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Scorpionic Web
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posted September 28, 2008 02:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Scorpionic Web     Edit/Delete Message
I may have met my best match in 2001 and never realized it until a couple of years ago when I checked her placements.

There was a time when we were very intimate, then she went away for 4 years of college, and now we are both back in Philly.

She came over last night, we watched a movie, and I held her in my arms for the first time in a very long while. But I'm not sure if the magic is there for us anymore. I'm going to try.

No one in her family knows her birth time, only that she was born during daylight hours.

Our inner-planet placements are interesting:

We have mutual Sun/Moon conjunctions, we both have Scorpio Mercury and Venus, and we both have Capricorn Mars.

The Good:

My Moon is loosely conjunct her Sun in Libra by 8 degrees. Her Moon is between 17 and 26 degrees of Scorpio, which conjuncts my Sun, Venus, and Jupiter, and most likely my Mercury.

Her Merc is at 3 degrees of Scorpio, which conjuncts my Sun-Moon midpoint by less than 2 degrees.

Her Sun sign ruler, Venus, is at 18 Scorpio, which conjuncts my Sun, Merc, Venus, and Jupiter.

The Bad:

Mars seems like a potential menace.

Her Capricorn Mars squares my Moon by 7 degrees, forms an exact square to my Pluto by 56', and forms an exact square to my Saturn at 31'.

My Capricorn Mars squares her Libra Sun at 4 degrees.

Her progressed Venus has been in retrograde since we first met and will be retrograde for the next 30 years.

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Scorpionic Web
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posted September 28, 2008 02:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Scorpionic Web     Edit/Delete Message
Scorpio is the natural ruler of the 8th house of "other people's money". I remember my early astrology education, reading Linda's Love Signs, and how she pointed out that Scorpio is the second house of "possessions" to Libra, so monetary issues will be an unusually potent concern in a Scorpio/Libra union.

Add Capricorn's values, and I'm bothered by what our mutual Capricorn Mars placements may do with all of the squares to our Libra placements.

She is so dedicated to her career. All of her time is focused on earning her Masters in Calculus, wants to follow it up with a Ph.D, and spends much of her free time doing equations. Math is her passion. Relationships seem of little concern for this Libra girl.

I only have an Associates, I have no idea where I want to go with my life. And I can feel a certain undertone of disapproval from her, for me not having directed my academic life with more urgency.

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Scorpionic Web
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posted September 28, 2008 02:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Scorpionic Web     Edit/Delete Message
I guess maybe she isn't my best match, after all.

So much Scorpio with Mars as it's subruler, in such difficult aspects.

Still, I feel like we are so much alike. She seems like my female twin, and several of our astro placements would support this. For so long all I've wanted was to be understood, and I believe she has that ability.

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posted September 28, 2008 09:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for EighthMoon     Edit/Delete Message
Scorpionic,

If you have a pic and can post it, we'll all be happy to guess that AC!

8th

PS) Hope that things work out for you!

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Scorpionic Web
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posted September 29, 2008 12:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Scorpionic Web     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks for the well wishes. I almost don't want to speculate on her ascendant. Since she was born during daylight hours, her ascendant would likely be from Libra through Pisces.

I really don't want to guess, but I'd say she is a Sagittarius Ascendant. She is always doing something different with her hair, but seems to prefer reds. I've attracted a number of Sag Asc's in the past, and it might explain her history of a strong sexual attraction to me. She once said she "doesn't trust herself around me", though some would call this a common response to a Scorpio, it sounds much to me like the statement from someone where my Sun would fall in her 12th house. Sag-types often have either "horsey" or "puppy-dog" appearances, and she shares some very similar facial features with a Sag Sun girl I knew with a "puppy" face. This Libra holds her weight in Saggie sections, however, it is also typical of many Libra females to be a little bottom heavy (I love it). She used to be a serious drinker, but has stopped partying completely since she started Grad school, and she has lost a good bit of beer/liquor weight, but still has great hips/thighs. I don't have any photos of her from 2008.

