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Topic: Oh, why can't we be Will & Grace?
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StainedDarkBlu Knowflake Posts: 4 From: Forsyth, GA, USA Registered: Jul 2009
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posted March 17, 2010 01:13 PM
Of course, here's the sob story...I've found myself in love with a gay Libra man.I don't have a lot of love experience, but I know that something is going on in the stars with my friend and I. His name is Charlie. I am an Aquarius, and he is a Libra. I haven't really gotten into chart reading, only because I haven't really found any literature that can explain it to me, because I'm just a beginner. (Any suggestions?) I feel a connection with Charlie that I haven't felt with any other human in the whole world, other than my own father. He has turned me into an emotional basket case, which is not typical of me, I have spent years not letting things get to me, and keeping my deepest emotions to myself, in typical Aquarian fashion. Charlie has brought something out in me that I cannot describe. And vice versa. Currently, I am dealing with the fact that Charlie must leave to start his career out of state. I don't know if I can handle living my life without Charlie in it, or beside me. I know that Charlie loves me very much (even if not romantically), but I guess I'm just looking for a little validation. What do our charts say about us? Has Charlie brought out some intense emotions in me because we have a special connection, or was all that lying under my Aquarian facade somewhere in my chart? Why is Charlie the kindest person I've ever met? What makes him so sweet to everyone, and why does he lack the Libra vanity? Any insight into this would be awesome! I'm just trying to learn about Astrology, and myself, and I thought this would be a great place to start! Remember, I'm just a beginner!
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MyVirgoMask Knowflake Posts: 1988 From: Bay Area, CA Registered: May 2009
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posted March 17, 2010 04:57 PM
Your Lilith conjuncts several of his planets - that might be one of the reasons he brings out so many basket case emotions out of you. Plus I think his midheaven conjuncts your 8th house cusp. How he is, the way he carries himself in general, and presents himself to the world, somehow effects you on a very core level. IP: Logged |
bunnies Knowflake Posts: 146 From: u.k Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 18, 2010 09:16 AM
I am an Aquarian and the most wonderful connection I ever had with anyone of the opposite sex was with a gay man. We met in Spain and spent the most intense 3 days together. I will never feel like that about anyone again. It was a most spiritual experience. All our barriers came down and I was completely honest with him. Within 2 minutes of meeting him I said something that made me clap my hand over my mouth because I couldn't believe those words had come out of me and he said he felt the same. It was utterly bizarre.I was like some naive child who had no past history of relationships. We sat together all night and I had no need of sleep and did not feel tired. He was like "love cocaine! I never saw him again. I didn't want to. It was a perfect moment in my life and I will never forget it. My heart never fully recovered....but in a good way.IP: Logged |
StainedDarkBlu Knowflake Posts: 4 From: Forsyth, GA, USA Registered: Jul 2009
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posted March 18, 2010 12:34 PM
Charlie and I have known each other for 2 years, and every day, it's like it keeps getting better and better.I am totally aware that he is gay, and he is not my boyfriend, and all that. I already had to get past that, but it's like...people wouldn't think I was half as crazy if he was straight. It just so happens that the man I feel like was destined to complete me is gay. And I'm just expected to treat him like any other friend. And it's so hard when we have such an incredible relationship. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 1010 From: Columbus, GA USA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 19, 2010 09:42 PM
Wow.------------------ "I have found a desire within myself that no experience in this world can satisfy; the most probable explanation is that I was made for another world." -C.S. Lewis IP: Logged |
StainedDarkBlu Knowflake Posts: 4 From: Forsyth, GA, USA Registered: Jul 2009
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posted March 19, 2010 10:15 PM
Randall, I see you're from Georgia! Me too!IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask Knowflake Posts: 1988 From: Bay Area, CA Registered: May 2009
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posted March 19, 2010 11:54 PM
I used to live in Alpharetta too. Funny.IP: Logged |
StainedDarkBlu Knowflake Posts: 4 From: Forsyth, GA, USA Registered: Jul 2009
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posted March 20, 2010 11:38 AM
Charlie lives in Alpharetta. Now this is just getting weird. haha!IP: Logged |
jenfullmoon Knowflake Posts: 28 From: California Registered: Jun 2009
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posted March 23, 2010 11:23 PM
Your Moon/Mars are right in with his Uranus and Saturn. As far as I can tell, that might be the cause of your whammy.IP: Logged |