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Author Topic:   Am I forcing myself to fall in love with Mr. Scorpio
esheep123
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From: brooklyn, ny usa
Registered: Oct 2010

posted March 22, 2011 02:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for esheep123     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've decided to move away from my Scorpio infatuation. My husband told him yesterday morning that we're moving. My husband isn't "onto me" or anything. He has no clue what I've felt, what I almost did, and how it's not his face I picture in the midst of things. He wants to find something cheaper (Venus Capricorn).

Scorpio has been holed up for two days. He even had his daughter ask me to take her to school. She said "Dad spent the entire night putting together a puzzle and didn't sleep until 5 am. He's sleeping now"


Of course, I automatically assumed this meant that he wanted me to know he stayed up all night thinking about the spontaneous moving news. Am I right?

I wonder if he knows how hard this is for me. I've been trying to get over him, but moving seems like the only option. Otherwise I've wrapped myself into this mental illness, and can't seem to find a cure.

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Scorpionic_Web
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posted March 22, 2011 05:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Scorpionic_Web     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My guess is that he backed off because of his wife. I can't imagine how that Scorpio handles a marriage to an Aqua. I wonder what his other placements must be to settle down with an Aquarius.

He probably legitimately wants you in some form; a 6-8 vibe can have plenty of sexual energy, but I'm sure he puts his responsibilities first, even if he has any vision of what may be a better life with you.

Personally, I've felt a lot of the 6-8 sexual vibes. In my case, I generally attract Aries sexually, while finding myself sexually attracted to Gemini girls (the other Scorpio 6-8 vibe). But I've never wanted anything more than sex from Gemini women. I've never dated a Gemini, nor have I had sexual relations with any, but I've dated more Gem Moon ladies than any other Moon sign.

Anyway. Scorpios, for all of their devious nature, do their best to honor their promises, and there aren't many promises greater than marriage.

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RMChex
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posted April 18, 2011 11:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RMChex     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi,

I don't think you are/were forcing yourself to fall in love with him, I think you were allowing yourself to. It sounds like you need/needed a dose of excitement and part of that might have been the challenge of getting the quiet, withdrawn attractive neighbour to open up to you. It sounds like he was as in to the challenge as you, so I don't think you're imagining any of it. Then, just as it started to happen, he stopped it happening which has thrown you off course and, of course, made you long for it all the more!

There are several options as to why he stopped so suddenly; guilt over his wife, for him the challenge was over he knew he 'had' you if he wanted, changed his mind, panicked that he might be falling in to a trap set by his wife or a private investigator lol, etc... If it is any of those reasons, it will take a miracle to make him start up again - and the likelihood is that it would stop again just as suddenly.

As rough as it is, I don't think you have much of a choice in this, other than to swallow your annoyance and pretend he doesn't exist. Literally. It might make you feel better quicker, and it has the best chance of annoying him haha.

Good luck whatever you decide to do!

Rachel

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esheep123
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From: brooklyn, ny usa
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posted April 25, 2011 11:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for esheep123     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Since the moving news, things have been happening. He's been leaving me little presents.
A heart shaped cut out that was stuck onto my windsheild,

a green windmill with hearts tied to the tree that I park my car next to each day.

He put a return address sticker with his name and address, and picture of a birthday cake on it near my doorbell on my birthday.

And then, he left me a souvenier flattened penny near my washing machine in the basement. The message on it is "I love you"

He keeps smiling at me, and he seems to bump into me without talking. Just a hello.

I wrote him a letter, basically telling him how I wish we could be together, and maybe someday we will. I also bought him a present that I hope he understands the meaning behind it. I plan to leave it in his car one of these days, and he'll find it on his way to work.

He's making some last minute effort, but I am not sure what for. I mean, I'm leaving because I just couldn't handle it. I was too sad for too long.

Best case scenario: he wants me to know how he really feels

Worst case scenario: he wants to get laid before I go...

I no longer believe that I was forcing myself to like some guy.

I really do believe that his presence in my life has some meaning. It's not everyday you meet someone, and you fall in love, without saying a word.

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