Libra Sun at 13 degrees
Scorpio Moon between 17 and 26 degrees
Scorpio Mercury at 3 degrees
Scorpio Venus at 18 degrees
Capricorn Mars at 28 degrees
Pisces Jupiter at 14 degrees
Sagittarius Saturn at 5 degrees
Sagittarius Uranus at 19 degrees
Capricorn Neptune at 3 degrees
Scorpio Pluto at 6 degrees


(^To me, this photo above shows she's clearly a Libra Sun^)

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Scorpionic Web
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posted September 29, 2008 01:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Scorpionic Web     Edit/Delete Message
I've ruled out Capricorn Ascendant because I fear I may be confusing the "Cardinal look" of Libra.

Also, I thought perhaps Pisces Asc, but somewhat talked myself out of that because of her ton of Water undertones fed through a Libra Sun (venusian higher octave being Pisces). She also makes a lot of vague Piscean-like statements, which I may be confusing with Scorpionic cryptics.

A Sagittarius Ascendant with her Jupiter in Pisces makes much more sense to me.

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LetsDance
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posted September 29, 2008 01:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LetsDance     Edit/Delete Message
ScorpionicWeb, I have a Pisces Ascendant, and I am always doing something different with my hair. My scorpio doesn't always know what to expect! Also, I have ample hind-parts and I didn't trust myself around him either, you guys are all hands! My Jupiter is at home in Sagittarius. So you could be right about the placements---since you are more of an expert---but just reversed!

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posted September 29, 2008 02:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Scorpionic Web     Edit/Delete Message
LetsDance-

Yeah, if she were a Pisces Asc, with Neptune as chart ruler, her Capricorn Neptune could support the Capricorn-like presence I thought I might've seen in her appearance.

Pisces and Sagittarius are closely related via Jupiter/Neptune subrulership, so I think Pisces and Sagittarius may be the best guesses I could make for her Asc.

It's a tough call, but I'm going to stick with Sagittarius Asc.

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posted September 29, 2008 03:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Scorpionic Web     Edit/Delete Message
Ah, but if she were Pisces Asc she could very well have Jupiter rising/conjunct Asc. Arghh... the possibilities!!! This is why I hate to consider these things. I tie myself in knots, fully aware that I'll never have closure.

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writesomething
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posted September 29, 2008 09:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for writesomething     Edit/Delete Message
I'd say Taurus rising,, she has a very natural pretty look.

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Scorpionic Web
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posted September 29, 2008 01:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Scorpionic Web     Edit/Delete Message
She cannot be Taurus rising. To be Taurus rising, she would've been born after 7:15 p.m. on this particular October day. Like I stated in an earlier post, she was born during "daylight hours", and likely must be Libra through Pisces Asc. Her mother doesn't know what time she was born, but distinctly remembers that it was still very light outside, so 7:15 in October in Philadelphia would've already had the sky becoming rather dark.

The sun set at 6:36 p.m. in Philly on her day of birth, at which time the Asc was in the middle of Aries.

Opposite signs share many common appearances, and so much Scorpio Fixity (4 of 10 placements, particularly with Scorpio Venus) can easily be mistaken for Taurus, this can be especially true when given an extra splash of Venus, possibly via her Libra Sun.

Sorry, I should've been more clear about Philadelphia's October daylight.

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EighthMoon
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posted September 29, 2008 05:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for EighthMoon     Edit/Delete Message
I was going to guess Pisces AC before I even read the comments. I'm not seeing the Sag in terms of looks. She has more of a pixie look than the horse thang, I think.

I'm going to summon 23 to come take a gander!

8th

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posted September 29, 2008 05:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for bunnies     Edit/Delete Message
Capricorn!!!

