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Topic: conflict with my boyfriend
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Taurean_Scorpion
Knowflake Posts: 124
From: Santa Monica, CA
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 11, 2010 03:59 AM
 
Nephthys,
Yes he has a Libra Rising but I'm not sure if he wants straight up answers. That's more me. I am straight forward and I like for him to be straight with me too. He, like StarrofVenusGirl said, is hypersensitive to any kind of criticism, which is why I think he is really upset right now. I admit, I pushed his buttons. I should know better not to say something like that I guess, knowing that he's stressed about his future.
He is also conflict avoidant...roundabout, gives me lots of "maybe," and answers that's hard to figure out his true feelings. Which is frustrating for me. Sometimes I think where is the Aries in him? Lol
I think that's his Libra influence responding.
I think that I should go write him an email apologizing for pushing his buttons, knowing that he's stressing out about money and being pressured by his parent to finish school, etc. I don't know, I'll think about it. IP: Logged |
Nephthys
Moderator Posts: 242
From: California
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 11, 2010 05:25 PM
TS,  I did mean YOU when I wrote that, (wanting straight up answers) probably b/c I didnt use any punctuation so it looks like I meant him. Sorry. I am Taurus, just like you, with Venus in Taurus as well. I totally understand all of your issues with him, I would feel the exact same way. NOT to make any decisions for you, and forgive my persuasion, but it sounds like right now in life you are both in different "places" so-to-speak. There is a whole world out there waiting for you to be happy in it.  Don't limit your time waiting for someone else to get their act together. You are so young and you should be enjoying life and all of it's opportunities, meeting new people, having new experiences. Ever think about just letting him be himself for awhile, taking a break, and enjoying YOUR life in your way........it is very possible that someone new will come along who's planets offer more compatible trines to yours ~ We can't change people.......so sometimes it's easier to let them be and to move on and enjoy our own life.  Sorry if I've overstepped the boundaries but this is how I see it, being an older Taurus and having been there   IP: Logged |
Taurean_Scorpion
Knowflake Posts: 124
From: Santa Monica, CA
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 11, 2010 11:10 PM
Nephthys,
Yeah, I totally understand what you're saying. I appreciate your advice.
I sometimes think of doing that too but I have grown to love the guy and I'm scared of being alone again. I'm not interested in other people either...I actually don't like the idea of meeting bunch of people and starting over again. I think it has something to do with me opening up to people like that. It's hard. I think it's true that we can't change other people unless they want the change. After that fight I am feeling pretty down.
We have been texting each other and he's been trying to talk to me. But even today he woke up at 4pm and said sorry he was sleeping. He said he called me but I didn't get the call. I'm not in the mood to talk to him on the phone just yet.
I'm going to give it some time and see how things go. IP: Logged |
Nephthys
Moderator Posts: 242
From: California
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 12, 2010 10:38 PM
Scared of being alone and scared of starting over at 22? *sigh* If only you could see that life doesn't end in your 20's.....or 30's.......or 40's.........Follow your heart but one day you would thank me IP: Logged |
HappyCap
Knowflake Posts: 32
From: MN, USA
Registered: May 2010
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posted June 22, 2010 10:28 AM
You Taureans are so stubborn lol. Just something I noticed reading threads here and having a handful of Taurus friends IP: Logged |
Nephthys
Moderator Posts: 242
From: California
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 22, 2010 02:54 PM
Happy Cap, Taurus is a fixed sign, as well as being stubborn. Taurus will try and try and less easy to move on than a mutable sign. IP: Logged |
Taurean_Scorpion
Knowflake Posts: 124
From: Santa Monica, CA
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 22, 2010 03:33 PM
Seriously? Arians aren't so different. They're really stubborn too! Sometimes I think he's more stubborn than I am! LolIP: Logged |
HappyCap
Knowflake Posts: 32
From: MN, USA
Registered: May 2010
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posted June 23, 2010 09:37 AM
Haha is Aries a fixed sign too...? Ah nvm just looked it up, they are cardinal as well. On another thread people here have told me I act more like an Aries, but I believe it's more determination than stubborness XDI particularly found this interesting about fire signs: " On the more positive side, Fire shows your true identity, what you are really like inside, what you seem to initiate by yourself alone. Aries is Cardinal Fire. It shows where you can initiate action immediately, forcefully and directly. Leo is Fixed Fire and shows where you are Creative, where you can really put your heart into something. Sagittarius is Mutable Fire. This is the sign of Wisdom. It’s placement in your horoscope shows where and how you can understand things and make sense of it all. Aries is like an Explosion, Leo like Sunshine, and Sagittarius like a Candle in the Dark. " ------------------
I didn't fail the test, I just found 100 ways to do it wrong. IP: Logged | |
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