posted June 03, 2009 03:32 PM         

1.Can you love one person and want to spend the rest of your life with them....and carry out an affair at the same time?

If you "Truly" Love some one. Esp if its some one your willing to spend your life with. Then there is no way you could be having a affair. Yes yes before any one jumps that i know there is diff kinds of affairs. But when i see the word and what it is normally in ref to. Then i assume that means a sexual affair. Your day to day life would become a lie. You would have to look at that person you clam to love and lie every day. When you say rest of your life. That is a deep connection with some one. Some thing that should be cherished and respected.

2. Does that mean your love isnt real?

Hmmmm. You can still love the person. But I see it as a lie to stay with some one and have a affair. When i think love there is trust. With that trust you should know the lines that should not be crossed. As such to have a affair. If you truly loved the person you would come clean about it. Or at least try to work on the problem before it came to the point that there was a affair.

(PA)

I think the love is real, but maybe the love for the two people could be different. Like, you could love one person quite deeply and committedly, but fall madly in love with another person. Love shows itself in varying ways and degrees. "I personally think it's unrealist to expect one person to fulfil all your needs."