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Topic: Walls around your heart?
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raj_105_2001 Knowflake Posts: 1356 From: Chennai Registered: Apr 2001
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posted January 06, 2009 10:12 AM
A beautiful entry from Yahoo Answers: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20070811092300AAJmnBU IP: Logged |
FistOfLegend unregistered
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posted January 06, 2009 11:02 AM
Whenever I see someone who guards themselves, I see someone who wants the very opposite- love and reassurance. They probably take love more seriously than others, too.
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LetsDance Knowflake Posts: 327 From: Where there's dancing... Registered: Mar 2006
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posted January 06, 2009 05:45 PM
I agree, FistOfLegend.IP: Logged |
hippichick Knowflake Posts: 2296 From: The Ether Registered: Jan 2006
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posted January 06, 2009 06:42 PM
...and they have been hurt, very hurt.IP: Logged |
FistOfLegend unregistered
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posted January 11, 2009 08:34 PM
But someone who's genuinely cold, that shoves away all love and makes you feel bad for offering it? They're the worst. I don't feel sorry for them at all. IP: Logged |
GemGemGem Knowflake Posts: 537 From: Registered: Dec 2007
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posted February 04, 2009 01:51 PM
"some people build walls, not to keep others out, but to see who cares enough to break them down"I think this is so true. Thanks for posting this! IP: Logged |
LetsDance Knowflake Posts: 327 From: Where there's dancing... Registered: Mar 2006
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posted February 05, 2009 03:44 PM
GemGemGem, I know a capricorn like that. IP: Logged |
raj_105_2001 Knowflake Posts: 1356 From: Chennai Registered: Apr 2001
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posted February 08, 2009 12:58 PM
The weaker the heart, the stronger are the walls, after all, if the walls are not strong enough what else would protect with the weak thing beating inside?This is the reality. IP: Logged |
GemGemGem Knowflake Posts: 537 From: Registered: Dec 2007
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posted February 10, 2009 11:39 AM
I've found that the people with the strongest/tallest walls, once broken past, turn out to be the most faithful,dedicated, committed lovers. IP: Logged |
OzMeg222 Knowflake Posts: 1082 From: Registered: Jul 2006
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posted February 13, 2009 10:39 PM
Its the hardest thing in the world to let ur guard down. But I got hurt far worse by having them there and waiting for someone to break them down than I ever would have had I let him behind my walls in the first place.Its a daily struggle for me to keep my walls open, but I make a conscious effort. How is anyone gonna know u well enough to WANT to break down the walls if u have them up in the first place? Just a thought..... IP: Logged |
Nyah Knowflake Posts: 182 From: Europe Registered: Nov 2008
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posted February 14, 2009 05:57 AM
OzMeg222, oooh I think you just know when you sense a wonderful soul... and you don't even know the person but you know he/she is just fantastic and all you can think of is how to get through those huge walls and get them to trust you too..There are a few people out there who actually can SEE you, right through your walls.. IP: Logged |
Pumpkin Peace Knowflake Posts: 124 From: Fort Collins, Colorado Registered: Sep 2007
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posted February 16, 2009 11:59 AM
quote: There are a few people out there who actually can SEE you, right through your walls..
Oh, what a beautiful thought, Nyah! IP: Logged |
darkdreamer Knowflake Posts: 5175 From: Germany Registered: Aug 2006
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posted February 16, 2009 04:57 PM
Yes, I agree with almost everything said here.I`m one of these people with really high walls, but whenever someone made it through the wall into my "inner circle", I am completely committed. And luckily there have been people who believed that it was worth waiting for me to lower my defences. I`m working hard on not letting the walls get so high and thick again, but it`s tough. I`m working against a year-long habit here. BTW I don`t know if my heart is weak or not. What is a weak heart anyway? IP: Logged |
cheshirekat Knowflake Posts: 55 From: wonderland Registered: Jan 2009
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posted February 16, 2009 08:04 PM
Yes, I have hard time letting the walls down and my heart to shine through and it's not the people on the outside Im worried about.. it's me, I don't have enough faith in myself, to just let go of the defences to trust in my own strength, which I feel I have none at the moment thus the need for the walls and distance.Every once in awhile, someone does get in and I have to keep myself from pushing them out. I have a fear of being lonely but I feel most comfortable when I am alone, it's probably due to Saturn in Aquarius. IP: Logged |