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posted September 29, 2008 06:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 23     Edit/Delete Message
Well I'm going to say Fire rising despite it not really making sense. I tracked down the day she was born and made the assumption that she was born in Philadelphia.

If she was born at Noon, she would be 11 deg Sag Rising. If she was born at 6pm she would be 0 deg Aries rising. If she was born at 4am, she would be 23 deg Leo rising. Not sure when the sun sets in Philadelphia but maybe Leo rising would be out.

The reason why I think she might be a fire rising:
* She poses and is dramatic in photos, has exaggerated facial expression
* Either has or dyes her hair red with a reddish tinge
* Jawline in the first photo is sharp - indicative of Aries rising
* Has a firey crease in her eyes that makes her always have "smiley" eyes
* Her eyebrows in the last photo is very Aries rising.
* Figure however would lead to Sag rising the most and then maybe Leo (would you say she is boxy or prone to weight gain?)


Her love of Maths might mean she has Cap MC (0 deg Aries rising would mean 0 deg Cap MC). Saturn would be in her 8th, Maths is associated with Cap, Saturn would need to explore that area. At earlier Aries AC, her neptune would square AC and conj her MC which might give her the neptunian flavour that was being picked up on.

Only problem is that is she was Aries AC, then chart ruler would be Mars in Cap. That would give her the dark looks but where does the figure come from? (Nep aqu ASC?) Might explain she predominately wears black but the wearing of purple is Sag, so maybe she is Sag rising.

At 12 noon, her AC would be 11 deg Sag and her chart ruler Jup would be 13 deg Neptune - square her ASC. In her first would be Nep and Ura. Ura in the first would make sense as she has that dot of bright light in the first photo in her eyes that I see in Ura first houses. Saturn would be conj her ASC from 12th, which might give her a Saturnine flavour. Saturn would rule her second, what she values and how she makes her money - maths. Maybe she is Sag rising. 11 deg would place her as Sag rising, Aries decanate. She could be that.

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posted September 29, 2008 06:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Scorpionic Web     Edit/Delete Message
23-

The Sun rose at 7:03 and set at 6:36 on her birth date, so Leo Asc is definitely out of the question. Although you figured out her birth date, to make it explicit, it is October 6th, 1986.

Like I said in response to Writesomething's Taurus guess, I try to avoid being swayed by the possibility of an Aries Asc with the same theory of how Taurus Asc (impossible here) would be misleading; the similar appearances of zodiac opposites, plus heavy planetary rulership modifications: Libra Sun (opposite Aries) with strong Scorpio influence (Mars subrulership). Just like a Taurus Asc would be the Scorpio appearance influence (zodiac opposite) added to Libra Sun (Venus rulership).

But early Aries would still have the sun up, so it is within the realm of possibility.

*Edit: the photo on the bottom shows her natural hair color, but I'm not sure if you can see much of it from this photo though.

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posted September 29, 2008 06:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LetsDance     Edit/Delete Message
I don't know, Scorpionic, her sweetie-pie, easy-going, relaxed look in pictures #1 and #3 make me think she is a Pisces Ascending. As for picture #2 and #4, we do like being silly/goofy at times and her holding the wine glass with her hands on her hips is like our way of saying "HAH! and you thought we are all sweet and innocent! That's right, I PARTY, I'm 3 x 7, AND---??!!!" That is so Piscean!
yeah, yeah, uh huh, uh huh...

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posted September 29, 2008 07:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 23     Edit/Delete Message
She could be Pisces AC but MUST have Jup in first. She has vague resemblance to me in the last photo and I am Jup 1st house myself with Nep trine ASC and its the behaviour as well.

I guess we can all agree Aries is out.

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posted September 29, 2008 08:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for EighthMoon     Edit/Delete Message
How about Pisces AC w/ Jupiter in the 1st conj the AC?

