posted January 11, 2010 07:33 PM         

Recently he has been bringing up the idea of moving in together. I have told him that I am not sure and that I do not want to move too quickly. The crazy thing is that we are not in a committed relationship. We spend pratically everyday together. He spends the night almost every night. He just got out of a 2 yeaR relationship in October. We discussed being in a relationship over the holidays and he expressed his apprehension. He said that he cares about me and loves being around me (i.e. wanting to move in together) but is fearful of our relationship turning out the way others in his past have. Fine, whatever. But i dont understand why he would want to live with me - pay the majority of the bills! Makes no sense. Why would he want to give up his privacy like that, but soes not want to be in a relationship. this is completely backwards to me. Does this make any sense to anyone or doe this just sound like complete bs?

I have done a little reading on Libra men. I have read some posts that suggest that Scorpio/Libra matches are not good and others that have stated the opposite. I have alos read that Libras love relationships and commitment and if a Libra does not commit, there is some thing seriously wrong. Thought? Just wanted to get your input. Also, I have read that Libras move from one person to the next very easily. Do Libra men typically start off very strong (like this) and then move on to the next?

posted January 11, 2010 11:24 PM         

They need to be with someone, they can't stand being alone. I wouldn't expect him to make up his mind fast about where he wants the relationship to go.

A Scorpio-Libra match is not for the faint-hearted woman. But it can work.

The question is do you see him as someone you would want to have a serious commitment with? You should be clear about what you want.

posted January 12, 2010 06:44 AM         

I like saying that I manifested him into my life after I prayed that the Universe send me my soulmate, which I only learned recently really means "someone who has an equal capacity to make you feel good AND annoy you" I made a list (I checked it twice :P) then 2 months later he appeared. What's not funny is that I realized I should have added in my criteria "someone who my Scorpioness can boss around". J/K.

This is the crucial part: I knew about astrology but I didn't know that people behave the way we expect them to. I didn't know that our expectations have power. Had I known then what I know now, I would not have expected him to behave like a Libra. I discovered that the more I saw him as a Libra and the more I rationalize his not-so-pleasing actions as fitting the Libra image in my mind, the more he gave me the experience of being with a Libra showing mostly the vacillation aspect. I didn't know that I should be focusing on the good parts so I could attract more of those experiences. In the end I realized that he was mirroring my unconscious expectations.

So the key if you want this to blossom into a full relationship, focus only on what you want. You don't have to tell him that you want a commitment NOW, it may scare him off. Remember that they try to see things from all perspectives. If you push for something, they will immediately see the advantage of taking the opposing viewpoint! LOL. So just enjoy what you have now while in your mind you are envisioning a serious relationship with him. Give it some more time and you will see that things are materializing according to your grand plan.

I don't think it's a good idea to move in with a 50% boyfriend. You are going to be at a disadvantage here. He is going to enjoy the Scorpion 100% loyalty and caring, he gets to enjoy all the goods while you are left hanging because of his indecision. What if he meets someone a few months from now? It means he can leave as easily as he came.

posted January 31, 2010 05:13 PM         

Yes libras like to cater to their s/o/bf/etal's needs, and likes harmony and balance, but at the same time, I wouldn't call libras the most devoted of signs. Not to say they sleep around, they're just not as loyal as say Cancer. And love and support for life? Uh only if they meet the right person. Isn't it a fact libras jump from relationship to relationship with more ease (than say a scorp or cap)