Posts: 198
From: NY
Registered: Apr 2009

posted November 30, 2009 06:00 PM         

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i want to hold u in my arms and cry with you. I can't say i'm going through the exact same thing right now but i can def relate. I was with my bf for 8 months only to realize i was dating someone exactly like my abusive brother. I realized that i was repeating this cycle in my life and to break i'm going to do what i've always wanted to do. I'm going to study abroad and travel. Deleting everything sounds good. I know that it definately helps. My advice: start over. Go back to school if thats what u want to do. Take a basket weaving class if its something you always wanted to do. Get a coloring book and color like a 5 year old, finger paint...i dont care how ridiculous it sounds go back to a childhood dream and make come true. Even if u dreamt of being a fairy. Get a fairy costume and just wear it for a day. And if u figure out how to forgive them all let me know because i'm still learning how to do that. I wish you the best. Please let us know how you're doing.

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From: Cleveland, Ohio
Registered: Jun 2009

posted November 30, 2009 07:35 PM         

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Take Care of yourself. It would be good to let this entire situation go and perhaps seek professional counseling.

I would also encourage you to take down the pictures of these people since it is being posted in a moment of hurt. It was an unwise and immature decision. They really should not be posted all over the world by you in the context of your situation. Two wrongs do not make a right.

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posted December 01, 2009 02:44 AM         

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belgz

I understand that you're really hurting and I feel for you, but as a mod I have to say that posting pics of other people without their permission and especially with that content isn't right. Sorry, hon, but I've edited those pics out. And due to lack of Astro content in the thread, it needs to be moved to another forum. I think Soul Unions fits here.

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posted December 01, 2009 09:57 AM         

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cw4eVfRivqc

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