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posted September 29, 2008 08:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 23     Edit/Delete Message
His Pisces rising but has Jup in 12th widely conj ASC.


http://www.astrotheme.com/portraits/4Z4k6Wx8GwzJ.htm
Cap Sun and Moon

Otherwise, Demi Moore has Jup in 1st, Pisces ASC but her Jup is in the 12th far from the ASC. Charlotte PERRIAND is a good example but I can't find a photo.
http://www.astrotheme.com/portraits/AMD4574WBm52.htm

Sun in Libra, Jup in 1st/Pisces, Pisces ASC produced no useful results.

Otis Chandler - Sag sun, Sco Moon, in 1st/Pisces, Pisces ASC (also has Ura in 1st)
http://www.astrotheme.com/portraits/vhukZPpa55Uy.htm

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posted September 29, 2008 08:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 23     Edit/Delete Message
Examples of Neptune in 1st with Sag rising:

Paris Hilton http://www.astrotheme.com/portraits/633WF86DRXvb.htm

Prince Williams but Nep is conj ASC from 12th:
http://www.astrotheme.com/portraits/233rFYDV7Mf6.htm

I'm starting to think that she is Pisces rising.

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posted September 29, 2008 08:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 23     Edit/Delete Message
Example of Neptune conj Sag ASC from 12th with same degree Neptune:
http://www.astrotheme.com/portraits/9ugfSjUSn3vk.htm

Some murderer also with same configuration:
http://www.astrotheme.com/portraits/3c7b4ZpTKsDW.htm

Looks like its Pisces ASC with the grog (Pisces) and purple top (Jup in 1st)

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posted September 29, 2008 09:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for koiflower     Edit/Delete Message

although she seems to have natural warmth and exuberance, her Acs is not fire.

If it's Earth, I'm thinking Capricorn. There seem to be Earth there. Although, water is a slight possibility.


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posted September 29, 2008 09:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CoralFrequency     Edit/Delete Message
I'm almost sure, she has a cardinal ascendant.

It's either Aries, Cancer or Capricorn.

My bet is on Cancer/Capricorn though.
Actually Capricorn would make sense because then Mars could be conjunct the Ascendant - giving her the Aries eyes & eyebrows.

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posted September 30, 2008 09:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Scorpionic Web     Edit/Delete Message
Pisces could certainly make her ascendant hard to pin down. Shifty Pisces...

Pisces Asc seems to be the popular vote. I'm not sure if it is peer pressure, but I may be beginning to sway towards Pisces.

I'm afraid to reconsider Capricorn Asc with Libra Sun, because my sign guessing history has a particular tendency of confusing Cardinal influences.

23- Yeah, you're right, a Fire Asc doesn't make much sense, but I keep clinging to Sagittarius. And yes, she is rather boxy with broad shoulders, reminiscent of Scorpio/Taurus. No one has suggested Scorpio Asc, but I see Scorp more in her planets than a possible Asc. She does seem to put on weight easily, though this is common of comfort-loving Venusians, but yesterday I skimmed through Linda Goodman's Sun Signs and she mentions how a Libra with Sagittarius Ascendant would be particularly prone to weight gain (...the ever-expansive Jupiter...).

To me, I see a definite Jupiter/Neptune energy...

Sag Asc with Jupiter in Pisces, and Pisces Asc with Jupiter conjunct Asc both seem to make equal sense to me now.

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posted October 02, 2008 08:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Scorpionic Web     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks so much for your input folks, I'm surprised that this thread has actually helped me a bit.

I'm worried about Libran stereotypes of how they seek "the best" in either appearance or social stature.

I have no shame in admitting that when her and I started out, I felt popular and attractive. Since transiting Saturn has reached my natal Ascendant, things have changed for the worse. With common Libran values in mind, I don't consider myself very attractive these days; my looks have faded with age. And I've slowly withdrawn myself from old friends and feel as though I live largely in obscurity.

I once felt worthy of the Libran brand of discrimination, not anymore. So, I'll probably let this girl go.

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