Also, what's a good way to attract a Scorpio? IP: Logged |
Moonstruck unregistered
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posted October 07, 2008 10:19 AM
Yes I am curious too... about what attracts the Scorpio man... one in particular has held my attention for too long without satisfaction. We have been dancing discreetly, off and on, for over 2.5 years. In discussion, neither of us understand the attraction.
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LetsDance Knowflake Posts: 103 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted October 07, 2008 09:41 PM
If he hasn't made a move and he is interested, then something is holding him back that he may feel committed to, i.e.: his job, his family, a wife, an unstable romantic relationship, etc. Scorpios go after what they want in no uncertain terms (and usually get it). So I'll say that if you are unsure if he is "into you", then he probably is not, (maybe at the moment or at all), but he may like you for other reasons. And that is very good, too.  IP: Logged |
Xena unregistered
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posted October 09, 2008 05:21 AM
Personally, I wouldn't be bothered about attracting a Scorpio man. They are players, full-on BS-ers, and not that bright. One and I have just split up (though to be honest I had never expected much from him anyway as he was just so obvious): he gave me his "lofty" reasons for doing so (he had a massive history of problems that he wouldn't tell me about, as they were pretty serious, but winkled stuff out of me and judged me for it - don't you just love the hypocrisy of these guys?) - so I basically told him what I thought of him and God, didn't it feel good!! I'm actually quite relieved and don't miss the BS one bit. Not worth the effort (or lack of!) Love, Xena
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Lucia23 Knowflake Posts: 2395 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 09, 2008 07:02 PM
"Scorpios go after what they want in no uncertain terms (and usually get it)."Wow...I know a Scorpio man (Sun, Mercury, Uranus, Mars) who is wildly, WILDLY not like that AT ALL. I did a reading for him and we talked at length about his personal life. If he wants something, he often specifically avoids it for that reason. He does things because he thinks he "should" do them, and/or because he is afraid to try something and fail (this is according to my years of observation of him, but also what he told me.) Romantically, he has only felt "in love" with one person and never told her. He is in a bad relationship with a woman he says he is not "in love" with, but who he thinks he should "try to make a life" with. They have serious sexual problems as well. I attribute a lot of this to his afflicted 5th house Leo Saturn--it's like he's allergic to love, fun and fulfilling sex. But, it's not just the Saturn. I think a lot of Scorpios care waaaay more about keeping in control than being happy, and will not make a move toward a woman they've got it bad for if they feel like they can't control the situation. Several of my Scorp friends turn away from those they feel most passionate about and get involved, instead, with peole who do not inspire those passions. I think this is why the men frustrate a lot of women. I think the whole "Scorpios go for what they want" thing is a HUGE MYTH. In my experience, Sags (for example) go for what they want sexually and romantically. Scorpios will sit at the bottom of an emotional well and refuse to notice that there's a rope, and they'll choose control over joy and human connection. Not ALL of them...but definitely the ones who drive otherwise attractive, sane, happy women to beg for advice on internet sites. IP: Logged |
c n stars unregistered
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posted October 09, 2008 07:19 PM
Lucia23Wow, that seemed a lil harsh. Everything okay? IP: Logged |
Cedarma unregistered
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posted October 09, 2008 07:46 PM
I happen to agree with Lucia..control is everything to a scorpio...They will deny themselves anything to remain in control.....IP: Logged |