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Topic: Stress Fracture
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LEXX
Moderator Posts: 784
From: Still out looking for Schrödinger's cat.........& LEXIGRAMMING... is my Passion!
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 14, 2010 08:02 PM
 
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Honestly, I'm starting to think that I am not meant to have the kind of love story that you see depicted in movies, but you know, once you come to terms with these things, it seems okay.
Well no one is meant to have that!
And in my opinion/experience...realizing that is a key...
letting go of the fantasy of what you see in movies...then accept reality which is not like the movies, at least not every day, every moment...or settle for being lonely whilst with someone who does not measure up to your fantasy, or go it alone.
Yes fairy tale romances and movie like romances can and do happen...but what about the rest of the time when everyday life concerns creep in, and of course they do, from work, to housework, bills, illness, you name it....
Is is rarely mentioned what happens after the knight in shining armor carries the lady off. Romantic expectations, expecting the fireworks will be there all the time...the intensity of exploring new territory...
well that fantasy/delusion is a serious relationship killer for sure.
Best to find and forge a relationship with a great friend/companion which will last a lifetime.------------------
Everyone is a teacher...
Everyone is a student...
Learning is eternal.
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mermaid26
Knowflake Posts: 50
From: just visiting you know
Registered: Jun 2009
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posted February 14, 2010 08:20 PM
Just wanted to say I keep you in my thoughts, positively of course, and send some LOVE to you this official day of Arts & Letters.IP: Logged |
teasel
Knowflake Posts: 522
From: Ohio
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 15, 2010 07:39 PM
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Ami Ann, my heart actually aches when I love someone too, or even when I miss them alot. Glad to know I've got company in that department.
So does mine.  *edit. IP: Logged | |
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